The first part of my transition started in the residence halls. While on the elevators, one of the guys that I met at orientation welcomed me to my floor and introduced me to his roommates. I then met my residence advisor (RA) who welcomed me to the floor with open arms. She seemed like a really nice person so I knew I would not have any problems with her. When I first walked into my dorm room, I wasn't quite sure about how my roommate and I were going to be able to live in there. I knew there would be no way for all my belongings to fit in the small space. I wasn't sure if I would be able to make this transition from home living to college living. Back home I was used to sleeping in my bed at night in my own bedroom. I wasn't used to sharing a room with someone else. My mind was set on succeeding in college so I knew I had to adjust quickly. The first night while lying in my bed I remembered the band Coldplay singing their song, "Clocks." I had the lyrics, "Home, home where I want to go," stuck in my head. It was only the first night of college and I already missed my friends and family back home in Chicago. I quickly forced myself to fall asleep, knowing that I had a long day of classes approaching.
The first few days here were not too bad because I spent them meeting people and getting to know the neighborhood. I grew very anxious once again the night before classes began, however, I remembered my father telling me that if I put my mind towards something, I could achieve whatever I desired. I woke up bright and early the next day ready to conquer any obstacles that were put in my way. I knew I was physically prepared for my classes, but I wasn't sure if I was mentally prepared. The classes in college were a lot bigger than high school. I wasn't used to having two hundred students in my Chemistry class. After my first day of classes I was frightened as well as eager to put forth my potential into my school work.
On the way back to the dorms I was greeted by a number of student organizations asking me to join. I was overwhelmed at the number of organizations such a small school had. I decided to join the Students Pharmacists Association (SPA), International Students Organization (ISO), and Student Council. I was an active member in my high school's student council chapter, so I already had the discipline and organizational skills I needed to succeed through out high school. I was eager to join these clubs and meet new people. I knew that these clubs would help me grow as a person and help me become more involved with the school and its activities. Before I left Chicago for college, I hoped I would make a broad group of friends. One of the nights I attended the Kappa Psi fraternity "tiki" party. I left the school with some friends I had made on my residence hall floor. I had great time at the party meeting new people and dancing with them. Half of the people that I met were from Chicago. I knew they had the same worries about college as I did, being so far away from home and all. I also met some kids of the same ethnicity as me in their second and third years.
A few nights later I decided to explore the city of St. Louis with a couple of new friends I made. We hitched a ride on the Metrolink to Union Station. I enjoyed a nice steak dinner and virgin margaritas at Houlihan's. I visited all the stores and walked in on someone's wedding in the grand ballroom. My friends and I were dressed up so nobody suspected us. I ended up having a great time at Union Station. The random fun my friends and I encountered, allowed us to strengthen our bond. My perspective on college was very different from what it actually turned out to be. I expected college to be this mature institution where everyone constantly studied and had intellectual thoughts constantly running through their minds.
My first week of college was a great eye-opener for me. I learned many useful tips on how to survive freshman year here. I realized that all the resources I need are here at college; it's just a matter of utilizing them. I had much insecurity about college life: the work load, roommate situation, being away from my parents, and whether I would fit in or not. Within a few days most of those worries were destroyed. During this first week alone, I discovered a lot about myself which has made the transition smoother. I found out that I was very independent and a quick learner. With my ambitions and work ethic I truly believe that the upcoming six years will be the best times of my life, and I intend to make the most of every moment.