In my opinion, some families today are no longer able to adequately meet the needs of their members. In today’s society, there are many instances where women, youths and children are in a horrible state of living. They are being abuse and maltreated by their own irresponsible parents or spouse. Not meeting their basic needs is considered as neglecting them. Neglect is a type of abuse where individuals fail to meet the basic needs of their dependent person. Victims of neglect are usually children, people with disabilities, and frail older adult. It occurs when a clean environment is not provided. In some cases, parents may even withhold or deny basic needs such as food water or clothing. Personal care medical care, education, and attention and love may also be denied or withheld. They may knowingly neglect their dependent or unintentionally neglect the person because they are unable to provide adequate care. For example, when a parent work too much and do not pay any attention to their children’s needs, like going to the doctor because of a tooth ache or any injury and pain, he/she is already abusing them. Looking into a bigger picture, there are many other issues of abuse that are happening in our society. For instance, the rate of abortion and women abuse are getting higher. I believe that those problems and many others are effect of a poor family relationship. Base on the meaning of family, it is the smallest and basic unit of society, however family is also the beginning of the society. Children who are considered as the fruit of the family are the ones who replace the older generation. If a person has a very strong personality, we can infer that there are many reasons why he/she has that kind of personality. If all children were brought up the way they’re supposed to be, our society would be in a good shape, but because there are many difficulties that are happening in our…
As a child Nate was expected to do adult chores. Nate was expected to plow in the fields from dawn to dusk at the early age of nine and was sawing with a cross cut saw by age twelve with his sister. He was treated very badly by his father who did not hesitate to beat him mercilessly if he wasn’t able to perform a task or was thought to be disrespectful in any way. Not only was he subjected to these beatings but his mother and stepmother was as well. Food was sometimes scarce and instead of dividing it among all the members of the household Nate’s father would expect to have it for himself while his children mostly grew up on bread and water. Nate’s mother would often give the children her food going with very little herself. Witnessing this behavior, Nate vowed to never treat his wife or children in the manner that he and his family had been treated.…
Laurence H. Tribe is a critically acclaimed author and professor of Constitutional Law at Harvard. His speech at the Ford Hall Forum was a summarization of his book “The Invisible Constitution.” In it, Tribe proposes a new way at looking at the Constitution we have come to worship. More than a tangible document, the true power of the Constitution is the series of implications that exist in it; the “invisible” aspects.…
The text explains that one is less interested in children in distant places. The text highlight the example of the child drowning in the pond to explain the contradiction of one’s moral reasoning. Like the dog, one feel responsible for one child not many children. One is best able to respond when dealing with a “single victim”. Thus, “mass suffering” would not get the attention it needs because there is too many people involved. That’s the reason why some people are not interesting in donating for poverty…
While it is important for an individual to have a high self-esteem in order to fulfill his or her goal, it is also important to know one’s weaknesses and respect the capabilities of others. Jean Twenge demonstrates this idea in her essay,“An Army of One: Me,” and shows how having high self-esteem without a solid basis for it can lead to children who feel superior to others. In contrast to the egotistical people illustrated in Twenge’s essay, in his essay, “Wisdom,” Robert Thurman discusses how the process of reaching enlightenment is difficult, but once achieved leads to a compassionate life where an individual can feel empathy with others. Subsequently, in her essay, “Selections from Reading Lolita in Tehran,” Azar Nafisi focuses on teaching…
One story that conveyed an important lesson to me was the story about Bryan Stevenson preparing for the hearing in an empty courtroom in the Midwest. In this passage the judge assumed that Stevenson was the client and not an attorney. The judge told Stevenson he could not be in the courtroom without representation and Stevenson politely corrected him. “The judge laughed at his mistake, and the prosecutor joined in. I forced myself to laugh because I didn’t want my young client, a white child who had been prosecuted as an adult, to be disadvantaged by a conflict i had created with the judge before the hearing. But I was disheartened by the experience. Of course innocent mistakes occur, but the accumulated insults and indignations caused by…
“Parents can only give good advice or put them on the right paths, but the final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands.” People are born into situations that are not always ideal for growing up, and that is often related to said person following in the steps of a poorly guided life. These situations are not excuses for following that path because though the situation might be very bad the individual still can make their own choices and decisions, and can change the way they live life. It is harder to make change, and be different than those around you, but it is entirely possible. Even without direct guidance or proper role models people still know right from wrong and can observe the people around them seeing how to act and how not to act. Following the path of change and being an individual is not easy but on that path whether you have no parental guidance, or role models, or even if you have the perfect life, it is still your choice to act right or wrongly. If that path is taken correctly and the experiences are looked at with a positive mindset, things are essential to a successful life. The shift in parental roles in Plainsong impacted the children positively due to the positive developments in their characters by portraying commitment, work ethic, intestinal fortitude, and the ability to determine right…
People are different no matter where they come from; it’s the society that brings in change. Peace is something people look for, but when it comes to power it changes everything to violence. Humanity is cruel and unique in many different ways to make things change, that affects many from time when, its need of helping others. In the story “The Life You Safe May Be Your Own”, by Flanner O’Conner, as the story begins, and old woman and her thirty-year-old, mentally handicapped daughter, are sitting on their porch. Tom Shiftlet, a wandering one-armed man, becomes known with Lucynell Crater. That night, the Lucynell Crater makes her offer of her daughter as a wife to Tom Shiftlet but he says “he cannot get married because he has no money”. Then…
What they soon learn is that people make mistakes, no one is perfect. Including those they may look up to the most, for example their parents. Their parents are the ones who teach them right from wrong, and so the kids may expect their parents to go by this as well. Most of the times the kids are disappointed to find out their parents aren’t perfect either. After that, they either chose to make the same mistake or chose to learn from it. “Monkey see, monkey do.”…
In both Night by Elie Wiesel and The House on Mango Street by Sandra Cisneros, the protagonists, Esperanza and Eliezer are faced with events that make them stronger and better people. They are two examples of individuals that support the validity of the quote that Helen Keller once said “Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through the experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired and…
The story “ The Prince and the Pauper” by Mark Twain Dramatized by Joellen, is one story that some still read today and is relevant in today’s society. As in lines 65-68 Tom Canty (the Pauper) explained how he was beaten and mistreated by his father because he did not bring any food or money home for supper that night. As outrageous as it sounds it is still relevant to today’s society. Children are beaten as a sign of discipline, and it happens for lots of reasons. Even though people think that no one would ever be so idiotic or unintelligent for something like this to occur in homes. People will abuse their children if they don’t bring money for food, in an area of people it will most occur is where people that are homeless and starving need some of those basic things…
The point is illustrated by the well known story of the boy who acquired the evil habit of stealing and his indulgent and his fond mother did not punish him for it. He was encouraged by her attitude, and petty thefts soon led on to much greater thefts. Ultimately the result was dacoity and murder and he was sentenced to be hanged till death. His lat wish was a few words with his mother. When his mother came he pretended as if he wanted to whisper something in her ears. But when she came nearer, he cut…
The future development and maintenance of the world is in the hands of the children at present. These children will grow up to be our politicians, doctors and accountants. However these very prestigious positions aren’t just handed out like ice cream. Only a selective group of people possess the qualities to achieve these occupations, mainly consisting of children growing up in a relatively medium to high socioeconomic and loving family. This secure and supportive upbringing stabilises the child’s mental development by providing consistent education (school) and domestic learning skills. However children that are deprived of this (i.e. orphans) go through much tougher experiences and don’t mentally develop the same as others because they are not given the same opportunities. The issue of relative loss due to ill health or accident can put a barrier between a child’s mind and a healthy mental development. Also children that move country are cognitively halted due to the fact that they have to ‘catch up’ with new languages and culture.…
Be willing to learn from mistakes. Not only children, even adults make mistakes. As a part of the House of children, we should be willing to learn from our mistakes.…
The way we are raised by our families could affect the way we understand and look into the contexts of one’s behavior. For example, rather than be rigid over rights or claims, step siblings generally do not regard with spite but look after each other’s welfare even when one is illegitimate. And of course, the prodigal child is always given a second chance.…