Girl, written by Jamaica Kincaid, is a short story about the relationship between a mother and daughter. Actually, it reflects the true living background in Kincaid’s time by listing a series of imperative sentences, which show how the mother had a certain life style on how she wanted her daughter to live up. In this story, the setting and tone and characters interlace and work together to create an intense description of the daily conversation between the mother and daughter, and they present the low social status of working-class women’s living attitude.…
By reading Jamaica Kincaid’s “Girl” story, the author shows how the mother communicates with her young daughter. For example, she gives a lot of advice to her daughter; “this is how you sweep a yard; this is how you smile to someone you like completely; this is how you set a table for dinner” (Kincaid) and much more. The mother gives her best to show her daughter how to live a good life and having a good self-esteem. In contrast, Eudora Welty’s “A Worn Path” story, the author also shows how Phoenix Jackson communicates with her grandchild. She doesn’t give advice for her grandchild but she makes sure that he obtains the right medicine. In addition, she said, “This is what come to me to do” (Welty 246). Compared to “Girl” story,…
“Girl” by Jamaica Kincaid is a short story/poem was published in The New Yorker in 1978. There are many things that the story “Girl” shows us. One is the oppression of women and the lack of the options that women got. Another is the change in parenting techniques as orders like these wouldn’t be issued in today’s world. The narrator also shows how the gender role has grown since the late 1970s, shows the little girl protesting toward her mother, and shows the love a mother has for her daughter.…
“Adam and Eve” by Ani Difranco and “Girl” by Jamaica Kincaid are two literary works that speak to the issue of how important it is to have a mother in a daughter’s life. It is the life experience(s) that can only be communicated to a daughter by her mother. The emotions, feeling and understanding of the female experience of what a woman goes through in life. When a young lady does not receive this information for the female prospective is the difference between socialites view and becoming of a “bad” or “good” girl. It is critical to have a mother in the life of a daughter to provide emotional balance, feeling and understanding from a woman’s point of view.…
Jamaica Kincaid creates a motherly figure in her short story that is telling a younger girl how to act to be socially accepted in the Caribbean Islands. One point of advice that the motherly figure gives to the girl is “This is how you grow okra- far from the house, because okra tree harbors red ants” (Kincaid 171). In America we do not have okra trees therefore we do not have to worry about red ants. On the other hand, in the Caribbean Islands they do and younger girls should know were to grow okra trees on the island. By the motherly figure giving this advice she is influencing how the younger girl should grow up. Also, the motherly figure gives the girl advice on how to avoid an unplanned pregnancy. Kincaid writes “This is how to make a good medicine for a cold; this is how to make a good medicine to throw away a child before it even becomes a child” (171). Bailey Carol writes that “Younger, unmarried women are usually those who seek abortions more frequently, and so this instruction about “how to throw away a child” may be a tacit permission to be other than “chaste” in her private life.” Giving the advice to a younger child influences them to think before they act. The motherly figure telling the girl about how to make medicine on how to “throw away a child” also influences the girl to think of the consequences after the…
In the excerpt from An American Childhood by Annie Dillard, the reader receives an intimate passage written from a daughter’s point of view of her eccentric mother. Through a unique string of constructive anecdotes and a warm, lighthearted tone, Dillard develops her readers understanding of the qualities she sees in her mother and her positive outlook on those qualities. Though a single quality is not explicit, the passage provides implicit evidence of her mother’s wit, commendable sense of humor and unceasing energy.…
Mama, the narrator of Alice Walker’s story, “Everyday Use,” is a strong, loving mother who is sometimes threatened and burdened by her daughters, Dee and Maggie. Gentle and stern, her inner monologue offers us a glimpse of the limits of a mother’s unconditional love. Mama is brutally honest and often critical in her assessment of both Dee and Maggie. She harshly describes shy, withering Maggie’s limitations, and Dee provokes an even more pointed evaluation. Mama resents the education, sophistication, and air of superiority that Dee has acquired over the years. Mama fantasizes about reuniting with Dee on a television talk show and about Dee expressing gratitude to Mama for all Mama has done for her. This brief fantasy reveals the distance between the two and how under appreciated Mama feels. Despite this brief daydream, Mama remains a practical woman with few illusions about how things are.…
Jamaica Kincaids Girl is based on therough relationship she had with her own mother. The short story shows the way amothers attitude and language can affect her daughter. The storyalso shows how the way a child is treated shapes their future. In Girl,Kincaid shows the world how she remembers being treated while she was growing upand how much it affected her.…
The central idea in this story seems to be the mother’s search of an understanding of her daughter’s personality and outlook on life. The majority of the story is the mother trying to depict reasons for why her daughter is the way she is, so delicate, reserved, needless, and even unhappy at times. She seems to also defend her parenting choices by making excuses or blaming the urges of others in order to not have all the blame on her. She speaks about how she had no other option but to put her in the care of someone else at the age of two, even though she knew the teacher was “evil” (Pg. 925). “It was the only place there was…the only way I could hold a job” (pg. 925).…
By providing anecdotes in her article, Hanes appeals to mothers on a personal and emotional level. She first grabs her readers’ attention by opening with a testimony from a mother, Mary Finucane, who was battling the same problem with her daughter. It seemed that after being exposed to the Disney Princess, her daughter exemplified new, less imaginative behavior. While her peers viewed the behavior as normal, Finucane became alarmed. Another supporting illustration of Hanes connecting to her audience is when she included the memorable moments a daughter, Maya Brown, shared with her mother, Professor Brown. Maya vividly remembers her mother distinguishing between good or poor representations of women on television when she was growing up. Her mother also would empower the female characters in storybooks to ensure that her daughter would not fall victim to feeling second-rate to males. By adding these realistic situations to the article, it makes it easier for Hanes’s audience to relate. It also provided a sense of hope seeing that both situations resulted in a success…
Throughout this novel the theme of motherhood, or lack thereof, is very prevalent. However; the…
Although America is an ever-changing country some things never change. Within many years women have fought through countess barriers yet haven't gotten too far from the original stereotypes of them. The conventional gender identities shape women in present society, while creating a war within the women whether to be ideal feminine and motherly, or sophisticated corporate and selfish.…
“Girl,”written by Jamaica Kincaid, is a prose poem about the relationship between a mother and daughter. In reality, it reflects the actual living background in Kincaid's time by listing a series of important sentences; as read, it shows that her mother disciplined her for a certain lifestyle and now she wants the same living for her daughter. In this poem, the setting, tone, and characters engage and work together to create an acute description of a day-to-day conversation between mother and daughter.…
Women nowadays are not worried about society, women tend to behave more liberal and find happiness in self dependency. Women do not care how the world will criticized her daughter because both men and women sees each other equal. However, A while back, being a women was the toughest job.Women were just typical housewives who had to take care of her family and sometimes they had to self-sacrifice because she worries how the society will view her. In “The Girl,” the writer Jamaica Kincaid shows how a mother is training her daughter to get ready for adulthood. As she describes in the story, mother is being very controlling to her daughter. where women have to act and dress properly, set the dinner table right, how to smile at the one you like and so on. She points out by giving a list of the chores and how to behave in the story.While reading this short story, readers would find that back in the days girls were being pressured and…
In contrast, the short story “Girl” by Jamaica Kincaid suggests that women are sentenced to patriarchy as a result of socially constructed gender stereotypes. She criticizes the idealized patriarchal norms and pressures which overshadow the lives of women. Starting early on in their childhood, little girls are explicitly exposed to the pressures and expectations of how they should live. As a result of gender stereotypes, young girls are brainwashed to believe that their role as a woman is a domestic homemaker and that they should always be kempt and maintain a feminine outer appearance. Kincaid ultimately criticizes how women and girls are trapped under a system of patriarchy that can not be erased.…