Girl, written by Jamaica Kincaid, is a short story about the relationship between a mother and daughter. Actually, it reflects the true living background in Kincaid’s time by listing a series of imperative sentences, which show how the mother had a certain life style on how she wanted her daughter to live up. In this story, the setting and tone and characters interlace and work together to create an intense description of the daily conversation between the mother and daughter, and they present the low social status of working-class women’s living attitude.…
As most parents rear their kids, they put up a curtain which aims to block their children from worries and violence. While it may be the instinctional path, both Gemma and I want to understand our parents and take a glimpse at their personal struggles to help guide them as they guide us. In “Able, Baker, Charlie, Dog”, Stephanie Vaughn writes from a twelve-year-old’s perspective to emphasize the blurred view Gemma has of her parents. When Gemma talks with her mother about going through puberty Gemma observes that “[her mother] must have known immediately what the problem was, but she did not smile.” (41) Her mother conceals her own humor to try to be an ideal mom…
In her relationship with Jody Starks - her second marriage - she is physically abused many times. Jody saw this as assurance he had control. Today, every one in four women are abused because women have been known to be seen as more of objects than actual people. It was not until 1900 that the New York’s Married Women’s Property Act of 1848 was passed in every state granting married women ‘some’ control and rights to their property and earnings. There is a stereotype for women that still exists today expressing the idea that women are not capable of all of the things men have been said to be.…
In Amy Giles’ novel, Now is Everything, Giles distinctly portrays how domestic abuse can take a toll on a person. I feel that she makes the reader fully aware that abuse of any kind, whether it be emotional or physical, is a substantial issue all over the world. Victims of abuse shouldn’t feel embarrassed or anxious to come forward about it, and that is the painfully clear message that Giles is sending to her readers. From my point of view, for her not having a personal encounter with abuse, Giles unveiled to the audience the actuality of living in a home with an abusive father, and a mother who is not willing to put an end to it.…
“Adam and Eve” by Ani Difranco and “Girl” by Jamaica Kincaid are two literary works that speak to the issue of how important it is to have a mother in a daughter’s life. It is the life experience(s) that can only be communicated to a daughter by her mother. The emotions, feeling and understanding of the female experience of what a woman goes through in life. When a young lady does not receive this information for the female prospective is the difference between socialites view and becoming of a “bad” or “good” girl. It is critical to have a mother in the life of a daughter to provide emotional balance, feeling and understanding from a woman’s point of view.…
My father had disappeared before my birth, and my mother never mentioned a single thing about him. Whenever she mentioned him, she did so out of spite and resentment. My mother and I lived happily together, singing and laughing at the things Grover’s Corners had for us. As I grew up, however, my mother changed from the sweet, kind person I had known to a cynical old woman who smoked cigarettes constantly. The mother I used to sing church hymns with had long disappeared, replaced by a vicious woman who considered her son as nothing more than a hindrance.…
In the excerpt from An American Childhood by Annie Dillard, the reader receives an intimate passage written from a daughter’s point of view of her eccentric mother. Through a unique string of constructive anecdotes and a warm, lighthearted tone, Dillard develops her readers understanding of the qualities she sees in her mother and her positive outlook on those qualities. Though a single quality is not explicit, the passage provides implicit evidence of her mother’s wit, commendable sense of humor and unceasing energy.…
over the girl’s life and her lifestyle changed dramatically. Lack of money, rape, and loneliness…
A Child Called “It”, by Dave Pelzer, is a story that opens your eyes to the world where abuse is revealed. This Novel exposes the world to a man that was once a victim of child abuse. This story tells the devastating story of the horrible abuse of the Dave Pelzer by this alcoholic, deranged mother. His memoir reflects the struggles he faced with abuse, and how he survived by relying on faith, determination, and his humbleness towards the strangers around him. Dave Pelzer, also the author of the Novel, lived in Dale City, California with is mother, father, and two brothers. His mother was an alcoholic and abused day in horrifying way—which included locking him in the bathroom with a bucket of noxious chemicals, making him eat his brother’s feces, starving him, and many other extreme forms of abuse. Throughout this novel, Dave’s father and brothers ignores the horrifying abuse going on in their household. Dave’s father and brothers sit idly by and allow the abuse to take place for years. Shockingly, Dave’s brothers would often take part in the mother’s abusive episodes. Later, in the story, the police finally intervened, and Dave got taken away from his mother and was put in a foster home. In this foster home, Dave learns that there is more to life and that people do overcome struggles. This change of scenery allowed Dave to see…
Throughout the course of the Girlstories seminar, we have discussed many narratives that center around the environments that women develop in. These environments shape their beliefs, their thoughts, and their characterization. The films, Killing Us Softly and Thirteen, apply this idea to a realistic setting that many young girls experience. Around the time of puberty, many young girls find themselves in a vulnerable state as their bodies and their minds develop and mature. These films highlight the enormous pressure and dangers that adolescent girls face due to the environment that society provides.…
Growing up, Toya never knew her biological father. Instead she lived with her mom and stepfather. Toya would often see the two arguing and eventually it came to her stepfather beating her mother up on his drinking binges. Finally her mother getting so tired of this abuse grabbed her two daughters and took shelter. Although, once Toya’s mother could not afford the nightly shelter fee she arranged for her girls and herself to stay with a friend. When she went home one day to get the girls’ clothes her husband strangled her to death. Toya walked in the bathroom to find her mother dead on the floor. After the murder of her mother, Toya and her sister were sent to a group home and later to their aunt’s house. Toya was sexually abused by her stepfather who had a huge effect on her. She later became pregnant and gave birth to a boy during her junior year. This ruined a lot for her in school. She was now going to study at home, return to high school the next year and attend college. “I didn’t have time to think about tomorrow. I had to survive today,” (47). Her plans were completely ruined when both her aunt and cousin kicked her out. She could not graduate from high school but instead got her GED and will attend college with the help of her church.…
As a young mother, the narrator expresses how she wanted to be the best mother, the right mother for her child Emily. She admits that she was a first time mother " with all the rigidity of first motherhood " She reads books to educate her self and she believes the "experts" and what makes the best kind of mother. Tillie Olsen writes about how the character, through physical sacrifice, nursed her child. The story raises our awareness of gender and family roles by the comments of the narrator. We become aware of the constraints we place upon ourselves to fit in with what the majority believes each role in a family should be.…
“Girl,”written by Jamaica Kincaid, is a prose poem about the relationship between a mother and daughter. In reality, it reflects the actual living background in Kincaid's time by listing a series of important sentences; as read, it shows that her mother disciplined her for a certain lifestyle and now she wants the same living for her daughter. In this poem, the setting, tone, and characters engage and work together to create an acute description of a day-to-day conversation between mother and daughter.…
STOP! Before you read further I need to warn you.. Before you read understand she is not an ordinary girl but she is extraordinary. This is my story a story that is incomplete, a story of a girl who struggled through life and turned into a person who hates everything. SHE am rude and honest if you can’t handle that read a different book or make yourself comfortable because SHE am about to begin my story. Are you ready to hear the path of this youngster life that took through revenge and full of hatred life. It staring out of the window in a cloudy night. She recalls everything that has happened to her. The sacrifice her family made for her. The so-called realtors that pretended to be her family.the people that turned their back when her family…
The first fact that I found interesting in this film was that if you don’t have a son and you have a daughter in china, people will look down on you because sons are the ones who carry on the family name. The word that I think goes well with this is the word patriarchy. Patriarchy is men-as-a-group dominating women-as-a-group; authority is vested in males. This goes well because if the female doesn’t not have a boy the men will shame them. There are 13 million more young boys in china right now than girls. If women do not have a boy the husbands tell them that they will send them away. It is very hard for women to talk about having a son because of all of the pressure they are under. Another reason people prefer boys is because boys…