Listening to what other people say is not a bad idea, but it doesn't mean that we have to believed and agreed to all what they'd said. Their intentions might be in good faith or it might be because they don't want us to get ahead of them. Or, maybe they don't want to see us being happy and having a good life while they're dwelling in their miserable life.
Every day when the sun rises, it brings new hopes, new dreams and gives us the chance to change our life. Different opportunities will comes along our way. Opportunities that will changed our life into something better.
So, when the times comes that it will knock our doors, we should welcome it and make a decision based on what we believed that can help to be a better and