“ live learned life is a lot like surfing , when you get caught in the impact zone , you need to get right back up because you never know what’s over the next wave and if you have faith anything is possible anything at all “…
One piece of research into the breakdown of romantic relationships is from Duck (1982). According to his phase model of the breakup of a relationship, it all begins with the breakdown of the relationship where there is dissatisfaction within the relationship. These dissatisfied partners then begin to consider all the problems within the relationship, thinking mostly about the relational ‘costs’ which develops a resentment for the relationship. This is known as the intra-psychic phase. Once a threshold of being unable to withstand the relationship anymore, the dissatisfied partner expresses their uncertainties about the relationship and so the dyadic phase has been reached and the couple will re-assess their goals, possibilities and commitment. If this is not successful, the social phase has been reached where the decision to leave the relationship is made and is publically discussed between third parties. Next, self-justifications and version-makings of the breakup are offered, which is known as the grave-dressing phase. Finally, the individuals will attempt to recreate a sense of their own social values, by preparing for different types of future relationships and knowing what they wish to get out of them, known as the resurrection process.…
"If you have the opportunity to play this game of life you need to appreciate every moment. a lot of people don't appreciate the moment until it's passed."…
“Hope. Hope is the only thing stronger than fear. A little hope is effective. A lot of hope is dangerously successful.”…
As human being we receive and perceive information in a wide variety of different ways. The understanding of communication to one person might be the total opposite to another person. Counselors within the human service field have to obtain the abilities and skills to interact and communicate with clients in a counseling setting. In doing so a counselor has to possession ability to use verbal and non-verbal communication skills, ask open and close ended question during the sessions, use reflective techniques, and identify explorations, clarification, and action stages in the counseling session.…
Death is something that we cannot hide from, run from, or escape, it is inevitable. Each and every one of us at some point in our lives, we will have to deal with the death of someone we know or someone we love. At this point we will have to learn how to navigate the five stages of grief; denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and finally acceptance. Grief can be felt at different magnitudes and different times. For some of us, we will be able to slowly negotiate our way through these stages, while for others it will be the hardest thing we will have to do in our lives. The five agreements that, Don Miguel Ruiz, Don Joe Ruiz, and Janet Mills, describe…
"The fight between life and death is to the finish, and death ultimately is the…
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Twisting up in a heartbroken circumstance is a standout amongst the most dreadful things somebody will encounter. Besides, setting an outing to some place where you feel most easygoing, you can deal with your feelings with the best way that could be accessible. You can exploit the trek and alter the current matter. Moreover, attempting to settle an issue in a circumstance where you are pushed can irritate the circumstance. Additionally, voyaging can be the best drug when you need to strengthen your life. Especially, in frightful circumstances, for example, losing your occupation, getting into a battle with your life accomplice, or notwithstanding something as basic as falling flat a test.…
"Either we live by accident and die by accident, or we live by plan and die by plan." In…
Breakups suck. I've come to realize that what I have been going through is very normal. Just seeing what my friends have been going through has made me see that it is normal to have a person you can never get completely over. No matter how hard you try to move on from this one person there will always be something there. It is not obsessive or overly attached. You come across someone who throws you off your original course completely out of nowhere and you will never be able to get back on that original course. That person changed everything. This person I was very close to. I have never been as close with anyone as I was with him. I told him things that I never even told my closest friends. I honestly feel like I will never be as close with…
Grief is a common response to unfortunate life situations. It usually accompanies loss, either of a loved one or a pleasant life situation. There are all kinds of emotions that accompany grief, such as sadness and anger.…
“Everyone knows they’re going to die but nobody believes it. If we did, we would do things differently.”…
“Human life consists in mutual service. So grief, pain, misfortune, or "broken heart" is no excuse for cutting off one's life while any power of service remains. But when all usefulness is over, when one is assured of an unavoidable and imminent death, it is the simplest of human rights to choose a quick and easy death in lace of a slow and horrible one (debate.org).”…
“Love is how you stay alive” (Albom 133). This was a quote in Tuesdays with Morrie. It was one of many that I made connections with people in my own life. People that I have looked up to for wisdom and relief that everything is going to be okay. Morrie was a man with good morals, and he believed that people need to devote themselves to their community and their self in order to have a meaning of life. Throughout the book, I believed the theme was about knowing what is important and learn to love one another.…