she did what she thought was right, and saved her husband’s life.
Nora’s nurse had to give up her daughter even though she did not want to.
Giving up her child was the best choice she had. The nurse says, “What, when I was going to get such a good place by it? A poor girl who has gotten into trouble should be glad to.”(36) A mother would never give up her own child but the nurse believed that it would be better for herself and her child. Also, if she didn't give up her child they might not survive since the nurse won’t be able to provide the basic necessities for her and her daughter.
The lies that Nora hid from Torvald reveals when he reads the letter from Krogstad. Before Torvald found out the lies behind Nora he said he would protect her from everything but when something does happen he did not. Nora realizes he does not love her as much as he says he does and decides to leave. She says, “I am going to see if I can make out who is right,the world or I.”(79) A woman during that time would probably stay with her husband because she needs to rely on a man, but Nora has her own opinions and believes she is better off
leaving.
However some people may think following the crowd would benefit you more, which in Nora’s case, following the crowd would be obeying Torvald. In the beginning, she did everything Torvald said, or at least it seemed like she did whatever he asked. Although it did benefit her because she had everything she needed, but for the long term it didn't work out.