Turkle says that technology has only made us even lonliner and gave us a false sense of confidence. She says that the solution to loneliness is not constant connection, but learning to be alone. If you can't be alone all you'll feel is loneliness. Similarly, social media gives us a false sense of confidence because we are able to present ourselves as who we want to be. Digital communication allows us to edit and alter "and if we wish to, we can delete. Or retouch: the voice, the flesh, the face, the body. Not too much, not too little - just right" (Turkle, 2) which makes us more confident because we are satisfied with our digital selfs that we can hit up our crush or post something that we never had the courage to say aloud. Although you feel better about yourself and more confident, this confidence does not transfer to the real world. You will still lack confidence because you can't delete your mistakes in conversations or distort and transform yourselves to someone you are proud of. So in a sense technology presents us dangerous illusions that we desperately want to be
Turkle says that technology has only made us even lonliner and gave us a false sense of confidence. She says that the solution to loneliness is not constant connection, but learning to be alone. If you can't be alone all you'll feel is loneliness. Similarly, social media gives us a false sense of confidence because we are able to present ourselves as who we want to be. Digital communication allows us to edit and alter "and if we wish to, we can delete. Or retouch: the voice, the flesh, the face, the body. Not too much, not too little - just right" (Turkle, 2) which makes us more confident because we are satisfied with our digital selfs that we can hit up our crush or post something that we never had the courage to say aloud. Although you feel better about yourself and more confident, this confidence does not transfer to the real world. You will still lack confidence because you can't delete your mistakes in conversations or distort and transform yourselves to someone you are proud of. So in a sense technology presents us dangerous illusions that we desperately want to be