CH. 9 SEXUAL BEHAVIORS
CELIBACY Complete celibacy - a person who does not masturbate or have interpersonal sexual contact. Partial celibacy- does not have interpersonal sexual contact, but still masturbates.
Celibacy or abstinence is an option until the person is ready for a sexual relationship- and becomes a positive act. Religion/morals: becoming a priest or a nun includes a vow of celibacy, celibacy until marriage, personal criteria for a good sexual relationship has been met, have experienced sexual confusion or disappointment in the past
EROTIC DREAMS AND FANTASY
-mental experiences (books, drawings, movies, photos) ways to explore and express experiences, feelings, and desires. Erotic dreams: dreams and orgasm may occur during sleep without a person's conscious direction. Can be logical or make no sense. Wake up with signs of sexual arousal-erection, vaginal lubrication, pelvic movements. Nocturnal orgasm- involuntary orgasm during sleep
Erotic fantasy: happen during daydreams, masturbation, or sex with a partner. (Images to representations of past experiences) Functions: source of pleasure and arousal during masturbation or sex with partner, overcome anxiety in a negative sexual situation, "forbidden wishes", provide relief from gender role expectations Male-female similarities and differences in sexual fantasy
1) frequency is similar for both sexes during sexual activity with a px
2) both men and women indicate a wide range of fantasy content differences: men- fantasies more active, focus on womans body and what he wants to do to it.
Woman- fantasies more passive, focus on men's interests in their bodies.
men- focus on explicit sexual acts, nude bodies
woman- more emotional context- romance
men- fantasize about multiple partners and group sex
woman- submission fantasies
Helpful and healthy aspect to sexuality
MASTURBATION
- Learning what feels good and what doesn't
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