There are times when we feel we must be perfect in order to please others. No matter if we did the best we could do, if it wasn't perfect we felt like a failure. We want the approval that comes with perfect ness. Every day we see a new commercial or magazine showing an image of a hunky, greased up muscle man or an anorexic model with tons of make up air brushed on her body and society compares you with that image. We as a people tend to use those false images of beauty as a scale to rate the rest of the population by and if you do not fit in that category you are not beautiful. So we strive to be accepted to be approved by the rest of society.…
What does the word perfect mean? Well, according to the Webster Dictionary, it means “being entirely without fault or defect” and/or “corresponding to an ideal standard or abstract concept.” Many people strive to be perfect. Whether it is the perfect hair, the perfect group of friends, or the perfect body; people strive for a perfect life. But is a perfect life an achievable thing? Everyone has a different idea of perfection, therefore; it is impossible to find one that we can all agree on. But the media sure does give everyone an idea of what perfection really looks like. Women must be skinny with smooth skin and men have to be muscular with great hair. “These cultural messages feed the deepest insecurity in ourselves and encourage us to…
Perfection is the ultimate human desire- to be without flaw and to be the most ideal to survive through the world’s expectations and humanity’s role in civilization. Modern society upholds and promotes the idea of materialistic wealth, power, and social status as the ultimate goal to achieve in life, and that one would not be truly happy unless they accumulate all of these, yet a member of royalty who had married into such opulence and glamour like Diana, Princess of Wales who lived a life that “ended up being far from a fairy tale” as “her struggles culminated with her marriage to Prince Charles crumbling in the 1990s and her death in 1997” would say otherwise (Greenman). Society is so entrenched into imprinting these contradicting messages…
Is anyone truly without fault or defect? Everyone has a different idea of perfection, therefore; it is impossible to find one that we can all agree on. But the media sure does give everyone an idea of what perfection really looks like. Women must be skinny with smooth skin and men have to be muscular with great hair. “These cultural messages feed the deepest…
As a society, we are out of control, spending majority of our time obsessing over our physical appearance, and worldly possessions. We have become a society that defines our lives by the amount of things we have and how we look. The media fills our minds with unrealistic images of beauty and the notion that you can never be” too much rich or be too thin”, and the reality is this information tends shape ones perception. What is the true meaning of beauty? Adolescence place value on peer acceptance for approval, while social messages about cultural norms influences them. Beauty is something that comes from within, it being comfortable with whom you are.…
There is a famous saying that says, "beauty is only skin deep." Is this really the case? Beauty and perfection are sought after in many ways by billions of people daily. What type of beauty are they looking for? What really is perfection? How long can it last?…
According to Akst, people nowadays are becoming more and more obsessed with how they look. Because people care so much about appearances, the beauty and cosmetic surgery industry have been booming. His research shows that the number of cosmetic surgeries have gone up 24% from 2000 to 2012 (Akst 332). Even the media industry profits off of our insecurities, as their ideals of beauty are becoming more and more impossible to attain. People of all ages spend money buying products that are unnecessary in an attempt to live up to the standards the media sets for us. But why do people spend so much time and effort on their looks?…
Perfection has no relevance to America. Modern day America has so many problems that people don’t even know where to start. I will be telling you about the government lies, obesity, and death by crimes. After reading this paper you should understand that we do not live in the dream land foreigners believe America is.…
Everyone has his or her own masks to wear. Some people wear their masks by choice, other times it is just horrible fate that people end up with what they have. NOTHING is perfect. But, at the same time, perfection lies in the imperfect world. I know that sounds like a contradictory thing to say... but perfection is something to stumble upon. Our own hands cannot create it; it's something that the fates can only control. Embrace chaos before it bites you in the ass. That's my thought for the…
“If you look for perfection, you'll never be content.” This quote by Leo Tolstoy reveals the cruelty in the idea of perfection and how the idea of perfection is a barrier for society’s contentment. Society today is enthralled with the idea of perfection and we sacrifice our contentment in search of what we think will be a greater, more satisfying and glorious life. Flawless by Lara Chapman, Soul Surfer by Sean McNamara, Bunheads by Sophie flack and Picture Perfect by Jodi Picoult are all stories how the idea of perfection shapes society and in turn shapes our beliefs and behaviour, stopping us from being truly content.…
Every time you open up a magazine, it stares at you right in the face - self-improvement, perfection. We see the perfect models with the perfect bodies. They have the perfect skin, the perfect hair, the perfect teeth. We look at it and say, "I know that's all done with computers. That model doesn't look like that in real life. That model has blemishes, imperfections, and probably anorexia," but is that how we really feel? We know it, but subconsciously, stored in the very back of our minds, is the fact that we want to look like that. We want to have the perfect body, the perfect skin, the perfect hair, the perfect teeth. Therefore, we struggle to achieve it, both men and women alike. Awhile ago, I came across a web site that said, "Beauty is a disguise that hides all imperfections." Although this isn't true in all cases, it helps put things that can't be seen based solely on appearance in a better perspective. Beauty can lie - perfection lies; it is merely a piece of beautiful Christmas wrapping around an empty box. The temptation of perfection leads us to nothing but the false assumption that we can live a in this imperfect…
There are many realities that we must come to terms with. Everyone does this in their own time and in their own way. It's not always pleasant, in fact, it rarely is. One of these many realities is that humans are not perfect. Despite all the ideals of what perfection should look like physically, personally, and socially; no one has achieved perfection.…
Generally speaking I am con in believing it is possible for a person to achieve moral perfection. Anyone can have morals, but to achieve them to perfection does not seem humanly possible. An example from my experience is to have discipline. Discipline teaches a person not to mess up in the future and to learn from your experiences. No matter how much discipline I have I know I cannot have this moral of mine perfected because I will make mistakes in the future. We can set morals for ourselves to follow but we are deemed to mess up occasionally. Although someone can say they live a perfect life, they are human just like you and I. Humans make mistakes whether we want to or not. This doesn’t mean our morals are out of sync, it just means we cannot achieve moral perfection in everything we do throughout our lives.…
Society manifests its obsession with physical perfection by having surgical procedures done on daily basis. These surgeries allow for almost any cosmetic transformation. For example a person can have anything from removing a birthmark to inserting breast implants to having a tummy tuck done on their body. Society manifests their obsession with physical perfection by having these procedures done to them. These procedures enable society to achieve "perfection", much like Georgiana in the "Birthmark".…
Perfection. It's more than just a universal truth. We believe in it. We crave it. We strive for it. It’s safe to say we basically breathe for it. But tell me, what is perfection? Each and every individual asked that question would have a greatly altered definition of their perception of perfection, ranging from personal appearance to success. It is a mere fact that depending on who you are, where you grew up, and what you're capable of, you are presented with different expectations on how you should live your life. You will always be expected to be the very best; to be perfect. It is quite understandable, even from an average person’s perspective, that along with being a well-known individual, certain expectations from the general public exist.…