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In The Poem 'Those Winter Sundays' By Robert, Hayden
In the Poem “Those Winter Sundays” the Author Robert, Hayden gives the readers the tragic realization that we don’t always appreciate the ones that mean the most to us. He clearly demonstrates the pain that neglecting to appreciate our loved ones can cause. Although the speaker didn’t realize at a younger age everything his father did to care for the family, and that his father was left unappreciated. By the end of the poem once lonely and left with time to reflect on the true value of his father’s love, he sees how blind he was growing up.
In the first stanza, the narrator is already reflecting on his old memories of his father. Within the first couple lines its immediately shown the devotion and dedication. He is reflecting on the lack

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