The rhetorical situation of the article revolves around Goodmans believe that present day people have become obsessively attached to their mobile devices and how this will drastically harm our future because of how accustomed we have gotten with simplicity, and our obsession is detaining us from becoming the next big thinker. Goodman supports his claim with pathos, "How, in this age of relentless electronic distraction, will our civilization sustain the sense of solitude that is necessary to produce the next Brontë or Bellow, the next Augustine or Alighieri....". However, Goodman should have recognized that we are revolutionizing and will never become like his college years. If we go back in history, we used to use the Pony Express to deliver…
What is Loneliness and Companionship Today Introduction Anna Quindlein's article titled Doing nothing is something published on May 12, 2002 and William Deresiewicz's The End Of Solitude published February 30, 2009 seek to explain how modernity has changed the way man socializes and spends time. Quindlein views this change from the perspective of a busy scheduled life more so for children who now lack time for themselves while Deresiewicz looks at it from the angle of a lonely but an overly communicating people.…
I have found that both “Kick Back and Endure Being Bored and Uncomfortable” by Clive Hamilton, and William Deresiewicz’s “The End of Solitude” can be efficiently summarized with the great social psychologist, Erich Fromm’s quote, “If I am what I have, then I lose what I have, who then am I?”. Hamilton’s article reflects his view illustrating that he views modern technology as a deterrent for people’s natural ability to not only accept, but to appreciate absolute gratification of solitude. It is this concept of people’s growing disvalue of solitude that both I, and Deresiewic concur with (demonstrated in his essay). I feel that the ability of people’s easy accessibility to social media is nothing more than a barricade…
Is our youth doomed? Mark Edmundson begs this question in his essay, “Dwelling in Possibilities.” His essay explains how the lives of young people have changed drastically over the years. Edmundson, professor at the University of Virginia, says his students are constantly “going” and that they never stop; they never settle in fear of missing something great. In lieu of this, Edmundson says that they are, “victims of their own hunger for speed” (Edmundson2). He also adds that his students, and young people in general, use today’s technology to be “everywhere at once” (watching a movie, instant messaging, talking on the phone, and glancing at a textbook) and are therefore, “not anywhere in particular” (Edmundson 3). Edmundson’s uses a very unique style of rhetoric. He does not point fingers at anyone in particular for causing the problem, and he does not come across as harsh or aggressive. Instead, Edmundson asks the readers, particularly his fellow professors, to see a trend in society that often goes unnoticed. Although Endmundson purposes no solution to the problem, he uses personal observations, experiences, famous authors’ texts, and renowned poets’ works to successfully make readers understand his viewpoints.…
As John Donne said “No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of a continent, a part of the main.” Donne believes man cannot live a happy, successful life on his own without any connection to other living things. Loneliness and seclusion are extremely prevalent issues in the 21st century society primarily because we find increasing reliability to non-verbal interaction, rising globalization and reliance on technology. In Richard Matheson’s “I am Legend”, the effects of isolation on man’s psyche and overall well being are demonstrated through Robert Neville’s need for companionship, constant interior monologue and his various addictions. Matheson in essence predicted what the 21st century would be like, as there are many parallels between the novella and the lives of people today.…
Cited: Deresiewicz, William. “The End of Solitude.” The Chronicle Review 30 January 2009. The Chronicle of Higher Education. Web. 26 May 2011.…
Barbara Lazear Ascher wrote this essay to help audiences see the difference between chosen and unchosen loneliness. With a numerous amount of examples she shows the reader the difference between someone who willingly chooses to live life alone, and people who find themselves lonely and dwell about it.…
Crawford wants to highlight the fact that even though technologies such as the iPhone and the Internet impact the way we currently live our lives, it does not hold complete responsibility for our collective distractibility. He ties in our collective distractibility with the Enlightenment movement of the 17th century when philosophers John Locke and Immanuel Kant argued that what we experience is not reality, but inner variations and representations of our own reality placed into our private minds. While the outside version of reality is filled with rules and authority figures, our inner private minds is free and holds no constraints like that in the outside. According to Crawford, the Enlightenment was the time when people in society decided to detach from one another. Throughout the book, Crawford talks about experts in their chosen fields and how they manage to complete what they do. He mentions that as we grow up from being a child to an adult, we acquire skills by studying one another and learning from what those around us…
The ideas which Ascher presents in this essay are applicable to everyone’s lives, whether it is learning about not judging people or understanding solitude as a whole, making it timeless. No matter what day and age, there will always be people who are living in solitude, whether they have chosen to or not. The Box Man, a homeless person, teaches us a very valuable lesson; find happiness in yourself, as in the end we must find a “friend in our own voice,” and accept that life is a “solo voyage” (20,…
The article explores the relationship among privacy, loneliness, and interpersonal communication. In essence, it examined the relationship among individual’s preferences for the six types of conversational sensitivity, loneliness, privacy, and interpersonal communication. Thus, the research seeks to answer the relationship between need for privacy, interpersonal communication motives, and conversational sensitivity. Further, it answers the relationship between loneliness and need for privacy, the relationship between loneliness and interpersonal communication motives. Finally, is it possible for the biological sex of an individual to be related to the need for privacy and loneliness?…
The author explains that it seems as though some individuals would rather live separated from the rest of the world, and who live their life never knowing anyone except themself. The author encourages the reader to go into the world and do everything they can, and to help, sing and develop relationships with others. No one can be entirely complete by themself, humans were created with a sense of and a yearning for community. Humans communicate through various platforms and methods, and more ways are becoming possible through the advancement of technology.…
Communication is very important in order to express needs and emotions. There are two types of communication, verbal and non-verbal, both of which are important in understanding and supporting someone.…
He develops his idea by pointing out that America today is not the same as it used to be (“Diaries once sealed under lock and key are now called blogs. Intimacies that were once whispered into the phone are now announced unabashedly into cell phones…”), especially because the “culture” nowadays surrounds the self-centered way of thinking through technology (“…television networks that already agree with your views, iPods that play only music you already know you like, Internet programs ready to filter out all but the news you want to hear”).…
This assignment is a reflective account on communicating with a patient who cannot communicate verbally. To remain confidential I will call the patient, Patient A. I’m going to discuss the importance of non-verbal communication within a healthcare setting. Patient A was a 63 year old lady suffering from MND which resulted in her losing her speech.…
Social isolation as “a state in which the individual lacks a sense of belonging socially, lacks engagement with others, has a minimal number of social contacts and they are deficient in fulfilling quality relationships” (Nicholson, 2009 p. 1346).…