people surveyed claimed feminists hate men. Women also feared to call themselves feminists because they were afraid they’d come off as unappealing to men. All of these social stigmas surrounding feminism suggest that it’s still strongly needed, if not for society altering changes such as the right to vote, but for social equality.
On the other side of the debate, Phyllis Schlafly argued that modern feminists regret conforming to the ideals of feminism and are becoming anxious and depressed trying to juggle the lifestyle feminists supposedly insisted they have.
She calls feminism a “violent attack against family” that has “done more harm than good”. She argues that there are no benefits to feminism nowadays and that the modern woman is expected to raise a family and have a job, ultimately becoming miserable because they’re told they have to have it all. She complains that women, because of feminism, think they don’t need marriage or a family and that a women’s role as mother and wife is being destroyed… that they “haven’t gotten the rewards of
feminism”.
This film also discusses the change that still needs to be made and why feminism truly is still necessary and far from dead. There’s still a disconnect between feminism for privileged versus non-privileged women, for example. The meaning of equality has changed, and discrimination has become more subtle and hard to see, yet is still very apparent in our society’s culture. Women still make 76 cents (or less depending on ethnicity) to every man’s dollar for the same work. Issues now are smaller, more personal battles that still have great significance in the grand scheme of achieving equality in a system in which inequality is internalized and institutionalized. Concerns such as career advancement (women are still less likely to get promotions compared to their male counterparts), availability of daycare and maternal/paternal leave, and a fight against everyday sexism that women encounter in their job, business transactions, and general treatment from society are still very apparent and need to be addressed. Sure, I’m able to acknowledge that we’ve made phenomenal strides in women’s rights, but just because everything looks good subjectively and on paper doesn’t mean there’s not still years upon years of work to do in order for our society to truly become one in which gender equality is always the norm. Thousands of years of inequality interweaved into our culture won’t erase itself so soon