I never saw my Dad sobbing, flowing his tears form his eyes and a mucus from his nose even though I saw him cry in pain and except when he was emoting when he is drunk.
And I’d experienced my boyfriend denying he cried because of our quarrel. I did’nt texted him and I ignored him in two days then when we met each other in the next day I saw his eyebags slightly bulged and his eyes looks he really cried (a true cry). So I asked him if he cry and he axaggeratedly say NO. I asked him three times then finally he said yes but he said he’s shy to say yes he cried because of our quarrel and Ignored him in two days. I said to hm it’s ok to cry but he insisted say yes it’s ok but qhen I’m alone and no one knows it. Society has the biggest role in our life, to be who we are and what we are. For more information, I’ve read that in Africa it’s their tradition not to cry because for them it means you are man but weak. For them it’s very rare for a man crying even in funeral. They cry once in a blue moon or lets say they don’t cry because also to their society. See? Society thought us to be strong and even lead us to our weaknesses. We are depending in our environment which is very