Is Sex the Ultimate Expression of Love
Oral Communications
Professor Grey
11 November 2012
Is Sex the Ultimate Expression of Love Some may claim that sex is the main way to express love; others will say that love has nothing to do with sex. Sex can be bought on a side of the road or taken from any innocent human being. While love is defined as a feeling in the dictionary, the words “sexual desire” is also located by the word love. This leaves many people on Earth wondering: how can I express my love? While lovers will have sex, so will little girls that are not supposed to be having sex. No one picks when they fall in love or who the fall in love with. A person may want to fall in or out of love but as a human we do not choose when, who, how, or where we fall in love. Love will take control. Love is not something that can be found on the side of the street for sale, love cannot be found anywhere for sale. Sex may be bought, on streets. Buying sex from women sex standing on the sidewalks cannot be defined as love. Buying sex could be defined as promiscuity, which is completely different than love. Marriage or partners may even be bought. Marriage comes with laws while love does not. Love does not come with papers or divorces. Marriage can end as soon as it begins. Marriage cannot be defined as love. A contract or certificate does not defy love. Only love knows love. (Deborah Anapol PhD). Divorced people can look back on marriages and know what went wrong or when their partner or their self-started to become unhappy. They can point out what could have made the marriage work better or what could have kept the marriage together. In Gretchen Rupin’s article, Four Important Ways to Show Love”, it has four ways of affection that could have been shown in divorced couples relationship to possibly make it work. The list begins with how often affection is shown. Affection is needed often but not an annoying amount of affection is needed. Second, how good the spouse makes the other feel about the person
Professor Grey
11 November 2012
Is Sex the Ultimate Expression of Love Some may claim that sex is the main way to express love; others will say that love has nothing to do with sex. Sex can be bought on a side of the road or taken from any innocent human being. While love is defined as a feeling in the dictionary, the words “sexual desire” is also located by the word love. This leaves many people on Earth wondering: how can I express my love? While lovers will have sex, so will little girls that are not supposed to be having sex. No one picks when they fall in love or who the fall in love with. A person may want to fall in or out of love but as a human we do not choose when, who, how, or where we fall in love. Love will take control. Love is not something that can be found on the side of the street for sale, love cannot be found anywhere for sale. Sex may be bought, on streets. Buying sex from women sex standing on the sidewalks cannot be defined as love. Buying sex could be defined as promiscuity, which is completely different than love. Marriage or partners may even be bought. Marriage comes with laws while love does not. Love does not come with papers or divorces. Marriage can end as soon as it begins. Marriage cannot be defined as love. A contract or certificate does not defy love. Only love knows love. (Deborah Anapol PhD). Divorced people can look back on marriages and know what went wrong or when their partner or their self-started to become unhappy. They can point out what could have made the marriage work better or what could have kept the marriage together. In Gretchen Rupin’s article, Four Important Ways to Show Love”, it has four ways of affection that could have been shown in divorced couples relationship to possibly make it work. The list begins with how often affection is shown. Affection is needed often but not an annoying amount of affection is needed. Second, how good the spouse makes the other feel about the person