In Gogol’s early twenties all he thought about was to get away from his family. The reason why Gogol thought that is because his family was totally different than other American families and in some cases he was ashamed to accept his …show more content…
This personally connects to me because my life so far is also full of unexpected experiences. It is said, “Sometimes you never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory” this saying fits perfectly well for both mine and Gogol’s life because at the end all we have left are just memories of certain things that matter the most in our lives. Starting from my journey of coming to Canada from India. It was definitely the most unexpected decision my parents took for me. My parents decided to leave me in Canada with my relatives and go back to India. I thought it would be easy at first but when I actually came to Canada and started living without them, it wasn’t easy at all. Suddenly everything seemed so hard in life and I just never thought I would miss my family so much. Unlike Gogol I never wished to go away from my family, but after Gogol went to stay with Maxine and her family, he lost his father and now all he has left are the memories and it is something similar for me too. I did not lose anyone from my family but I did go away from my parents and my brother, which was the hardest thing in life for me. All the moments I spent with them are just bits of memories now. I never thought the absence of my brother’s crying, my dad’s scolding and my mom’s love would make me cry one day because I never thought I