In Judith Butler’s essay Beside Oneself: On the Limits of Sexual Autonomy she discusses sexuality and what actually makes a world livable. Judith is a gay rights activist and doesn’t believe that your gender is not who you are skin deep, but it is who you define yourself as.…
When we have been exposed to a specific role of gender all our lives, it is difficult to accept different scenarios. A different scenario would be when society would not be able to accept a powerful and non-emotional woman, or a very sensitive man. An example of this is children are educated of what roles a man and female play. In Disney movies, such as Aladdin, children are shown roles of women and men. A young girl is given to a man just to own more land. It shows society what role a man has over a woman. Anna Quindlen author of a short essay “Gay” and Gillianne N. Duncan author of “Why Do We Hate Our Bodies?” are examples of how the norms of society shape and make people judge others only because they are different. In “Gay,” Quindlen tells a story about her friend’s friend, about how a family would rather lie about the sexual orientation of their dead son, than tell the truth and be judged…
The LGBTQ community has developed and changed over the years, gradually becoming more inclusive of all types of sexual and gender identities. It brings a sense of belonging to a group of people and gives many that land in the span of the LGBTQ spectrum places that they know they can go to where they will be accepted. However the community that queer people have built around them and the acceptance of the diversity and complexity of how people identify themselves does not always transfer into other aspects of life. The LGBTQ spectrum is ever changing adding new identities all the time, however they are not always readily accepted by all. Gender and sexual fluidity being among the ones that have had to face their battles to have basic rights…
Society has created a set of norms and standards which imply that you are supposed to behave, dress, and do things based on your gender. However, Queer theorist, Judith Butler, does not agree with society. Instead, Butler believes that gender roles are not biologically constructed. Butler’s 1990 novel Gender Trouble, examines the extent to which gender and sexuality are performative. Butler’s concept of performative gender is depicted in Michael Chabon’s novel Summerland. The fantasy novel revolves around the protagonist, Ethan, and his friends, who all play baseball and must stop the Coyote from ending the world. In order to stop the trickster god Coyote, Ethan travels through Summerland with a small troupe of friends, playing baseball in…
There are a plethora of oversights and insults throughout Frye’s essay, including her assertion that female heterosexuality “is central to the way sexism and racism are knit together,” seemingly under the delusion that lesbians are untouched by the patriarchy and the prejudices thereof because, obviously, as lesbians, there is nary a man in any of their lives (131). At all. Not one. Clearly, they all live a man-free, not-women-but-girls-only existence on a commune in upstate New York. Also implicit in her claim is that lesbians are not and cannot be perpetuators of patriarchal norms--sexist, racist, or otherwise, which ignores the wide variety amongst the gay community and assumes its members to be upstanding individuals.…
The narrator also shares Esther Greenwood’s distorted sexual views. She too is not much interested in sex. Part of the reason may be because she had failed in love with her ex-husband, who had urged her to have an abortion rather than keep the child. Her divorce and unwanted abortion and her compliance in the act had left a deep scar on her psyche. “I have to behave as though it doesn’t exist, because for me it can’t, it was taken away from me, exported, deported.…
Butler questions whether these gendered behaviors are natural as they are learned from one’s performance of a “gendered” individual to keep heterosexuality among their culture. If she had it her way, she would simply like to let one subject “be” and see how he/she becomes on his/her own. This would determine the true natural gender of subjects, instead of having them act in specific roles they might not agree with. However, this would never happen as many feminists defend the idea of a concrete identity because they believe it’s crucial for the advancement of interests of women. Butler argues, “My point is simply that one way in which this system of compulsory heterosexuality is reproduced and concealed is through the cultivation of bodies into discrete sexes with ‘natural’ appearances and ‘natural’ heterosexual dispositions” (905). Ultimately, Butler is stating it is a mistake to characterize women as possessing the same assets. Because by doing this, gender regulations are reinforced by staying divided into two categories, men and women. But more importantly, where does this leave individuals who are “confused” or “not able to identify” with a…
The concept that I have chosen to focus on for this week’s journal article is “gendered homophobia” that comes from the Dude You’re a Fag reading (Pascoe, 128 2005). This concept explains that sometimes it is okay for one sex to act a certain way but not the other. In the article the author tells us that the boys that she interviewed stated how they hated guys who were gay but not girls who were gay (Pascoe, 2005). For example the author states, “For example, while Jake, a handsome white senior, told me that he didn’t like gay people, he quickly added, “Lesbians are cool though” (Pascoe, 128 2005). From this you can see that guys see it to be okay for girls to be gay but to not accept it if a guy is gay. The author goes on to explain that some…
“Homosexual” is a term that is more common in today’s society. This is a term meaning a girl or boy likes someone of the same sex. Homosexuals are often discriminated against similar to blacks in different slurs or physically damaged. Richard D. Mohr explains how gays are dealing with discrimination.…
Our society promotes heterosexism in a complex world along with negative attitudes against the more “radical” forms of sexuality and gender-identity. The “veil” can be seen in African Americans, transgender, and bisexuals. The inner conflict African Americans felt with being of African descent in America; transgender and bisexuals also feel in a similar internal battle within their community. Transgender and bisexual members may be a part of GLBTQ, but they are more complex and less accepted. Thus, they are out-casted and unable to be who they are in any community or in society as a whole. The veil they are placed under is harmful because they have no support. The “color-line” can be seen in GLBTQ as sexual orientation versus gender identity; gay and lesbians versus transgender. Du Bois’ theory explains the complexity of having to conform to a society that does not fully accept all of its…
The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) community is a community based on celebrating individuality, sexuality, pride, diversity, love, and acceptance. Also known as the gay community, LGBT people believe in promoting LGBT rights and fighting for social justice. UCLA School of Law (Gates, 2011) conducted four national studies and two-state-level population based studies. The results determined that there are approximately nine million adults in the United States that identify themselves as LGBT. Prehistoric findings show that the community has been a target for discrimination and persecution from individuals and groups that practice homophobia since 11th century BCE. Although today’s century has proven to improve the…
Before the 1850s, the official definition of “homosexual” didn’t exist; people engaged in homosexual activity, but the overall nature of the community was commonly seen simply as atypical behaviors that stemmed from confusion rather than an identity. Then, despite the efforts of early advocacy groups like The Society of Human Rights and The Mattachine Society, the negative theme was only further strengthened into society once the gay community started to become recognized. This was due to that fact that the efforts were shy and attempted to gain recognition slowly with minimal attention--causing them to appear as more isolated and unconfident.…
Living in a society which is filled with people of different ethnicities, personalities, and values has led to many changes. Some of these changes have been positive while others have led to confused and discomfort in others. Change has become possible in this society, but it hasn’t been easy for everyone. Society has been so conformed to a standard on how others are supposed to act, that people have been confused and have misinterpreted this idea by of others. This misinterpretation is sexuality. Sexuality has been defined in society as heterosexual, straight, the “norm”, the right way to live life, and all of ideas are not true. Sexuality is a unique way of living that should be determine by you and not influenced by others in society. The course gender and sexuality study has taught me that. It has taught me that you do not have to always conform or judge others based on sexuality. It has opened up a range of ideas and values that I have never taught to discover before. The most informed information which has grasped my intention in this course is the idea behind sexuality. That sexuality discovery is unique and you can have multiple values within one. Society should not discover who you are or who you want to be. Sexuality is not just physical as society determines it, but instead it is evoked by involvement and emotions.…
The two researchers, Thompson and Morgan, argued that “mostly straight” needs to be recognized publicly as a subtype if one were to conduct a study of young women and their sexual identities. Mostly straight women were also distinct from exclusively straight women but were similar to bisexual women and lesbians on several quantitative measures of identity. (Thompson&Morgan, 2008) Narratives about sexual identity development for mostly straight women revealed the complexities of sexual identity exploration, uncertainty, and commitment within this population. (Thompson&Morgan, 2008)…
Hsy in his paper examines the chapter where Margery is seen to have a very explicit desire with the Lepers and this again proves that Margery is a queer. He also said that this kind of behavior may seem to be very consistent with Margery’s way doing things and can be unnoticeable. Another thing, he touched on is Margery’s vision. She would often view wounded male as the crucifixion and suffering of Jesus Christ. This can be seen throughout the entire book where she would be very emotional because she feels the suffering of God. I disagree with Hsy because kissing the person of the same sex does not make a person queer. In fact, it is…