In “Abuela Invents the Zero”, by Judith Ortiz Cofer, it is portrayed that Constancia made her decision so she would fit in and wouldn't be made fun of. For example, when Constancia knew that her friends saw her with her Abuela in the church, she thought, "I just know that on Monday my friends will have a lot of senile -grandmother jokes to tell in front of me" (Ortiz-Cofer para 14#). Constancia is already picturing her friends making fun of her. Her thinking…
In the story “abuela invents the zero”, constancia values herself and her free time way more than her family and culture. In the story, she ends up making her grandmother feel like a zero, a nothing. This is what later changes Constancias values. In the short poem” mother to son”, the mother values her son's future and life. She tells him about her life and what a challenge it was and still is. She refers to her life as not being a crystal stair.…
Anne Sexton’s poem, “Her Kind” presents a stark look at the roles that women place themselves in and are forced into by societal pressures. Throughout history, women have been expected to take on the role of obedient wife, and failure to do so can result in a barrage of retaliations on a woman and her lifestyle. Though Sexton’s troubled past of depression and eventual suicide has cast negative light on the meanings of her works--particularly speculation that her work is a confession-- “Her Kind” is not so much a personal story as it is the story of the three roles women continue to fall into, even to this day: a witch, an old-school midwife, and a whore.…
In a poem of reminiscent adolescence, Sharon Olds defines a young girl who has the capacity to judge adolescent emotion with the benefit of time, for she is now a mother herself. This definitive view of adolescent values and thought is mingled with the mystery of symbolic mathematics, which represents a maturity of this thought and a colorful insight into the development of a young girl as she becomes a woman. This poem also accentuates the mystery associated with the minds of the female gender, and the strength of the adolescent, whose mother recounts a vicarious experience that seems to stand a landmark in the social and sexual development of a young female.…
Our actions can either make something better, or worse. In the short stories “Abuela Invents the Zero” by Ortiz Cofer and “Home” by Anton Chekhov, both main characters had things going on that changed their lives. Constancia (Ortiz) has made her grandmother feel bad about how she is. Seryozha (Anton) has been smoking at the age of seven. Although both characters don’t go through the same thing, however, they end up with the same problem. Constancia and Seryozha both end up making their lives worse all because of their actions. Constancia actions messed her up and her grandmother, because she was saying rude stuff about her grandmother and her grandmother got offended. Seryozha started to smoke, since he started to smoke, he started to hurt…
Patria, one of the brave Mirabal sisters, goes through the most drastic life-changing battle. Patria struggles to overcome the tragedy of having a miscarriage and is overwhelmed with emptiness. Patria’s strong insecurities reveal themselves as she buries herself in sorrow and sadness struggling to come to terms with her loss. Patria still continues on but hides to protect herself. Although she loses her identity, she hides it from her community: “…a model Catholic wife and mother. I fooled them all! Yes, for a long time after losing my faith, I went on, making believe” (Alvarez 55). Still known in her community as a good Catholic wife and mother, Patria hides her loss of identity to others and projects toward society an image condoning her oppressive struggles, but inside she was “an empty house.” She goes on living the life expected of her, as she resumes her duties and puts on a good face over her broken heart. Patria represents the fears and insecurities we all portray when faced with challenges. She foreshadowed the rest of the people of the Dominican…
Lubrano’s whole essay is a collection of personal anecdotes regarding how the “Great Change” dismantled relationships with family as well as dredged the trench between classes even deeper (531). Relationships were destroyed due to the change in thought process, which the reader can see with Loretta Stec and Rita Giordano’s stories.…
She then goes on to explain how shame arises early on in childhood. Infants begin in a place of omnipotence. In the comfort of the womb, the infant is part of an environment in which the world is fully arranged around the fulfillment of his needs. After birth, the infant is thrust into world of objects in which he must depend on external sources and people for survival. Though the infant is removed from the original ideal state, he is not aware of the distinctions between himself and outside…
Growing one’s body into what one considers an adult is amongst the simplest things a human can do -- however maturing mentally and emotionally into an individualistic being would arguably be one of the most difficult. Even more difficult would be trying to become an individual while in a constant state of oppression. Through her numerous essays, poems and novels, Maya Angelou does an exceptional job of recounting the hardships of adolescence, and lets her audiences and readers find out, first hand, the way she suffered growing up . In her works, Angelou uses her experiences with her family, the places she’s been, and the changing ideas of her own self to explore her mind as a growing child. Even with everything in her life fighting against…
Begley, Sharon & Check, Erika. (2000). When You 're Nobody 's Child. Newsweek, 135 (14), 75.…
In conclusion, momma was a great and brave woman with her failures like every woman being, but she did a great job educating Maya Angelou and her sisters. This an example how to win without giving or being on a battle, of how you can try to handle a difficult situation of abuso any situation of this case. “Momma´s encounter” an inspiration and admiration…
The lasting impact of early life lessons is shown in this quote. This idea was an ever-present theme in the book, particularly from Aibileen’s side of the story. After raising and coming to love 19 babies, only one of which was her own, in her lifetime Aibileen has made non prejudice and equality a big point of childhood upbringing. Most of the maids, including Aibileen, find it hard to understand that they take care of and love on these children their entire childhood, but the children still end up treating the help as their lesser when they are grown ups.…
Lorraine Hansberry’s “A Raisin In The Sun” and Alice Walker’s “Everyday Use” are both stories that are connected by the common factor of family values. Although both stories have their own individual qualities it is the heritage and importance of family that brings both stories together. The similar personalities of Beneatha from “A Raisin In The Sun” and Dee from “Everyday Use” are a good example of how family values dominate the stories and the characters in them. Both Beneatha and Dee come from families rich in culture, history and traditions but strive to find individuality outside of their family’s norms. However, it is the way in which they approach conformity that is a testament to how one should and shouldn’t go about this process.…
Judith Ortiz Cofer is a Puerto Rican immigrant and a professor of English and creative writing at the University of Georgia. Cofer has written many books, poems and essays in her career. As the author of “The Myth of the Latin Woman: I Just Met a Girl Named Maria”, she shows how society uses stereotypes to deny individualism of certain minority groups. In this essay Cofer describes the injustices that Latina women suffer in this country as a result of cultural differences and mythical stereotypes.…
The poem “Her Kind” by Anne Sexton brings attention to her readers from digging deep into the true meaning behind her imagery. Her poem is quiet but along with an intense emotion, it brings out most of what she truly felt in reality. Anne describes very descriptively three roles of women in society that are overlooked and judged constantly by the people around them. In Anne’s eyes, she makes us feel that as good of a person she can be, she’s always overlooked and misunderstood and she would rather leave the world with her dignity in hand than become what society wants her to be.…