The mother “coughing out tearless angry sighs” portrays the contrast between the parents, but also conveys how they link together. The father has let down his guard and therefore the poets mother has stepped up to be strong. Both techniques in the second and fifth stanza represent how the poet is observing for the first time a confronting ideal that has resulted in the personas patriarchal father and mother switching roles to deal with the pain.
The mother “coughing out tearless angry sighs” portrays the contrast between the parents, but also conveys how they link together. The father has let down his guard and therefore the poets mother has stepped up to be strong. Both techniques in the second and fifth stanza represent how the poet is observing for the first time a confronting ideal that has resulted in the personas patriarchal father and mother switching roles to deal with the pain.