Amir grew up very privileged. Baba gave him almost everything they could have wanted. He had a beautiful house, a father, and caretakers, Ali and Hassan. Hassan is just a year younger than Amir and they were raised together. Hassan proves is unrequited loyalty throughout the story but especially when he runs a kite for Amir. When Assef and other boys stop Hassan in an alley asking for the kite, Hassan refuses. Amir finds the boys and doesn’t defend Hassan when they make threats, but instead remains unseen and heard. In the end, he watches Hassan get raped. He carries this mistake with him throughout the novel. The kite was extremely important to Amir. He won a kite flying competition that Baba once won. He believed showing the kite he won off to Baba would finally secure his approval. He even says that was the key to Baba’s heart. Consequently, Amir turns into the kind of person Baba didn’t want him to become; a man who doesn’t know right from wrong. This proves to be true when Amir sacrificed Hassan for a kite. He committed this sin for selfish reasons. He thought only of himself how it would benefit his relationship he wanted so badly with his father.
Baba has also made a tragic mistake. Ali was once married to Sanaubar, Hassan’s mother. But it was found that Ali was sterile. Throughout Amir and Hassan’s lives they believed Amir’s father was Baba and Hassan’s father was Ali. It wasn’t until Baba, Hassan, and Ali died that Rahim Kahn told Amir the truth. Baba had an affair with Sanaubar making Hassan Baba’s son. Although Baba supported Hassan and was