In ‘Family Name” and “The Name is Mine by Anna Quindlen “ the author portray the…
A name in its simplest form addresses a person, place, thing, or idea, yet with every name comes a flood of associated names and ideas. For Dana and her mother the use of choice words with the least amount of negative connotation seems to be of the utmost importance. She states “It matters what you call things” (5), but the name by which one identify with, or that one uses to address an activity or idea, matters for the most part only to the said person. Those viewing one's life, as the reader does with Dana, form their own ideas and interpretations of that person and his or her activities. Therefore a name matters because it expresses how one feels about their…
Those that live in America and those that live in India have different lifestyles and traditions, but when you have to balance both, it’s difficult to figure out who you truly are. Gogol grows up throughout the book with a Hindu-Indian family while living in America. He confronts the challenge of assimilating while trying to pursue two cultures. As he gets older, he then tries to find his identity by changing his name from Gogol to Nikhil and starts different relationships. But Gogol then realized that what has held him and his family together has been the Indian culture, which has influenced him from the moment he was born and named. In the novel The Namesake by Jhumpa Lahiri, Gogol was influenced greatly by the Indian culture because it motivated…
The “Namesake” follows Gogol Ganguli, an Indian origin, born in America. Gogols parents Ashima and Ashoke, faced the more harrowing task of leaving their home and family in India and relocating to America. Throughout the novel, the composer of the namesake illustrates an aspect of belonging through the technique symbolism. Lahiri uses the motif of naming, to create the sense of belonging and not belonging. Gogol’s name becomes a symbol for the difficulty he faces in accepting…
Throughout “The Namesake”, Gogol has experienced many occasions where his understanding of his identity has either hindered him. Growing up with an abnormal name, he never thinks much of it until his class excursion to an ancient cemetery brings light unto his peculiar difference. In that moment talking to his teacher, telling him “Now those are some names you don’t see very often these days… like yours”, it allows his to have a further insight towards his own identity. With the recurring motif of the importance of names, Gogol had then begun to question his unusual name, and how it often discriminated himself from the others. This significant moment in time helped him gain a further understanding of identity, as until then “it had not occurred to Gogol that names die over time, that they perish just as people do”. This ultimately lead to him changing his name so that he would no longer feel the isolation he was accustomed to.…
With this I connect to the change that happened for the aristocrats in the 16th century. Names became as important as who one was birthed by. Suddenly one could marry into a powerful and mighty family name. With this I’m sure that the lower class questioned this system, as however not everyone could marry rich.…
In The Namesake based on the book and movie by Jhumpa Lahiri, there are several events and scenes that are interpreted differently throughout the film and book. The book is based on Gogol Ganguli, the son of immigrant parents Ashoke and Ashima Ganguli who struggles with his double identity and rebellion towards his family. The movie is quite different with its focus on the parents and their relationship more than Gogol, the main character. The characters in the book that are portrayed by the actors in the film are very important because it subtracts and diverts the focus of Gogol’s struggles who is the heart of the novel.…
Nikhil believes he knows all there is to name assuming that his father is going to tac about the author again but he his naive. After all these years he finally understands why he is called Gogol. Ashoka’s trauma is great but he tells Gogol, “You remind me of everything that followed” (Ch5 P124)> Gogol is the light that brings away the darkness from the past. It explains why Ashoke did not mind Gogol changing his name, for what made Gogol happy was enough for Gogol was mislead his entire life. Because he liked the knowledge he could not understand his namesake. This explains why he disliked his name so much. Because he could not make any correlation, his name to him had no sentimental value. From this information Gogol is finally able to connect all the missing dots. In the end Gogol believes, “There is no such thing as a perfect name. I think that humans beings should be allowed to name themselves when they turn eighteen.” (Ch10 p. 245) Gogol believes pronouns are appropriate until one is mature enough to name themselves. He believes this because it was he who kept questions and was lost. People find their own meaning to their lives but Gogol was lost from being unsure until all the knowledge he had made sense. Life is about self discovery and not a journey made by someone else. Gogol lived his lief and while cleaning out his room,…
In the poem “The Names” by Billy Collins many words are used to paint vivid images of themes of war and sorrow-filled family members of soldiers lost in Vietnam. In literature, words are all that an author has to express their feelings and memories. Sometimes words are used in their literal sense to tell a detailed story, however, in poetry words are most likely to be used metaphorically to express things that don’t often have a specific look or feel. In the case of Billy Collins, names are used in conjunction with things in nature to make the reader in vision how peoplw may have felt or reacted toward losing a loved one in the Vietnam war.…
Throughout the novel, The Namesake by Jhumpa Lahiri, the character Gogol changes in many different ways. One of the most apparent changes was in his "Indian ness". By "Indian ness" I mean the amount of his parents Bengali ways and traditions that he retained. While growing up he did everything in his power while growing up to stray away from his parents' Bengali ways. Gogol spent most of his life trying to differ from his parents, however in the end he ends up obeying their wishes as to who he marries. As he was growing up Gogol felt only embarrassment and shame because of his background and because his parents did things differently than his other American friends' parents. For example, unlike his American friends, while in college Gogol had to return home every other weekend to accompany his parents to their Bengali friends' parties. Throughout his life he tried to shed his parent's un-American lifestyle but in the end he succumbed to his past and ancestry.…
Gogol who is Ashima’s son first started having a relationship outside his culture and without the backing from his parents with a wealthy white girl, Max. In the Bengali culture it is not accepted to have a relationship outside the same ethnicity. At first he embraced it and took on the American way of life, listening to American music, drinking wine and socializing with Max and her parents. Ashima never directly showed her disapproval of his choices but would frown upon them. From this relationship he drifted further away from his parents, spending more time with Max until the death of his father. From this tragedy he resorts back to his Indian culture where Max does not support this change. Furthermore the relationship fails due to not seeing eye to eye on the cultural differences and understanding his heritage and ways in which his family are bounded together through this connection.…
In my community, the parents have the opportunity to chose the child’s name before or after he or she is born. In The Giver, names are given at the Ceremony of Ones by the Nurturers. The Ceremony of Ones is when 1 year old babies are given their names and are given to their family units by the Nurturers. The Ceremonies are when all of the children under 12 are given new responsibilities. There is an example in the book of when Fiona, Jonas’ friend, doesn't like her brothers name and says, “He’s cute, but I don’t like his name very much.” This quote from the book means that she didn’t like her brother’s name given by the Nurturers at The Ceremony of…
Remaining nameless throughout the book plays into the role of alienation for the narrator. The narrator struggles with connecting to not only other people in his reservation, but with his own family. The narrator has lost both his brother and his father, and it is not until the end of the book that we find out that they may be the only family members he loved. This may play into his struggle to connect with his mother and grandmother. The narrator may not know show a connection or show affection towards his mother and grandmother because he doesn’t know how or because it may be because he is afraid of what will happen when they pass away too. The narrator also feels alienated when various characters try to remember details to events that happened in the past. For example, the narrator is talking with Lame Bull about the flood that had occurred about a decade ago. The narrator and Lame Bull go back and forth about the age of the narrator; the narrator reassuring Lame Bull that he was in his twenties when the flood happened but failing to reassure him because he believes the narrator was a small child at the time. There is also another incident in the book where the narrator has the same problem with his mother in recollecting details of the past. The narrator asks his mother why his father was rarely home when he was younger and she simply tells him that he was home often and that the narrator must be…
There is no limit on what someone’s name can mean, whether it to them or someone else. In Trikatikningsih Byas’s “Where the Land is Stepped On, The Sky Above Must be Upheld”, Byas talks about the importance of her name and what the meaning of it is to her culture. The first part of her name indicates the order of her birth compared to her siblings, the second part is the meaning or source of her name, and the last part told whether she was a male or female (Byas 33). In different cultures names can have more and more significant meanings than most people would think. There are examples in Japanese names where their names mean other things whether it be moon, love, serenity, etc. Someone’s name is what they will usually be called for the rest of their life. No matter where they go in life they will always have a name that belongs to them. There are some who reject their name and refuse to use it.…
This is where all of his friends are, where he is educated and the culture he has adopted whole heartedly. Yet, both of his parents immigrate from India and attempt to embed Gogol Ganguli with traditional Indian culture. Gogol rejects these attempts, pushing him farther into the American Lifestyle. While Ashima’s family ties bonds her to multiple cultures, Gogol’s family and their forceful approach to raising Gogol makes him repel Indian culture. Gogol has an affinity for non-Indian women, yet ultimately settles with a woman named Moushumi. This second generation Indian immigrant is very similar to Gogol. She too rebuffed her stern parents attempts to figuratively shove Indian culture down her throat. Metaphorically speaking, she repeatedly spit her parent’s curry out and rebelled in any way she could. Both Gogol and Moushumi further illustrate Lahiri’s notion that second generation immigrants find it easier to accept their country of residence as home opposed to their family’s country of…