Melinda in “Spotlight” has a vivid inner voice, where the reader can make an inference that she is a analytical introvert. The quotes “I see a few friends - people I used to think were my friend - but they look away” and “There’s that new girl, Heather, reading by the window. I could sit across from her. Or I could crawl behind a trash can. Or maybe I could dump by lunch straight into trash and keep moving out the door.” shows how the author’s use of diction helps create her voice as analytical and introverted. She can be characterized as analytical in these situations as she was looking at her old friends and a person reading a book while analyzing the situation. She can be characterized as introverted in the sense that she has given an…
In Interpersonal Communications, it is important to understand how stereotyping can affect close relationships. When an individual uses stereotyping in a negative way, this in return negatively affects the relationship. This can lead to major problems in the long run. In Sweet Home Alabama, it is easy to see that false stereotypes lead to judgments reflecting badly on relationships.…
Nowadays, there are some people that have a lot to say, but prefer to stay in silence for several different reasons. Audre Lorde , in her essay ‘ The transformation of silence into Language and Action’, tell her history of how she has come believe over and over again that what is most important to her “must be spoken, made verbal and shared, even at the risk of having it bruised or misunderstood”(“The Transformation of Silence” 1977). This statement relates with me in a particular way. First of all, I have to say that I am an international student at Howard University; when I decided to come to the United States, I knew that everything was going to change in my life, especially my social life. One of my big problems…
In the last line of the second to last paragraph in the story, the author writes, "Sylvia cannot speak; she cannot tell the heron's secret and give its life away." Sylvia's only friend, the pleasant young hunter who has come to her house in hopes of finding and shooting the great heron that inhabits the area, is going to leave, and has asked Sylvia to tell him where the heron can be found. Sylvia knows, but after much agonizing, finds that the loyalty she feels for the heron, as it represents the natural world, is greater than her longing for human contact. Sylvia cannot speak because to do so will be a betrayal of the heron and all she holds dear. Sylvia had never been one to talk very much. Shy and retiring by nature, she is "a little maid who had tried to grow for eight years in a crowded manufacturing town," but she did not blossom until she came to live at her grandmother's farm. Having been overlooked in a "houseful of children," Sylvia is "afraid of folks," and has memories of a "great red-faced boy who used to chase and frighten her." On her grandmother's farm, she has no companions, and becomes very close to the animals and the land in compensation. When the young hunter comes to her grandmother's house, Sylvia is at first intimidated, but then is drawn to him. There is within her a longing for human interaction which has never been fulfilled, and thus when she is faced with the choice between making her new friend happy or saving her beloved heron's life, the dilemma is agonizing. Looking deep within herself, Sylvia recognizes that, in the final analysis, her loyalty to the bird is greater than her love for the man, and so when she has one final chance to give the hunter what he wants, she remains silent, unable to speak the words that will mean death for her beloved heron and the world it…
In Card’s argument, she centralizes the abandonment of marriage and its entirety since it jeopardizes a woman’s autonomy to marry, seek long-term relationships and even be single. In opposition, Feminist, Diana Meyers, has a piece on Personal Autonomy and the Paradox of Feminine Socialization, which strongly supports the theory of autonomy deriving from the self while considering environmental stimuli. Meyers persistently magnifies the belief that autonomy is defined by expressing your true self by avoiding conformist attitudes, recognizing the need for inner change, as well as considering internal reflections and external guidance from the outside world. Like Card, Meyers believes that raw, authentic choices from the self is what makes up…
"He turns his attention to his beard. Every morning the same face, the same thoughts. A good time to take stock, though. Calvin Jarrett, forty-one, U.S. citizen, tax attorney, husband, father. Orphaned at the age of eleven." P. 7…
The lack of socialization impacted Nell's view on the world around her because it left her more knowledgeable about those that surround her. Nell looks more deeply into the souls of those she meets rather then judging. She does not often speak while out in society but quietly assesses everything and everyone that surrounds her. In court Nell states "You have big things. You're knowing big things. But you're not seeing into each others' eyes. You're aching after quietness. I've lived a small life. I know small things" she thinks that everyone out in the world only pays attention to what will make them better then everyone else; That they do not know how to pay attention to the smaller things in life, such as she does.…
While it is generally believed that everyone in America should speak English, immigrants included, Chang-Rae Lee portrays the everyday struggle, and emotional distress that can come with being an immigrant in the U.S. in his essay “Being Mute in an English Only World”. The author allows the reader insight to the everyday struggle, confusion, and frustration that comes with being an immigrant of any country where the language you speak is not the spoken language of that country. The author gives readers first hand personal experiences of what it’s like to be born into an immigrant family, and how it affected the home life and the lives of each member of the family separately.…
The article explores the relationship among privacy, loneliness, and interpersonal communication. In essence, it examined the relationship among individual’s preferences for the six types of conversational sensitivity, loneliness, privacy, and interpersonal communication. Thus, the research seeks to answer the relationship between need for privacy, interpersonal communication motives, and conversational sensitivity. Further, it answers the relationship between loneliness and need for privacy, the relationship between loneliness and interpersonal communication motives. Finally, is it possible for the biological sex of an individual to be related to the need for privacy and loneliness?…
She explains that extroversion has become an “oppressive standard” the people must conform with (Cain 4). The extrovert ideal has taken over the western world and it has changed society into a world that has forgotten about introtroversion. Continuing with her belief that introverts deserve some well earned time in the spotlight, Cain provides introverts with information and propositions that will help them thrive in the world of out-spoken people. She expounds on the concept that introverts can do activities that involve public speaking, but “accept that [it is] difficult” and once it is achieved, they should reward themselves (Cain 265). She aims to inspire introverts to increase their self esteem. The start of her novel involves the development of the new extrovert belief. She explains the way the perspective was created in the western world during the twentieth century and its impact on American society’s culture of personality. Furthering her research, she explains that introversion is only partially inherited and that personalities are affected by environmental factors and free will. For instance Eleanor, a shy, reclusive lady at heart, “grew to love public life” as she stood by Franklin D. Roosevelt in his presidency ( Cain 138). Advancing her argument she explains that in other cultures, specifically the Eastern world, “even discouraged” talking, and has a positive reaction to…
Melinda is about to begin high school and she is extremely happy. But all that happiness begins to go away when she decides to go to a high school upper-classmen party with a group of her…
Yasmin Saikia is the Hardt-Nickachos Chair in Peace Studies and Professor of History at the Arizona State University, USA (Saikia 1). Her intellectual work features acclaimed peer-reviewed essays, articles, chapters, reviews, conferences and award-winning books that present a historical focus on topics of identity, memory, religion, peace, war and women of both pre-modern and contemporary India, Pakistan and Bangladesh (Saikia 1). Her most recent book, Women, War, and the Making of Bangladesh: Remembering 1971, won the Oral History Association Biennial Best Book Award in 2013 (Saikia 1). This book recognises the marginalized and vulnerable females of the South Asian society who experienced the Bangladesh Liberation War. She is passionate about…
Topic: Ethnographie s Topic Coverage • Varieties of Talk • The Ethnography of Speaking • Ethnomethodology Introduction Speech is used between different ways among different groups of people. As we will see, each group has its own norms of linguistic behavior.…
Silence can mean many things because it is so ambiguous. It can replace speech to show feelings. It can express many different emotions ranging from joy, happiness, grief, embarrassment to anger, denial, fear, withdrawal of acceptance or love. Traditionally silence means the absence of voice, but the word silence is metaphorically used for women in the field of Feminist linguistics. This does not literary mean that women are unable to speak or they speak less rather feminists are in the view that women talk too much and they labeled the word “gossip” with women. However, here silence means the absence of women’s voice from high literary culture. Women’s voice is absent from most of formal discourses. There is limited space for women in political, social, religious and legal discourse. Women are not by nature silent but they are silenced by the sexism of society as a whole.…
To be able to interpret linguistic phenomena it is important to state, that language is a product of society. According to Rossi-Landi, human appears when he overcomes the aim of satisfying immediate needs, i.e. start producing behavior instead of responding. Human results from the labour of man himself [Rossi-Landi 1983, p. 35-37; 1975, p. 31-69]. Thus, language is a result of human activity.…