"What is necessary to change a person is to change his awareness of himself. --…
Nona katia plays a great role in Josephine's life as she imposes all the traditional values and expectations on her. Their opposing personalities and their different views on the world lead to their complicated and resentful relationship. Josie is struggling to understand who she is and where she belongs and Nona continues to title Josie as the curse' of the family and aims to make Josie feel guilty about being alive. Reputation and the family name' is a top priority for…
“Even if we don’t realize it, time changes us, and the one thing harder to accept is that we can’t change back.”…
“It may be unfair, but what happens in a few days, sometimes even a single day, can change the course of a whole lifetime...”…
Josephine Alibrandi’s relationship with her family has its highs and lows. Josie’s family impacts her as an individual in different ways and makes Josie feel suffocated by her family and religion. Josie and Jacob are in a strong relationship and Josie’s family culture as a 'wog' controls her love life and friendship life, and restricts her from going to places. “I'll run one day. Run for my life. To be free and think for myself...I'll run to be emancipated.” .The relationship between Josie and John changes in various ways at different stages. Through this relationship Josie discovers more about what is important in life and learns to accept herself for who she is. As years pass, she and Nonna develop a connection the leads to Nonna Katia revealing a big family secret that has a huge impact on the Alibrandi family’s name.…
Josephine Alibrandi was in search for her identity, yet via social acceptance not self-acceptance. Throughout the novel Josie transformed, from her feeling isolated and rejected from society to her realizing that she only needed the acceptance of herself. The contrast between ‘old’ and ‘new’ Josie is easily noticeable. ‘Old’ Josie described herself as feeling “disadvantaged from the beginning” and thought one of the many things that held her back from society was being illegitimate.…
Victor Frankl states, “when we can no longer change the situation we are forced to change…
“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”…
As we read further through the novel we get to see some of Josephine's less attractive qualities. We learn that she tends to be very melodramatic. An example of this is "It's cancer isn't it.... I threw myself down on the bed". The reader is often frustrated with Josephine's melodrama, as are her friends. Lee tells her "Jacob is the only person I know who can put up with your melodrama." Some other unattractive qualities we witness are Josephine's impulsiveness, her quick temper and her occasionally violent…
Many people feel as if they try their best to change someone or something, eventually they will. However, they will not. This message seem to be predominantly clear in the short story The Scarlet Ibis by James Hurst. In the story, the lives of Doodle a disabled young boy and his six year older brother who is affectionately called, Brother. Throughout the story, Brother is always trying to change Doodle from his disabled self. Brother wants Doodle to be able to walk and be “normal” so that he does not have to suffer the consequences and embarrassment of having a “disabled brother.” This leads to Brother attempting to change Doodle and teach him how to walk. However this intensive training leads to a tragic death and an unchanged Doodle. This led me to the discovery that however much one may try, someone will never succeed in changing somebody/something…
“A man who is used to acting in one way never changes; he must come to ruin when the times, in changing, no longer are in harmony with his ways.”…
“… Although the world is full of suffering, it is also full of the overcoming of it.”…
Thomas Edison once said, “Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work”. Every day, opportunities are present in the lives of society. However, it is society’s choice of whether or not to take these opportunities and run with them. Often, people resist change and avoid situations rather than taking advantage of new opportunities. The decision of evading circumstances could potentially lead to dissatisfaction, regret and unhappiness in the long run. Peter McWilliams states, “To avoid situations in which you might make mistakes may be the biggest mistake of all.” According to this quote, not taking an opportunity that requires work instead of pulling through and facing the risks of making mistakes along the way is the greatest fault. Peter McWilliams’s quote is accurate and could be proven through the play, Death of a Salesman, and through opportunities not taken by slaves in order to escape during the 1800’s.…
Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore.…
According to a famous author, “Change has a considerable psychological impact on the human mind. To the fearful it is threatening because it means that things may get worse. To the hopeful it is encouraging because things may get better. To the confident it is inspiring because the challenge exists to make things better.” With this inspiring statement, I firmly believe that CHANGE starts in our MIND. Somehow, we have different beliefs and attitudes that either contributes to the change that we want or otherwise worsen the situation.…