Even though she hates her father, she still loves him. She misunderstands her parents’ situation, being only fourteen, and holds a grudge against her mother for going back to her father and agreeing to move to Norway, “he whistles and she goes back like a well trained dog”.…
Her father was the nurturing parent. He played games with both children, spent time discussing books, nature, and helping with school projects. Annie’s mother was very conscious of social status and outward appearances presented in the community. Her mother was less than nurturing and insisted on perfection in the home’s appearance as well as both children’s academics, extracurricular activities, and behavior in general. When failure or shortcoming occurred, severe punishment was executed by Annie’s mother, in the form of corporal punishments and restrictions. Her mother was very authoritarian. Annie began searching for love by marrying quite young to escape her mother’s dominance. Her brother escaped through his music and even tried to run away several times.…
In the article Death of a Pig, the author E. B. White recorded the last few days he spent with his young pig. This article was inspired by his real experience. After reading the whole article, readers can feel strongly that E. B. White didn’t treat his young pig as an animal, but a human, like a child, a friend or a relative. His various and accurate descriptions of the death of his young pig make readers feel that one of his family members pass away. This can be spotted through his proper use of rhetoric and careful and accurate choosing words.…
At a glance, both protagonists (Jack, from This Boy's Life, and Anne, from Limbo) appear to have very little in common. Jack, the only child of a single mother, is desperately attempting to develop his identity while he lives an unstable life in which he is constantly uprooted and moved form city to city as his mother searches for a way to support him. This perpetual motion is sharply contrasted by Anne who grows up in a small Catholic town in the Wisconsin country. There, she is given an identity in the form of her faith in God. However, both characters seek a new, or at least better, understanding of their identity. This is manifested differently within each memoir in that Jack's search is general while Anne's is focused on her faith and her identity with Christ. Although each character deals with their search differently, they both conclude that there are issues that they are unable to control and simply have to accept. This acceptance is portrayed by the protagonists' inability to control the outcomes of their lives.…
Pignati’s house. One day out of the blue when John, Lorraine and Mr. Pignati were hanging out, Mr. Pignati had a terrible heart-attack and was rushed to the hospital. John thought it was a great idea to throw a party so he said, “ Don’t you think Mr. Pignati wants us to have a social life? He smiled, his great big eyes glowing.” (130) That quote doesn't relate to responsibility because during the party many things happened that John and Lorraine didn’t anticipate to happen. Music was played so loud, you could hear it outside. Also Mr. Pignati’s precious pigs got destroyed and his dead wife Concetta's dress got ripped and ruined. In this way, John and Lorraine didn’t take responsibility for their…
I met Ralph today. He seemed like a nice person so I told him my nickname was Piggy when I was back home. We went down to the beach together and found a shell on the beach. We used it to make a trumpet which called the rest of the boys down from the woods to the beach. This is where things went bad, Ralph apparently doesn't keep secrets too well. Ralph told everyone that my nickname was Piggy. They haven't let up on the name either everybody thinks that it's so funny to call me that. It doesn’t trouble me too much but I’d rather them not call me by that name.…
Kate Braverman’s “Pagan Night” is a story about a young woman named Sunny who departs with her boyfriend after their band breaks up. They are living in a van and have an unplanned child. Sunny attempts to give it a name, however she is unable to do so. Throughout the story she has urges to kill the baby and make her boyfriend content as he had not wanted this child in the first place. This story is reflective of the struggle many young mothers face today when they face unplanned pregnancy. Sunny and her boyfriend especially were not expecting Sunny to become pregnant and when she does that is when everything in their lives messes up. They are both really young to be parents in that they haven’t even figured out who they are as individuals and what they both want to do in life, essentially basic things that are crucial to have been figured out before one decides to start a family. Both Sunny and her boyfriend do not seem to have sufficient amount of resources to provide simply for each other and this baby will become a burden upon them and their fun, easy going and chill life-style. Also, it doesn’t even seem like they know or understand each other so well either. For instance, they both have a very poor communication system in that Sunny is not able to comfortably express her complete thoughts and concerns with Dalton. Every time asks her what she is thinking about her response is always “Nothing” (page 502). She does not find it important to share her concerns with Dalton, which is unhealthy for a relationship especially parenthood.…
In Pigman by Paul Zindel (1968) Lorraine is a very cautious character. Her cautiousness shows when she is unwilling to go to Mr. Pignati's house to go to collect money for a "charity", fearing what could happen next, she then "chickened out and said she wouldn't go with me to collect the money."(29) Lorraine's cautiousness also shows when she tells John "'Are you crazy?'"(130) when she learns that John plans to host a few friends over, afraid of what could happen. Caution shows when Lorraine talks about three omens saying that she should have "left on the spot"(53), because of her cautiousness, she looks back saying she would want to leave on the spot because of three "omens", fearing what would happen from the "omens". Caution also shows…
The moral of this story is that adults typically aren’t all that bad. In the decade that this story takes place, many children were distrusting of their parents. At the time of the 1960’s the Vietnam War was going on and teenagers were getting riled up about it. In this story both john and Lorraine have parents that don’t really provide the help that john and Lorraine need. John’s parents don’t really care about him, to add on, Lorraine’s mother is overprotective and cares more about how boys will treat her because her own husband left her. Mr. Pignati is the parent they never had and treats them very nicely. Instead of saying that they are hip or cool, he says that they are…
Through the eyes of various characters, Wolff is able to display the extent to which being in a broken family constitutes failure in throughout the memoir. The idea of having a nuclear family is a prominent theme through the text. To readers surprise Wolff foreshadows this effect of being a part of a broken family through Jack’s infatuation with Annette. This point is taken further by Jack who ‘imagine[s] a terrible accident in front of her house’. This showcases Jacks yearning for love and affection which he doesn’t receive from his mother who is too busy trying to support them both. The impacts of a broken family are further displayed through Terry Taylor and Terry Silver. The failure of Mrs. Taylor and Mrs. Silver to not raise their sons properly is seen through they hooligan like acts such as shoplifting and vandalism. However, being part of a split family can constitute a fail in the memoir, there are those who fail to determine who they are.…
Pignati was the nicest man one could be, and it probably explains why he took John and Lorraine to the market, and bought them whatever they wanted. Among these were a pair of roller skates for all three of them, and they skated out wearing them as an infantile person would. While these skates seemed all fun and games at the moment, they were not. Just a few days after buying the skates, John, Lorraine, and Mr. Pignati were playing a game of skate tag. The rules were to not allow anyone to go upstairs in their skates during the game; however, John being the antagonistic player that he was did not follow the rules. He went up the stairs and Mr. Pignati chased after him. At this moment, Mr. Pignati suffered from a heart attack. Lorraine was mortified, but John somehow kept his cool and called the police. An ambulance to Mr. Pignati to the hospital where he stayed about a week. This was when Lorraine had the nightmare. This was no mundane nightmare however. It was about Mr. Pignati and his beloved glass pigs that his deceased wife had collected over the years. A silhouette of some sort was forcing Lorraine to enter Mr. Pignati’s room of pigs. There she found a coffin, and she knew Conchetta was in their. This nightmare seemed to symbolize death to Lorraine, but she wasn’t quite sure of the death of whom or…
Lorraine Code writes Persons and Others from a rather sympathetic point of view as she tells us in the first page and explains that her response may be extremely different if she had read As We Are Now from a different characters perspective. She states, “ My reading is a partial one in that I take the protagonist, the first person narrator, at her word about how things are for her; hence I work from a presumption of the veracity of her experiential reports. Were I to reread the novel from the position of a different character, my take on it might be quit different. But my purpose here is to try, from the standpoint of someone who is disempowered, to understand the moral requirements of situations where people have others in their care who are extraordinarily vulnerable to assaults upon their sense of self.” I believe this is Lorraine Code’s thesis, everything she covers in her essay can be related back to those three sentences. I agree with just about everything Code says in her response to the novel. She makes good points about how it is unjust that this elderly woman is having trouble maintaining…
Their hatred builds from not getting their ways. When George shuts the nursery, Peter yells, “I hate you…I wish you were dead!” (9). Peter wanted death upon his father for shutting down the house. He orders the house “to not let them [shut] it,” (9). Due to the lack of parenting of Lydia and George, the kids have become dependent on the house. The house parented the kids by taking care of them, so the house was the children’s parents in their mind. The parents opened the nursery again, and the kids shout, “Daddy, Mommy, come quick – quick!” (10). Lydia and George ran into the nursery to search for the kids, but they only spotted the lions staring at them. The door to the nursery slammed shut. Lydia and George continuously shout at Peter and Wendy to open the door. They see “the lions on three sides of them…roaring in their throats…Mr. and Mrs. Hadley screamed,” (10). After spending weeks in Africa and watching lions feeding, death travels throughout their minds. Lydia and George failed to bring happiness to their children’s’ lives so instead of the parents taking care of the children, the technology would. Peter and Wendy’s hatred towards their parents caused them to use the nursery and technology to kill their…
As a member of dysfunctional family feelings can range from abandonment, depression, and maybe even suicidal thoughts. Willy, father and husband, was abandoned by his father and brother at a young age which leaves him with many unanswered questions and concerns:…
In this book , Mickey (Mary-Ann Tirone Smith) was not able to show emotion or have a normal childhood. She was not able to play music nor was she able to have friends over to play. The author describes what it was like growing up in her home .”This is a chronic response to crisis in my family”(p.7). There could be no crying because of Tyler , Mickey’s brother , who is five year’s older than her and has autism. At that time autism was thought to be a form of mental retardation. He cannot stand any noise. If he hears noise he will begin to bite his wrist. Mickey felt very trapped and could not understand and just had to deal with it. In a normal, healthy family you are able to go to your room and cry to express how you feel. Mickey had her father, who loved both children very much, but he had no idea really how to handle Tyler. Instead Tyler got his way no matter what because it was so much easier.…