Loved Ones Research Paper

MISCOMMUNICATION Loved ones are the easiest people to misunderstand in the communication field. Just because loved ones swear that they are the closest in the universe, on most occasions they are the first to misinterpret what was said to them. “For many people, their communication skills with loved ones are not as strong as they think.” U.S. News & World Report (2011) Loved ones assume they always know what each other mean by what they say. A lot of people do not realize that our moods can curve our interpretations of what another is trying to communicate. Communication is the whole key to any relationship. Couples are probably the most notorious for misinterpreting what the other has said. This is how little arguments spark
The first year I pretty much assumed that my fiancé would know what those days were to me, considering he has been with me for seven years and endured the death of my father with me. I should not have assumed, I should have properly communicated with him and explained to him why I was so emotional those days and that it was going to be very hard for me for the next few years probably. There were no arguments about the situation at hand, due to the fact that I did realize that I should have talked to him about it before those dates came
So, to ensure proper communication in the future, I have spoken with him and warn him a few days before hand about how I might be on those dates. He now understands and we have no miscommunication on the subject. I am all about talking things out and making things clear. I do not like things getting misconstrued and twisted. “Take responsibility for your communication behavior. Strive to be truthful, accurate, and clear in your communication with others.” Sole, K. (2011) Family can get things really misconstrued on the communication factor, I might add. Family assumes because you have not called them that there is some kind of problem. My fiancé and I have that problem with each of our families. We are really busy and just get caught up in life and we do not always call certain family members, as they would like us to anyway. If they come to visit unexpectedly and we are not really talking much, they assume the worst; when really we are just super