They are two founders who developed Interpersonal Deception Theory. Judee Burgoon or known as Professor Burgoon is the director of Human Communication Research for The Management of Information Centre. Besides that, she is also She is Professor of Communication and Professor of Family Studies and Human Development at the University of Arizona She was the PHD holder from West Virgina University.
Professor Burgoon has authored 7 books and over 240 articles, chapters and reviews related to nonverbal and relational communication, interpersonal relationship, the impact of new communication technologies on human and human-computer interaction, and other researches. Among the theories that she almost notably linked are Interpersonal Adaptation Theory, Expectancy Violations Theory and Interpersonal Deception Theory.
During her career, she has received many awards such as, NCA’s Golden Anniversary Monographs Awards, the Charles H. Woolbert Research Award for Scholarship of Lasting Impact. In 1999, she got the National Communication Association’s Distinguished Scholar Award, its highest award for lifetime of scholarly achievement. While in 2006, she awarded the Steven Chaffee Career Productivity Award. The awards that she gained show that she was talented American Academic.
The second founder is David Buller. Professor David Buller was the Professor at Northern Illinois University. He was the philosophy professor. Besides that he also was the writer. Among his publication are Function, Selection and Design, in 1999, Adapting Minds, Evolutionary Psychology and the Persistent Quest for Human Nature in 2005. He has also contributed a lot in writing articles to books and journals.
During his career, Buller has experience in finance, management, operations and sales. He has served as chairman of the Writing Committee for Social Studies Standards for Minnesota public schools. In his community he has served on the Hugo Planning Commission and political party precinct chair. As an active member of several professional organizations, he has been president of both the Strategic Leadership Forum and the Association for Corporate Growth. He was also a leader of the Edison Electric Institute Strategy Group and the Society of Competitive Intelligence Professionals. He was graduated from the Centre for Business Intelligence. He was died in 2011.
2.0 BACKGROUND OF THEORY
Interpersonal deception theory (IDT) explain the interplay between active deceivers and detectors who communicate with multiple motives, who behave strategically, whose communication behaviours mutually influence one another to produce a sequence of moves and countermoves, and whose communication is influenced by the situation in which the deception transpires (EmGriffin, 2000). IDT attempts to explain the manner in which individuals deal with actual or perceived deception on the conscious and subconscious levels while engaged in face-to-face communication (Buller, 1996). This theory is an interpersonal theory that a set of unchanging assumptions concerning interpersonal communication in general and deception in particular.
This theory is developed by Judee Burgoon and David Buller. The core ideas of IDT can be divided into two which are Interpersonal communication is interactive and strategies deception demands mental effort. Firstly, interpersonal communication is interactive means that interaction, rather than individuality, is at the core of their theory. For instance, if the encounter between you and Pat actually took place, both of you would be active participants, constantly adjusting your behaviour in response to feedback from each other. Whatever story you tell, you shouldn't expect Pat to remain verbally and nonverbally mute (EmGriffin, 2000). (Judee K.Burgoon, 1996)
Second idea is strategies deception demands mental efforts which means that successful deceiver must consciously manipulate information to create a plausible message, present it in a sincere manner, monitor reactions, prepare follow-up responses, and get ready for damage control of a tarnished image-all at the same time. For example, If you choose to be less than honest in your surprise encounter with Pat, you may find yourself unable to attend to every aspect of deception, and some of your communication behaviour will go on "automatic pilot." (EmGriffin, 2000).
3.0 MAIN CONCEPTS/ VARIABLES
3.1 Leakage
Leakage concept is the behaviour outside of the deceptive Sender’s conscious control, mostly nonverbal in character, can signal dishonesty and it is applied in IDT. The concept was developed by Miron Zuckerman, who created a four-factor model to explain when and why leakage is apt to occur (A.Fos, 2005).
First, deceiver’s intense attempt to control information can produce performances that come across as too slick. Second, lying causes physiological arousal. Third, the predominant felt emotions that accompany deceit are guilt and anxiety. Fouth, the complex cognitive factors involved in deception can tax the brain beyond its capacity (EmGriffin, 2000).
Under the four-factor model the extreme concentration required by an individual engaged in deception and employing the compensating mechanisms to mask that deceit may result in their performance appearing polished or rehearsed. Lying also causes a sender to become psychologically and physiological aroused. Such arousal is difficult to mask and will eventually evidence itself. It is this very principle on which the polygraph machine is base (A.Fos, 2005).
3.2 Truth bias
According to Burgoon and Buller, people tend to regard interpersonal message as honest, complete, direct, relevant and clear although when the speaker lying to them. McCornack claims that there exists an implied social contract that all of us will be honest with each other. It means that a mutual understanding that our messages will reflect reality as we know it.
Besides that, Burgoon and Buller also convinced that people who know and like each other are particularly resistant to doubting ach others’ words. For example, the warmth relationships are motivated to find truth in whatever the other says and thus overlook or rationalize away statements that others might find questionable. (EmGriffin, 2000).
3.3 Suspicion
Buller and Burgoon picture suspicion as a mid-range mind-set, located somewhere between truth and falsity. In spite of the many ways that respondents could become suspicious, Buller and Burgoon have found that it’s difficult to induce a deep-seated scepticism. Doubters tend to favour indirect methods to gain more information, but there is scant evidence that these probes help unmask deception (Judee K.Burgoon, 1996).
Suspicion occurs when someone is tried to find the truth from the others. The person becomes suspicious with people who make them unconfident to believe what the others talk about. It usually happens when the person does not believe what the person says and he/she will not accept the word hundred percent truths. For instance, when you have cheated by someone, it is hard to believe that person again. You become suspicious to whatever the person says to you.
3.4 Interactivity
Interpersonal deception theory views deception through the interactivity of interpersonal communication. As such, it considers deception as an interactive process between a sender and receiver. In contrast with previous studies of deception that focused on the sender and receiver individually, IDT focuses on the dyadic, relational and dialogic of deceptive communication.
Next, Dyadic communication refers to communication between two people. A dyad is a group of two people between whom messages are sent and received. While relational means that refers to communication in which meaning is created by two people simultaneously filling the roles of both sender and receiver.
Dialogic activity refers to the active communicative language of the sender and receiver, each relying upon the other within the exchange. Deception uses when the communication of one participant is deliberately false. For a variety of reasons, including receivers’ own cognitive loading from ongoing information management and the development of rapport between parties as interaction unfolds, receivers will typically judge senders more favorably than passive observers. Obviously, there is a correlation between the level of favorable impression of the sender and the ultimate chances of undetected deception (Burgoon, 1996).
3.5 Strategic behaviour
When the Receiver doubts the truthfulness of the information conveyed they will give clues in the form of non-typical behaviours. This will occur even if they attempt to mask such behaviours. Strategic behaviour is the proper behaviour or reaction that people use to act like nothing is happen or trying to hide a secret or the truth.
However, deceptive senders are by their nature more attuned to sensing suspicion than the receivers are to sensing deception. Thus, senders will adjust their message and its manner of presentation if they sense suspicion. This serves to make deception all the more difficult to detect. For instance, there is what is known as the “Othello error.” Individuals who are actually telling the truth behave in the same way when falsely accused or confronted with suspicion as do those guilty of actual deception. The term Othello error refers to the situation where a truth teller’s adaptation to a false accusation strikes the respondent as devious (Hearn, 2006).
3.6 Deception in Communication
Buller and Burgoon are more concerned with an individual’s motivation than with their actual actions in determining deception. In their work they found that every deceptive act has, at its core, at least one of three motivations. The first is to accomplish some task or attain some goal. Second, the communication may be directed at maintaining or creating a relationship with the other party. Finally, deception is often used to save face of one or both of the parties to the communication. Most people are uncomfortable when engaging in deception. One way in which they deal with this feeling is to attempt to disassociate from the behaviour. For example, when people try to lie they try to react like normal but there must be something different like reducing eye contact or through their body movement. (Judee K.Burgoon, 1996)
The other ways that senders deal with the deception is to engage in their masking behaviour. Masking is an attempt to protect the sender’s self-image and their relationship with the Receiver. When engaging in intentional deception senders will attempt to restrain any bodily cues which may signal deception. They may also engage in compensating behaviour, such as exhibiting extreme sincerity. The difficulty is that the detection of all of these behaviours can only be done if they are measured against the sender’s base-line behaviours (Judee K.Burgoon, 1996).
3.7 Falsification, Concealment and Equivocation
One strategy is falsification where the deceiving party also referred as sender. While the person who is flat-out lies of the communication called as receiver. It means that the sender creates a fiction to deceit. For example the sender will creates a story that not really happen just only to lie or hide the truth. The second type of deception is concealment. In concealment the sender omits certain material facts which results in deceptive communication. Finally, equivocation is included in the roster of deceptive behaviour. When employing equivocation the Sender skirts issues by, for instance, by changing the subject or offering indirect responses (Hearn, 2006).
Nonverbal cues
A nonverbal cue is important element in IDT. People can detect deception through non verbal cues. Although people can manipulate their words, however it is difficult to hide their truth nonverbal cues. Nonverbal cues are including facial expression, eye contact, gestures and touch. When someone try to hide secret or lie, they are difficult to hide their facial expression and especially their eye contact with others. They try to reduce the eye contact with others and the way they talk, they move or react is little bit different from their usual reaction.
4.0 Development of IDT
Interpersonal Deception Theory (IDT) is generating from the concept of nonverbal cues to detect deception during conversation. The idea of this study was come from Sigmund Freud who studied about nonverbal cues in detecting deception among people. In his study, Freud observed a patient being asked about his darkest feelings. If his mouth was shut and his fingers were trembling, he was considered to be lying. From the situation, he tried to study more about nonverbal cues.
Then, in 1989, DePaulo and Kirkendol developed the Motivation Impairment Effect (MIE). This occurs when a person’s motivation to succeed at lying negatively affects on the person’s performance, making the lie less convincing. (Kirekendol, 2011). MIE states the harder people try to deceive others, the more likely they are to get caught. Burgoon and Floyd, however, revisited this research and formed the idea that deceivers are more active in their attempt to deceive than most would anticipate or expect. For instance, DePaulo has estimated the human ability to detect deception at 53%, which she states is “not much better than flipping a coin.” She has also stated that “human accuracy is really just better than chance.” (Hearn, 2006).
In 1996, IDT was developed by two communication professors, David B. Buller and Judee K. Burgoon. They restudied the studies made by Sigmund Freud, nonverbal cues, and then they observed DePaulo and Kirkendol” studies which they developed about Motivation Impairment Effect. Judee Burgoon and David Buller then combined both studies and they studied in depth about deception in conversation among people. Prior to their study, deception had not been fully considered as a communication activity, it is more like theory of communication strategies use to lie or hide the truth information from others. Previous work had focused upon the formulation of principles of deception. The principles of Interpersonal Deception Study were derived by evaluating the lie detection ability of individuals observing unidirectional communication (Hearn, 2006).
The early studies of Interpersonal Deception Theory found initially that, although humans are far from perfect in their efforts to diagnose lies, they are substantially better at the task than would result merely by chance. However, this statement should be contrasted with subsequent statements made by the same researchers. Buller and Burgoon discount the value of highly controlled studies. Therefore, IDT is based on two-way communication and intended to describe deception as an interactive communicative process (Hearn, 2006). Based over years of the author’s and other scholars’ research, IDT expound on the dynamics properties of interpersonal communication, nonverbal behaviour, message processing, credibility and deception as it is achieved through interpersonal interaction.
5.0 Application of IDT
IDT demonstrate that people are poor at detecting deception. Thus, it is crucial that one not rely upon a perceived ability to detect deception in the negotiation context. There are habitual liars who compulsively engage in deception. However, most people do not lie without reason. It is natural to think that deception would be beneficial to any negotiating party. Many statements will be made in the course of a negotiation. Not all statements will completely true or completely false.
The language used to achieve a specific task can be varied as the people who feel a need to deceive. Yet Buller and Burgoon list some characteristic that reflect strategic intent.
5.1 Uncertainty and vagueness
If we do not want our friend to know about our absent for class yesterday, we must keep the answer short and noncommittal. If we say, “I’m sick” the brevity precludes detail to challenge (Burgoon, 2000). Another way is to speak in the passive voice and use indefinite pronouns.
5.2 Nonimmediacy, reticence, and withdrawal
We wish not to be there when our friend ask why we did not come to class yesterday. That desire to be out of the situation is often encoded in nonverbal actions. We might sit further apart that others, or lean back rather than forward as our answer. Words also can show nonimmediacy when the speaker changes verbs from present to past tense (Burgoon, 2000).
5.3 Disassociation
This is the way of distancing yourself from what you have done. Levelers are inclusive terms that do this by removing individual choice (Burgoon, 2000). For example, we will tell our friends that everyone has done it and not attending class is normal. All of these linguistic constructions sever the personal connection between the actor and the act of deception.
5.4 Image- and relationship-protecting behavior
Since discovery could hurt their reputations and threaten their relationship, they consciously strive to suppress the bodily cues that might signal deception. To mask the cues that leak out despite their best efforts, they try to appear extra sincere. Deceivers tend to nod in agreement when the respondent speaks, avoid interrupting, and smile frequently (Burgoon, 2000).
5.5 Flood the circuits
Interpersonal Deception Theory demonstrates that when a Sender’s cognitive abilities are “overloaded” they will begin to leak. It stands to reason that the greater the load, the greater the leak and the easier its detection. Another major premise of Interpersonal Deception Theory is that individuals are poor lie detectors in one-on-one communication situations. Thus, it would appear to be to a negotiator’s advantage to increase the load on their opposite (Burgoon, 2000).
5.6 Falsification, Concealment and Equivocation
One strategy is falsification where the deceiving party also referred as sender. While the person who is flat-out lies of the communication called as receiver. It means that the sender creates a fiction to deceit. For example the sender will creates a story that not really happen just only to lie or hide the truth. The second type of deception is concealment. In concealment the sender omits certain material facts which results in deceptive communication. Finally, equivocation is included in the roster of deceptive behaviour. When employing equivocation the Sender skirts issues by, for instance, by changing the subject or offering indirect responses (Hearn, 2006).
6.0 STRENGHT AND WEAKNESS
6.1 STRENGHT
6.1.1 Avoid hurting others and offending to another person
Interpersonal Deception Theory serves several benefits towards people in term of themselves and especially in relational development. One of the strength is IDT can help people in avoiding to hurt the others or offending to another person (Buller, 1996). Using IDT skills, people know how to control their message and able to distinguish the message that should or should to told to others. People also learn on how to react when they try to tell the information that is otherwise the right. They do that because only to not hurting the other’s feeling or they do not want to embarrass the others. For example, when your friend asks you about how beautiful she is, although you and others know that she is not beautiful. Then, you try to answer like, “oh you naturally beauty!” you keep smiling and serious. You are deceit only because you try to avoid hurting your friend. However, do not too frequent using this method because sometime you need to reveal the truth.
Besides that, using IDT can avoid offending to another person. You try to hide your falseness or something just to avoid your guilt to the others. IDT is the best way that you ca use to react like normal and people will not blame you. For example, you are late to the discussion group, and then you create a story that people will sympathy on you. So they are not so to show their anger to you.
6.1. 2 To emphasizes their best qualities
Using IDT can help people to maintain their image or qualities. When they do something wrong, and they use IDT to cover their falseness (Buller, 1996). It helps help them not to be looked down upon by others. For example, when students always absent to school, they will give a reason and act like they really have problem. The teacher will understand the student’s situation and just let the students go without scolded him. The other example like when the worker’s reputation is decrease, he give a false excuse that can back up him to be still trusted by his boss.
Besides that sing IDT also help people to feel that they are good in cheating or avoiding themselves from guilty to the others. When the deceit and the others believe them, they feel they are good and it helps them to improving their qualities of image. For example, people who always deceit and people cannot detect, they feel proud for their success to deceit to the others.
6.1.3 To avoid getting conflict
IDT can help people to avoid getting conflict with others. When there have there have the truth that can create conflict, it is better to be silent and just keep the things as secret rather than try to discuss the issue. It may helps people to be in good condition and avoid any conflict to happen among them. For example, you know something about your friend’s secret and if you tell your friends about it both of you will have a conflict because you know that your friend do not like everybody talking about him. The other example like, when you and your partner have and issue to discuss, then when both of you start to talk about that, you will start fight. Then you make a decision not to reveal any issue. So when your partner ask you, is there any problem to be settled, and then your answer is like “No, I’m just okay”. You try to avoid conflict with her.
6.1.4 To speed up relationship
When they have no conflict, people react like nothing happen, no issue to discus, then it can improve the relationship. The relationship will be in good condition and everybody will not have an issue to each other although in their hearts are going to discus something with the others. However they deceit because they do not want any conflict happen in the relationship. For example, although you and your friend have something to discuss but both of you keep silent to avoid any conflict, so that the relationship move on without any problem. It is sometime good to do like that, but sometime in relationship both of the partner need to be honest to make them comfortable with the relationship.
6.1.5 Improving communication skill
Those individuals with high communication skill set should be able to control information, manipulate their behaviour, and restraint from leakage while deceiving the others (Wagner, 2011). In contrast, individuals lacking in communication skills may show discomfort, leak arousal, and appear less confident when completing the complex task of deception. For example, when you know about communication skill if you want to deceit, you still can react like normal so that people are difficult to detect it.
6.1.6 Help to detect the deceit
People who know and learn about IDT will easily know when people try to deceit them. The receivers are considered successful if their deceit not detected and they remain credible to the receivers. However, people who know about IDT can detect when people try to deceit them. It is help them to be cheated by others. It is useful to have IDT knowledge. So people are aware about your ability to detect the deceit (Wagner, 2011).
6.2 Weakness
6.2.1 Cause others become suspicious
While individuals may not be accurate in determining the difference between truthful and deceptive message, there are still times when one becomes suspicious of another’s deceit. When the receiver is suspicious to deceit, their behaviour will reflect whether they want to make their suspicion to be known. Receiver may choose to evaluate a sender’s verbal and nonverbal interactions covertly, having little effect on the sender. Receiver may choose to make their suspicions known and openly confront the sender (Wagner, 2011). It is good to have suspicions towards the others, but when the sender reveal too much suspicions the receiver become discomfort to talk with the receiver. Sometime the receiver become too suspicious although the sender does not deceit anything and it make the situation become uncomfortable. For example, you are too suspicious towards your partner, it makes your partner become discomfort to talk and share story with you.
6.2.2 Deceiver or sender become anxiety
The deceiver or sender becomes anxiety when conversational parties share a strong truth bias (EmGriffin, 2000). When the truth is reveal, the receiver will feel sad and unsatisfied because he or she has been cheated with the others. And then, the sender will feel guilt towards the receivers. The mood becomes different and both of them become anxiety. They cannot interact like usual because they feel discomfort to each other. It may raise conflict between them. So, it is better to decrease the deception in the relationship. Once it is reveal, the person is difficult to trust you anymore. For example, you deceit your partner and then, the partner detect that you lie to her. She upset and disappointed toward you. Both of you become quite to each other. It may destroy you relationship.
6.2.3 Slow down a relationship
When the deception detected and both sender and receiver become anxiety, the relationship become dull and slow down. They react not as usual the conversation between them become less and sometime the relationship will end. It is depend on how the person settles the problem. Sometime, they can save their relationship, but some people cannot because for then honesty is very important in relationship. For example, when you caught your partner cheat you, you will feel sad and you angry with him. So you will decide whether to just let it go (forgive him) or you cannot accept what he done to you.
6.2.4 Lack of honesty
Too much deception may decrease the amount of honesty (EmGriffin, 2000). When the person always lie and hide the secret, avoid the truth. And then there increase the deception. The honesty and trust become less in the relationship. It makes the other difficult to put trust on the person anymore. In relationship both trust and honest play an important role, so it is better to avoid too much deception in relationship. We know that deception can help to avoid hurting others or conflict, but too much deception can decrease the trust and honesty. For example, people are easily trust the person who does not cheat them. They are difficult to believe the person who cheated them. They become too suspicious and the relationship may destroy because of this deception.
7.0 Summary of Theory (try to make it 2 pages )
8.0 Key Terms (add more )
Interpersonal Deception Theory (IDT):
An interpersonal theory that posits a set of unchanging assumptions concerning interpersonal communication in general and deception in particular.
Deception:
A message knowingly transmitted by a sender to foster a false belief or conclusion by the receiver.
Falsification:
A form of deception that creates a fiction- a lie.
Concealment:
A form of deception that tells only a portion of the truth.
Equivocation:
A form of deception that uses vague language to dodge the issue.
Leakage:
Unconscious nonverbal cues that signal an internal state.
Truth Bias:
The persistent and pervasive expectation that people will tell the truth.
Othello Error:
An error that occurs when, in the context of a suspected deception, a truth teller’s adaptation to a false accusation strikes the respondent as devious.
Disassociation:
A linguistic strategy of distancing oneself from what one has done.
Nonimmediacy:
A strategy for symbolically removing oneself from the situation.
Suspicion:
A state of doubt or distrust that is held without sufficient evidence or proof.
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