Using jealousy to get back with an ex is a touchy subject because it is a strong emotional motivator. When used incorrectly jealousy may produce psychos like the ones discussed in the earlier chapter, but when used correctly you will have him eating out of your hand like a pet. When your ex sees that you are doing better without him and better than him, he will instantly become jealous enough to find out what the heck you are doing. He will then evaluate what he did wrong or what you did right. Also, it will make him think about if you taken the relationship seriously or not based on how fast you moved on and not stressing out like he might be. It is best to let some time pass before initiating the jealousy tactic by allowing him to go through the healing process comfortably, especially if he loved you, and vice versa. The relationship game is a game of chess (creating opportunity) and not checkers (jumping on an …show more content…
Moreover, do not look at these tactics as manipulation but more along the lines of using natural charm to sway him back on your side. Whether the ex wants you or not is irrelevant because most relationships are based on an emotional connection and that drive could be your advantage. Most exes would not admit they are distraught by the break up and would just play it off like everything is ok. The truth is that they do care and are always watching your every move. It is very hard for people to change and get over things for the most part, normally the change is temporary and not permanent, so always expect the ex to look at your pictures every once in a while or even call just to see how you are