During the story, the author tells about the conflict between uncle Chul and the author’s mother. We are able to see, that their conflict comes from the cultures gap between them. In addition, we can see that Uncle Chul always look for the mother’s approval and respects her since he thinks that she is a fine woman. Uncle Chul always tries to be nice to the mother, “He would use the most decorous voice in asking for a glass or a fresh bucket of ice, and even offer to help load the dishwasher or errand to the store” (Lee, 25.) However, the mother’s side in the conflict with uncle Chul is different. She doesn’t respect him since he didn’t graduate from college and always looks for the easy way out. Moreover, she always criticizes him since he doesn’t look after his family who are in Korea. The fact that the mother asks rhetorically about his wasted past also points to her criticism. Furthermore, the mother doesn’t respect him since his actions contradicts her traditional views, therefore, she doesn’t want do give him the loan for the business he wants to open.…
In March 2010, I anxiously anticipated a very, very big move from the United States to South Korea. Two years before this big event, I was happily engaged to a very charming man, who in the future would deceive me in the worst possible way. He had already moved to South Korea, to become an English teacher, almost one year before my plans to uproot my entire life to be with him. After tying up loose ends in my hometown, I went to visit my father, in the state of Washington, where I would soon set off on my journey.…
By telling a story of Lee’s mother, the author demonstrated that the native people looked down upon foreign people who had difficulties to live in a new circumstance and could not speak English well to express what they wanted and thought. With the discrimination from the native people, Lee’s family struggled a lot in this community. The audience is the people who did not show respect to the foreigners and did not help them overcome the difficulties.…
During the Japanese internment in WWII, Henry, who is a first-generation Chinese American, went to an only non-white school was forced to work in the kitchen during lunch and clean after school because that was how his “scholarship” was being paid for. At that school, he met a Japanese-American girl named Keiko and became friends instantly. Even though Henry’s father was not very fond of the “enemy” Japanese people, that did not stop Henry from being her friend. One night, both Henry and Keiko snuck out to see each other. When they saw each other, Keiko gave him her family pictures because all Japanese had to get rid of any possession that could link them being known as Japanese so they could avoid being taken away.…
In the personal essay, “The Good Daughter” by Caroline Hwang, the author describes her incident with a Korean woman which made her question her own identity. Her parents came to America two years before she was born, so she knows only a little about her native Korean culture. Although she considers herself an American, deep down she also feels obligated to keep her Korean heritage. She uses rhetorical devices of ethos, logos and pathos throughout her essay to appeal to the readers about her situation where she believes she is torn between her and her parent’s dream.…
Each girl eventually recognizes how the older generation played a significant part in shaping their identities causing them to embrace their Chinese heritage. The short stories focus on the first American mothers and their American Chinese daughters.…
As its complex structure suggests, the book tries to organize the the stories of mother and daughter with the intention of reaching the same destination: the daughter's recovery of her cultural and ethnic identity as Chinese by overcoming the generational gap and the cultural differences between herself and her mother. The mother intend to hand over their "good intentions" and "usable past" in China to their daughter in America. Amy Tan, depicts the relationship between Jing-mei, a young Chinese-American girl, and her mother, a Chinese immigrant, her mother. She does not have something special things. However, her normal life has changed a little because of her mother.…
Though the two stories “Fish cheeks” and “Two Kinds” have many similarities, their differences play a key role in defining each individual story. Both stories have the same basic setup; they are each told from the point of view of a young Asian-American girl, who are both the daughters of generation Chinese immigrants. This proves to be a source of conflict in the two stories, due to the fact that the cultural and generational differences between both mother-daughter duos. In the story “Fish Cheeks,” the narrator is struggling with her heritage and cultural traditions as she tries to fit into American society and be accepted by her peers, specifically, the minister’s son. She is embarrassed by her mother’s ethnic food choices for dinner and…
In ‘’Facing Poverty with a Rich Girl’s Habits’’ by Suki, Kim, Suki talks about how a Korean girl went by being wealthy to her family going bankrupt. I think that her most important point is that she is now a Korean-American who once lived in Queens, New York in 1980’s. In the essay Kim, talks about how she learned to adapt to a new way of living after losing everything that her family once owned. She begins to explain how she begins to accept who she had become, and how her outlook on her life changed after this transition had taken placed. The most important (pg62) that when she started middle school, her adjusting to the American culture Kim, did not know a thing about how to speak English. Another important point is that when that young girl who ‘’Faced Poverty with a Rich Girl’s Habits’’ managed to adjust and settle in the new life.…
“I stared at my father’s photograph-his thin face stern, lips latched tight, his eyes peering permanently to the right” (Fleischman, 2002, p.1). “I was nine years old and still hoped that perhaps his eyes might move” (Fleischman, 2002, p.1)”. “ Might notice me” (Fleischman, 2002, p.1). “ Here in Cleveland people call it spring” (Fleischman, 2002, p.2). Kim was a little girl, who lived in Cleveland with her mother and sisters who mourned the loss of her father. Looking at his photograph only reinforced the painful fact that she never experienced a daughter-father relationship that she so desperately missed. Her desire for her father to see her was so profound that she wished that he could see her from his eyes in the photograph.…
4. Song, I. Y. (1996). Battered women in Korean immigrant families: The silent scream. New York: Garland Publishing Inc.…
Sandra considers herself deserving of her father’s respect but she does not earn it. Instead, Sandra passively sails through the life she is dealt. In truth, Sandra never does anything for herself except for her choose to study English. Even her decision to major in English seems driven by petty, antagonism, a half- hearted rebellion against her non-English speaking father. Sandra gently mocks herself; this allowed me the liberty to putter about, embroidering my little poems and stories without my father interrupting with so much as “What’s that you’re writing?”…
Choe quoted Bernice B.H. Kim’s words in his article that “nearly all (Korean Immigrants) had been city dwellers” and “farmers ……made up less than one-seventh of the total number who came to the Territory (of Hawai’i).” (Choe 18) He suspects that the backgrounds and identities of most people who migrated to live in Hawai’i and worked at the sugar factory were forged. Early Korean immigrants are different from people from Korean diaspora, they believe it is proud to live in a western country and this motivation impels them to do something illegal. It can also be seen from how the author interpret picture bride. He refers a 19-year-old picture bride’s words “My parents would be very shame, so I can’t go back” and “I (married him)… … Then, I didn’t talk to him for three months, living together in the same house.” (Choe 29) Even though this girl’s words express her helplessness, it also reflects that early Korean immigrants‘ living attitudes dominant in their decisions whether to live abroad or not. The author also adds “Of course, not all the picture bride marriages were as disappointing as this one.” (Choe 29) Early Korean Immigrants gradually become active to make their living decisions. Especially, when the author mentions the mix marriage between Japanese and Korean or Korean and Chinese, it mirrors that Korean immigrants are positive to build relationship with other ethnical groups. And they send their children to high-level institutions for their children’s education. it explains that Korean immigrants are making efforts to coevolve with western people and intend to integrate their culture with western culture and other cultures. Thus, early Korean immigrants have more advanced and active thoughts than people from Korean diaspora.…
When Ji Young arrived, I was unsure about her, because she took up space on my bathroom counter, interfered with my shower time, and took away some of my parents’ attention. As I got to know her, things changed to become one of the greatest experiences of my life thus far. Every day, we sat on her bed and talked until my bedtime and sometimes later. I quizzed her in chemistry and history, and we talked about the differences between her life in South Korea and my life in America. She taught me some Korean words and phrases, cooked Asian cuisine for us, and told me about North and South Korea, where even the more affluent people face hardships that few Americans routinely face, such as frequent power outages and not having heat in classrooms. Despite our age difference, we became quite close, and when the time came for her to leave,…
Many women find that their mothers have the greatest influence on their lives and the way their strengths and weaknesses come together. In Amy Tan’s The Joy Luck Club, the lives of four Chinese mothers and their Chinese-American daughters are followed through vignettes about their upbringings and interactions. One of the mothers, An-Mei Hsu, grows up away from her mother who has become the 4th wife of a rich man; An-Mei is forced to live with her grandmother once her mother is banned from the house, but eventually reunites and goes to live in the man’s house with her mother. Her daughter, Rose, has married an American man, Ted, but their marriage begins to end as he files for divorce; Rose becomes depressed and unsure what to do, despite her mother’s advice. An-Mei has strengths and weaknesses that shape her own courageous actions, and ultimately have an influence on her daughter.…