Marriage and Great Chemistry

Anti-Divorce

One of the main things people do when they feel great chemistry between one another is get married. Some couples are unable to maintain their relationship and they get a divorce; which is one of the solutions to solve the problems between husband and wife. Most people think carefully before they get married however the divorce rates are continuously increasing.

There are three main causes of divorce: changing in woman’s roles, stress in modern living, and lack of communication. The first significant cause of recent rise in the rates of divorce is a woman’s role being completely changed. In the past, men had to earn all the money to afford the expenses of the family, whereas woman only did housework. That led to the woman having no money which meant she had to depend on the man. Since the man was making all the money it was hard for most women to separate from their husbands. Now women have obtained more equality in the relationship and began to work and support themselves. One of the main things people do when they feel great chemistry between one another is get married. Some couples are unable to maintain their relationship and they get a divorce; which is one of the solutions to solve the problems between husband and wife. Most people think carefully before they get married however the divorce rates are continuously increasing.

Nowadays we see that many married people end with the act of divorce and a lot of them are young people. As we see, the current divorce rate is increasing; this is making people not to take marriage as something serious and this would be a serious problem in the future. Because many parents are separating this brings problems in the relationship with the children, themselves and in some cases even it sounds weird, this might bring more people to coexist with each other.

Partners sometimes stay in bad marriages for the sake of the kids. But this can be a terrible mistake on their part if there is abuse involved. By doing this parents generally put a mental burden on the children. Bringing up a child in an unhealthy environment where parents are always fighting and trying to put each other down is not a good example that you set for your kids. But I believe that each marriage has different issues and if the problem can be solved amicably, there is no need for divorce. Most current divorces leave children worse off, educationally and financially, than they would have been if their parents stayed married, and a majority of divorces leave children psychologically worse off as well. Only a minority of divorces are taking place in families where children are likely to benefit in any way from their parents separation.

We do not advocate divorce as a first step when a marriage is going awry. There are always ups and downs in marriages. Anyone can manage life during good times. It is getting through the bad times that makes or breaks a relationship. When parents get divorced children definitely are the worst affected. Life becomes very uncertain for kids. The sense of security and stability completely vanishes. They are made to choose a parent whom they wish to stay with and they cannot live with both the parents even if they want to. Overnight one of the parents becomes a visitor and they have no other choice, but accept this cruel reality of life. The child goes through traumatic stress if parents are always fighting and arguing with each other. The child is always in the losing end because the fact that the child loves both his parents, the reality remains that he has to choose between one of his parents to live with. Since we live in a cruel and unfair world, the sanctuary of marriage should remain intact for there is always a solution to every problem that arises to every marriages and it must be solved between the couple for the benefit of the family they both built.