Obierka- Okonkwo’s close friend, whose daughter’s wedding provides cause for festivity early in the novel. Obierika looks out for his friend, selling Okonkwo’s yams to ensure that Okonkwo won’t suffer financial ruin while in exile and comforting Okonkwo when he is depressed. Like Nwoye, Obierika questions some of the tribe’s traditional strictures.…
The novel begins by introducing a young Okonkwo and his triumph over “Amalinze the Cat” in a fight, immediately identifying his strength and respect in the Ibo community. The narrator then delves into the topic of Okonkwo’s lazy and cowardly father, Unoka, whom Okonkwo wants to be the complete opposite of. Okonkwo’s fame, respect among the community, and hard work granted him a successful farm, three wives, and multiple children. Though with this greatness came the responsibility of looking after Ikemefuna, the boy who was a sacrifice to maintain peace between Umuofia and Mbaino. For three years, Ikemefuna made himself a part of Okonkwo’s family. Okonkwo had taken a special liking to Ikemefuna, he began to see him as a son more so than his own blood son. It is true that, “Ruled…
To begin with, Okonkwo’s death marks the end of the Ibo culture in Umuofia. Anxious to return home, Okonkwo does not understand why everyone is allowing the missionaries to interfere with their lifestyle. Imposing a new religion and government, the white men do not understand or seem to care about how the clan operates, focusing solely on converting the clansmen to a supposedly superior ideology. As a result of his upbringing, Okonkwo is not afraid to fight for what he believes in, his tribe and culture, unlike most of the people in Umuofia. Originally convinced that Umuofia would fight against the new religion,…
Another example of how Okonkwo went through change is when the Missionaries came to Mbanta. "Okonkwo grieved. And it was not just a personal grief. He mourned for the clan, which he saw breaking up and falling apart, and he mourned for the warlike men of Umuofia, who had so accountably become soft like women."(P.183) This quote shows how the Missionaries ruined the village, and how things fell apart. "We have been sent by this great God to ask you to leave your wicked ways and false god, and turn to him so that you can be saved when you die." (P.145) This quote says why the missionaries came and what they are were planning to do to the village. Nwoye,…
Many people need to accept the idea that others are going to be different. Not everyone is going to follow the rules. In “Things Fall Apart” by Chinua Achebe, Men are suppose to have a title, fame, and be powerful. A woman’s purpose in the ibo culture is quite different. Females are required to provide care for their children and husband. Females can’t do whatever they want unlike men in the Ibo culture. Females are seen as weak as compared to males. Men are seen as tough and are expected to do all the hard-work. Father and son relationships are based on the way men were raised. Oknonkwo didn’t grow up the way he wanted due to the fact how embarrassing his own father was. Oknonkwo wanted to be different from his father. Oknonkwo achieved that goal. What…
Throughout the novel, Okonkwo treats most of the people harshly, however, Ikemefuna, a boy he takes into his family, and his daughter Ezinma are probably the only characters whom he treats kindly. Although Ikemefuna is not a member of his family Okonkwo felt that "his son's development was due to Ikemefuna" (37) and felt proud when the two boys "sat with him in his obi" (37). Although, he strikes Ikemefuna down when the clan orders him killed it is not because of hatred but because "he was afraid of being thought weak" (43). Ezinma is Okonkwo's favorite daughter and the only child of Ekwefi, is bold in the way that she approachesand even sometimes contradictsher father. Okonkwo remarks to himself multiple times that he wishes she "should have been a boy" (45), since he considers her to have such a masculine spirit. As well, he and she are very similar in their characteristics, which are shown during Okonkwo's exile when Ezinma agrees to put off marriage until her family returns from exile so as to help her father leverage his…
But now when the Western people started to take charge he lost all the power he once had. Okonkwo tries to get the Ibo people to assist him in trying to rid of the Western people and get back to their old ways. But instead, the Ibo people will not help Okonkwo in his quest. This is another way how Okonkwo faced cultural collisions with the Ibo people. “How do you think we can fight when our own brothers have turned against us?” This text shows us how Okonkwo wants to fight but the Ibo people will not help him as they have “turned against…
In "To Build a Fire" the man goes on a journey in the Yukon while it is negative seventy degrees. The man is very stubborn and has a lot of pride on himself. When the author, Jack London, says, "...and the strangeness and the weirdness of it all- made no impression on the man." London is showing the reader that the man does not realize how cold it is. I think that he knows it is cold but refuses to admit that because he wants to be like superman, which is impermeable to the cold. The man sets this unattainable task, getting to the campsite by six o'clock. I think he does this because he hopes that it will keep him motivated to move faster. Unfortunately as said in the text, " he lacked the endurance." I think this shows that even if man has the will to do something, nature will always be stronger and stop them.…
The Ibo and Western culture may seem to be complete opposites at first glance but, if you look close enough, you will see their similarities. Both the Ibo and Western cultures share problem solving techniques. For example, they sent Okonkwo to a different village to act as a representative, just like we send people from our country to other countries to speak for us about the different issues our countries may have. The Ibo people and westerners also have some similar values. They both value…
Okonkwo is a well-respected man and warrior of Umuofia who rose from poverty and descended to destitution. As a boy Okonkwo was able to work hard and gain status, at his height he was progressively disgraced by a series of his own actions and banished from the tribe for several years. After returning Okonkwo gained some traction in his village but was imprisoned and died disgracefully through suicide. The most harmful event in his personal tragedy is the accidental murder of a clansman which led to his exile.…
In the Ibo culture, masculinity is valued as being strong when faced with difficult times. Anything else is regarded as feminine. Okonkwo chooses to kill Ikemefuna to demonstrate his full acceptance of the values of masculinity and the prominent hold it has had on his life, to the point where nothing else matters. Manliness, the dominant principle of his life, finally corrupts Okonkwo to put above masculinity above family, feminine feelings, and future…
“No matter what language people speak-from Arabic to Yiddish, from Chinook to Chinese-marriage is what we use to describe a specific relationship of love and dedication to another person” (Wolfson 90). In the essay “What Is Marriage” by Evan Wolfson, he argues that marriage is a very important custom to our society from both social and spiritual aspects of life. Wolfson believes that as long as two people are in love whether if it is same-sex or opposite sex, couples have the right to be married. The government should permit and support same-sex couples to be married and become financially and socially stable. Likewise, Author Andrew Sullivan of “My Big Fat Straight Wedding” writes about his perspectives that everyone should acknowledge and treat the gay and lesbian people with respect as a human being.…
Marriage continues to be a popular institution in the United States. Although looking at the statistics in regard to marriage today you can see how commitment to marriage is faltering. Due to over half of all marriages ending in divorce, the institution of marriage and what it represents is continually coming into question. In researching different theories in Sociology, the central idea of symbolic interactionism, and how we attach meanings to symbols, is the key to understanding how we view the world and communicate with each other. This theory was researched by sociologist Herbert Blumer. In this theory human beings respond to things based on the meanings that those things carry for them. The interpretation of what the meanings are is part of our historical social interaction. Marriage and the symbols they use to represent that commitment are lost in today’s society. Part of the reason that people don’t hold marriage to such high regard as they once did, is the symbolic interactionism that represents the sanctity and commitment of marriage has changed…
One of the prominent values of the Ibo was their respect for the community. The Ibo put the community before themselves and that helped in lessening conflicts in their society. The clan showed their value for the community when the leaders of the clan were captured. After the leaders of Umuofia had been captured, the everyone came together to discuss a course of action. Families in the community gave money for the ransom, even if they were not immediate family. The whole community stood unified and worked together in getting the leaders back. Without the leader's guidance, small disputes could cause great conflicts in a society, but the Ibo’s harmony helped get the leaders home faster. Since the leaders were released from captivity quickly,…
Marriage is an institution. A happy wife makes for a happy life. Love and marriage go together like a horse and carriage. From the beginning of creation, these common schools of thought have contributed to the gender roles of men and women in relationships. Adam went out during the day to name all the animals that God created on the Earth, and Eve stayed home and had engaging conversations with reptiles. In any union the roles of each participant are either defined or assumed over time. In literature, gender roles and marriage are portrayed in a wide variety of ways, ranging from the meek, silent wife to the husband who stops just short of breaking his back to provide for his family. This spectrum is evident in such short stories as The Secret Life of Walter MItty, I’m Going!: A Comedy in One Act, and The Story of an Hour. Women have traditionally been considered the weaker sex in marriage, and it is rare to have a fair and equitable relationship worth reading about. In the case of these stories, when women do possess, or attempt to hold more influence in the relationship, it does not always make for a happier coexistence. Eve’s desire to gain wisdom ultimately led to the fall of man, so if the woman happens to be the more dominant partner, will that lead to the failure of her relationship?…