Marriage and Wonder Delight Adultery

Adultery: A Wonder Delight
Adultery is the act of sexual intimacy between a married person and someone who is not that person’s wife or husband. Adultery is the act of gratification with another that is not your loving spouse. Brady marries Belinda and are a happy couple. Brady travels and meets a woman who he finds attractive. Sleeps with her and yet his wife is home and has no idea. Adultery in the eyes of God is a sin, he just broke a commandment. Yet, people commit the act for a number of reasons. Having voluntary sexual intercourse between a married man and someone other than his wife is the act of adultery. It can be vice versa with the wife committing adultery. It doesn’t always have to be the man who is the one committing the act. It all begins with the simple thought of performing the act. Many reasons are given for why one commits the act. It may be that one doesn’t listen to the other. Brady may feel that he is missing something in his marriage. Belinda may want just that simple hug or words of love spoken. To be caressed and touched with every touch saying, “I Love You.” To have sparks ignite where embers once were just lite pieces of coal. One may perform adultery for the sexual gratification of getting out there what is not given at home. It may be done just to see if they can get away with it. Some people commit adultery for the emotional feeling of what they can’t have at home. You can be a lawyer and millions of dollars and still be one who performs the act. This word brings raised eyebrows and hush tones in a conversation. Yet, what one is lacking in a spouse is found in what is known as a side line fling. Having an affair may result in just wanting that feeling of love for that moment. Having someone who will listen and sympathize with you while explaining what is wrong in the marriage. A woman may look for emotional support and words of love while a man at times want sexual gratification. Having sex with someone may bring an excitement that is not felt at home. Cheating means that while all of your energy is on your affair, your now letting that divide your marriage. You may not have the intimacy and energy to give to your spouse. You deceive your partner into thinking that it’s okay, but your lying about feelings and actions in the marriage. This word brings separation between a man and the spouse. It brings a world of hurt and trust issues. To know that your loved one has been loving and sharing intimate details of themselves with someone else is hurtful. It can turn lovers into enemies, wives are scorn, husbands get mad and want to fight. There is no right with having an affair. If your not happy at home then leave it and move on with life. If your committing adultery, better not get caught. Your looking at alimony and the side line person may not be all you thought them to be. People need to understand that sometimes you have to go outside of your comfort zone to keep a happy home. You may have to dress up and role play to keep excitement in the marriage. Meet at a bar and pretend that your two ships passing in the night. Unmet needs are one of the many reasons people will commit adultery. To steer clear of this be your spouse’s sexual fantasy. Wear a wig, put on a costume and make up a safe word. Be the playmate that you can be and let them see that you drip and ooze sex. Don’t let your looks go down but keep yourself beautiful and in shape. Adultery can sometimes help a relationship if it hasn’t gone to far. In the opinion of some adultery starts at the meer thought of doing it. To keep the dreaded word from your relationship, then role play. Be the other woman or man, don’t think that just everyday things matter. If you don’t want this word to be in your marriage’s vocabulary then you should make sure your significant other’s needs are met. Never will this individual condone adultery, but I have learnt that not everything is found within the home. Sometimes things happen and you take a step out and realize that what you do for them needs to be done for your spouse. My thoughts are just that my own. I don’t condone adultery but you have to be careful that your keeping the needs met of your spouse. I would rather dress up and be called Ann, than never to be called at all. Unfortunately, some relationships usher in adultery and don’t know how to sweep it out the door. The relationship doesn’t always lead to sexual intimacy but it still leads to places two people vow before god never to go.
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Works Cited
Melody, John, “Adultery.” The Catholic Encyclopedia. Vol 1. New York: Robert Appleton Company, 1907. 22 Sept 2013 http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/01163a.htm The Holy Bible, The New Kings Version

Cited: Melody, John, “Adultery.” The Catholic Encyclopedia. Vol 1. New York: Robert Appleton Company, 1907. 22 Sept 2013 http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/01163a.htm The Holy Bible, The New Kings Version