Mother Inferior Analysis

Introduction
All parents love and want the best for their children, and they have their own way to raise their kids. According to the article Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior, Amy Chua is the one who will force her kids to do what she think it is good. However, my opinion goes against the thought of Amy Chua about how to raise children because I believe that children should not only be prepared for their future but also enjoy their childhood with the pure innocence. According to the article Mother Inferior? written by Hanna Rosin, I agree with her idea that, “Children have to find happiness themselves.” Parent should not create their new life, but let their kids make their own decision, do their own dream.
Summarizing Chua’s ideas
In the article
She believe that we should let our children explore the world by themselves. Rosin think that she won’t force her kids to do what they don’t want; she will let her kids do their desire work. She had given examples about her friend and Andre Agassi to prove that if children are forced to do something, they won’t be happy. Rosin believe that anyone can be a genius if they really hard-working. Therefore, she think that let children choose what they are interested in because she believe that doing what children want will make they be more successful. Rosin think that kids are not “lazy”, but they “still have giant superegos and a mad drive to succeed.” She think that the moderately successful children are happier than a miserable
Lulu was still young and she might get psychological hurt. Even if the result can be good, threating a young kid cannot be accepted. There is another way to make children believe in their own. For example, when I feel depressed, and want to give up something, my mother always gently give me some advices, and remind me my efforts, what my purpose is. Thanks to that, I realize that if I gave up, there would be a wall blocking my way forever. One of points which I don’t agree with Amy Chua is that children should do their desire work. Parents are only the one who will orient their kids what is right and support them. Everyone has their own choice for their life. If parents decide what children must do, it is not their children life because that is the second life of parents. A question is considered: Why we should let our kids do their desire work? Will it be easier? The answer is no. Nothing is easy. If you want to achieve something, or do something, you have to try it, hard-working, not giving up. The difference is that when you do your desire work, there will be more motivation, enthusiasm, passion than the work you don’t like. These thing will help you overcome