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Both “Before You Were Mine” by Carol Ann Duffy and “Mother Any Distance” by Simon Armitage focus on the role of being a mother and having to give up something. In “Before You Were Mine” its Carol Ann Duffy’s mother letting go and giving up her carefree lifestyle, to take up the important role of a mother. Whereas in “Mother Any Distance” its Simon Armitage’s mother realising she has to let her son grow up and leave her grasps.…
Fanning wrote the poem Child Carrier, which is one poem out of a set of poems, entitled Man Carrying A Corpse. I believe that this poem is about the main character, Man. He is trying to fit into a crowed elevator with a corpse draped over his shoulder. When he gets in the elevator a little girl reaches up and touches Corpse’s hand. The Man was startled that the little girl touched Corpse without any reservations. Then the little girl told Man not to worry as she readjusted the large load she was carrying under a blanket. I think that the little girl was also carrying a corpse of her own.…
According to the Merriam dictionary, “Empathy” is defined as: the action of understanding, being aware of, being sensitive to, and vicariously experiencing the feelings, thoughts, and experience of another of either the past or present without having the feelings, thoughts, and experience fully communicated in an objectively explicit manner; also: the capacity for this.…
In the novel, Oryx and Crake, empathy is shown to convey the author’s truth about abandonment in someone’s early life. Empathy is used to identify what a person is feeling in many different situations including traumatic events. The protagonist Jimmy has found out that his mother has left him and his father and is going through many emotions in his head, trying to cope of what has happened. “Maybe she had loved Jimmy, thinks Snowman. In her own manner. Though he hadn’t believed it at the time. Maybe, on the other hand, she hadn’t loved him. She must have had some sort of positive emotion about him though. Wasn’t there supposed to be a maternal bond?” (Atwood 72). This quote has the device of empathy as it identifies how Jimmy is feeling after he learns the news that his mother has left him. He is going through many different emotions like confusion by asking questions like, “Maybe she loved Jimmy?” and “Wasn’t there supposed to be a maternal bond?” and depression as he is mourning the loss of his mother. Identifying what a character is feeling plays an important role of finding the traumatic event in someone’s early life to foreshadow how they will feel in their adult life. When a mother decides to abandon their child, they are left to feel many emotions mentally and psychologically and grieve for a long period. In Genevieve van Wyden article, Mother…
Both swallowed in their job, the janitor in “Jorge the Church Janitor Finally Quits” by Martin Espada and the secretary in “The Secretary Chant” by Marge Piercy feel unappreciated and lost as employees. Jorge is “outside…of [Americans] understanding” and The Secretary is lost in her work and compares herself to objects such as her “hips are a desk.” The employees from these poems have become hidden behind their duties and are slowly sinking into the unknown.…
In Jody Fong-Bates poem, “What Shall He Tell That Son?” the narrator reflects on the advice that he would like to convey to his son, from his life experiences, that will better prepare his son for the ‘real world.’ While the father’s thoughts indicates his devotion and love for his son, there are some contradictory ideas. The ultimate goal of the father is to create a better life for his son by offering him practical advice for his future. Voicing, “tell him to go be a fool every so often. And to have no shame over having been a fool yet learning something out of every folly.”(22-24) is an idea that implies that his son should go out, have fun and make mistakes that he can learn from. Making mistakes might offer a learning opportunity, but…
In my personal experience, I have learned empathy and how to connect with people from the novel The Secret Life Of Bees. In the book, the main character Lily, says “I had asked God repeatedly to do something about T-Ray. He’d gone to church for forty years and was only getting worse.” This quote is talking about how Lily’s only family member, her father T-Ray, keeps abusing her more and more as the years go on, despite her prayers. This taught me empathy, similar to how books taught Obama empathy because it shows me how lucky I am to have a family who loves me and cares for me, unlike Lily in the story.…
In this poem “The Mother” it was this mother that had many abortions. This speaker was having an emotional breakdown. For example, “I have heard in the voices of the wind the voices of my dim killed children” (Brooks 1940). When reading ‘’The Mother’’ the speaker talked about her and focused on the children she aborted. But the speaker never mentioned a father. So, after realizing she did not mention a father this question came to an understanding. Why do people have different emotional and physical feelings after abortions? When asking that question by people it means men and women. There is evidence of when it comes to abortions, many people do not think about the men withdrawals. Abortions, which are the discontinuation of a pregnancy before…
In David Foster Wallace’s “This is Water” he uses a personal appeal while Paul Bloom’s “The Baby in the Well” uses more of a professional writing approach. Their individual use of ethos, pathos, and logos gives their arguments different meaning. Their purpose of their articles is to argue the nature behind empathy. Finally, they question whether or not empathy is to be used selfishly or to help others. While both articles are very effective, David Foster Wallace is more likely to succeed in accomplishing his goal of connecting with the audince by using a personal appeal than Paul Bloom who used a straight forward appeal of facts and statistics.…
“Failure will never overtake me if my determination to succeed is strong enough.” (Mandino) Every parent expects for his or her child to succeed. In “Mother to Son” the mother entrusts herself with the duty to impact wisdom on her child in reference to her own successes and failures. The main theme is perseverance, a mother who motivates her child to never falter in the face of life challenges.…
What is motherhood? Being caring and having patience are the main two components that make a good mother. In the poems “Daystar by Rita Dove and “To a Daughter Leaving Home” by Linda Pastan both of the mothers are going through different stages of motherhood. In both poems we see the similarities that both poems have and we also see the differences. Dove and Pastan show us an early stage of mother and a late stage of motherhood. Although they are different stages of motherhood, they are both tough stages to go through.…
Jack Ma once said, “Never give up. Today is hard, tomorrow will be worse, but the day after tomorrow will be sunshine.” Life is guaranteed to have some degree of difficult. Everyone comes across obstacles in their life that make them want to just give up and stop moving forward. The poem “Mother to Son” by Langston Hughes shows a mother describing how life, “ain’t been no crystal stair,” (line 2). As the poem continues the mother describes how her life has been difficult as she says, “It’s had tacks in it… and places with no carpet on the floor- Bare.” (Lines 3, 6, 7). The mother then begins to tell her son to not turn back, or give up, when life decides to throw adversity his way, because life was not good to her and she came out okay. This poem is based on the idea of hope, and encouragement to always keep moving forward despite all the difficulties of life.…
The poetic language and writing in these two poems “Stopping by woods on a Snowy Evening ” and “Loveliest of Trees” describe man's attraction to the beauty of the nature outside. Robert Frost and A.E. Houseman each use different types of sentence structure, imagery, and diction to depict the environment and feelings of the narrators in their poems.…
Bikker et al., (2014) states that by using empathy it can be particularly beneficial in reducing distress and positively improving the quality of therapeutic relationships. This would be useful in my role play due to the fact that the client finds it difficult to maintain relationships and has no one she can talk to. By showing empathy, this will enable me as the professional to look at the situation from her perspective, and engage with her in a way no one else has. This will result in the increase of beneficial changes been made in her…
This is the ability to feel for others by trying to put ourselves in their shoes. As parents, empathy can be modelled by striving to understand a child’s point of…