5. Describe Emily’s relationship with her father. What details in the story support your view? How does…
Emily is a lonely, obstinate and abnormal woman. She is hard to accept those who she loved leave her, like her father and the labor. She even killed Homer Barron, kept his body in the room and slept with the body every night—just because Homer Barron didn’t want marry her. By…
"I stand here ironing" is about a mother reflecting on the past she shared with her daughter Emily. Their life consisted of many unfortunate events beginning with Emily's father abandoning them at a very young age. The mother couldn't afford to spend much time with her to provide enough love and affection as she struggled to make ends meet. This lead Emily to have a rough childhood plagued with illness, insecurity and unhappiness. Although she had a difficult childhood, Emily blossoms into a comedic genius which puzzles the mother but also assures her that Emily will find her way in the world without assistance.…
In compassion to Emily and Maggie, they both had mothers whom blamed themselves for not giving them their all. In “I Stand Here Ironing”, Emily’s mother was always working and never had time to love her or see her grow up. For instance, the neighbor says, “You should smile at Emily more when you look at her.”(Walker) Emily’s mom also states, “I loved her, there…
After Emily was born, her mother started leaving her with a care giver that she disliked. Emily’s mother was not around during the time when a child wants to cling and bond with the parent. This is a very crucial time in a child’s life, and this causes the initial dent in their future relationship. Emily’s mother then has a second child and she can’t be reassured of her mother’s love because all the attention must be given to the newborn. Emily is then kept from her sibling because she gets the measles. By this time Emily is becoming use to the absence of her mother. Emily goes away to a care home and by the time her mother has the time to actually get close with daughter, Emily has grown distant with her mother and is not accepting the sudden change. At the end the mother realizes that Emily is a product of her environment and even thought she may want a relationship now, Emily may…
The narrator loved her baby and complimented her saying “She was a beautiful baby”(Olsen 382) and “she was a miracle to me”(Olsen 382). However when Emily was only eight months old when the narrator “had to leave her daytimes with the woman downstairs to whom she was no miracle at all”(Olsen 382), this was just the first of many absences of the two in each others life. The narrator had to look for work so she would have money to be able to raise her baby girl. We also learn that at this time the narrator is only nineteen years old and Emily’s father had left them because he “could no longer endure”(Olsen 383). The narrator “would start running as soon as I got off the streetcar,” (Olsen 383) to get home and see Emily. It killed her to be away from her daughter especially at such a young age where a baby needs her mother the most. The narrator finally finds a job working nights so that she is able to spend the daytime with her…
Miss Emily is first explained as a nice, sweet, and normal woman, though that all changed as her life went on. The death of her father was the flame that ignited all of this weirdness of Emily. After her father died, Miss Emily did not go out much probably because of grief over the loss of her father. “Because her father is the only man with whom she has had a close relationship, she denies his death and keeps his corpse in her house until she breaks down three days later when the doctors insist she let them take the body” (A1). This statement demonstrates her inability to let go of lost ones.…
The story of Emily starts off with her death. The townspeople go through the story of her life the way they see it. They all know the story of her father’s death and how she reacted very negatively to it. She refused to acknowledge the fact that her father was dead at first. Her father has always been a very important figure in her life.…
“Alive, miss Emily had been a tradition, a duty, and a care; a sort of hereditary obligation upon the town.”(391) The social class and her father fettered not only her behavior but also everything of herself. Without him she could not do anything except stay at home. She had been isolated from the outside world and the people whose social class was lower than theirs. “only Miss Emily's house was left, lifting its stubborn and coquettish decay above the cotton wagons and the gasoline pumps—an eyesore among eyesores.”(391) Her house was on behalf of her personality that she was noble, solitary and traditionally. Emily's decaying appearance matches not only the rotting exterior of the house, but the interior as well. Staying far away from people, gradually, she could not know how to get along with others. Being restricted by her family fame, Emily became much more autistic and did things unusual.…
She never really got over being under her father’s wing. Emily became a woman known throughout town as a mysterious and secretive old woman, who’s later is pity on by the town and others around her. But which before her father death he rejected men in her life that she loved. That drew the conclusion that she would never find a man beside her father .Over the…
“I Stand Here Ironing” Responses to questions: 1. The narrator is not a good mother because she does not care about Emily’s future. The narrator is the mother of Emily, Susan, and Ronnie. She says that the father of Emily left her “[…] before [Emily] was a year old” (paragraph 55).…
Miss Emily’s father plays a vital role in the development of her character that leads to her loneliness and isolation.…
Due to the fact that Emily lacked any true relationships with others, she was instead left to turn to her own self for success. This individuality is what allowed for her talent as a comedic performer to unveil. In addition, her mother also serves as an example of what hard work and dedication can accomplish. Although Emily may not truly appreciate her at nineteen, she will one day realize her mother never gave up on her and was only doing what she thought was…
The setting takes place during a time of struggle and hopelessness in the United States, the Great Depression of the 1930’s. The birth of Emily, in this trying time, made for a much needed contrast to the sense of despair in the air. “She was a beautiful baby. The first and only one of our five that was beautiful at birth (312).” Here, it’s apparent the joy that every first-time mother has. This effervescent sentiment only lasts for eight months, though, when Emily’s father abandons his family. For a young mother living in those times, that is devastating. Being a single-parent mother in the 1930’s was unheard of and extremely taboo. She’d be seen as an outcast and a failure to her family. In her mind, the only option was to leave Emily to her ex-husband’s family, in order to make a better living herself and her daughter. Upon Emily’s return, at the tender age of two, the mother hardly recognizes her and sees her in a new light. The baby who was once beautiful is no longer. “I hardly knew her […] All the baby loveliness gone (313).” The culmination of separation, as well as the angst and disappointment that she felt for Emily’s father has taken effect and is now transferred to her daughter. Everything about Emily, from her appearance to her walk, now reminded…
Emily is an only child. It also doesn’t say anything about her mother. I thought it was strange that through the story her mother was never said.…