It is carried out against women, who are perceived to have betrayed their family or community. The strength of a community comes from the people and must be kept pure at all costs. According to tribal customs, a woman’s greatest asset is her potential to marry and bear children (Western 84). In order for a woman to be perceived as honorable and valuable, she has to be healthy, virgin, and fertile (Western 84). Women are married through arranged marriages or purchased with the promise of support from the husband. This system is referred to as a dowry. The wife and her family will receive something of monetary value. The offerings can range from farm animals to thousands of dollars in gold and jewelry. The women’s family has the right to deny if they are not pleased by the offerings. With marriage she becomes obligated to provide children for him and only him. The man may have more than one wife as long as he can support each wife. A woman who engages in premarital sex gives up her purity and is viewed as worthless. Being perceived to not be of value, she will not marry and her family will not be compensated with a dowry for raising her (Kiener). She will bring shame for failing to respect the social norms. Severe punishment or even death follows because male relatives are held responsible for women’s actions and are seen as failures because they did not enforce…
How has the cultural practice of dowry endowment affected women’s rights and health in India?…
The author, Serena Nanda, provides evidence for her argument by first introducing a broader claim, and the recounting her experience with the topic. As Nanda speaks to her initial failures in trying to find a bride, the reader learns how important marriage matches are in India. Through Nanda’s experience, the reader also learns about different components that play a major role in Indian arranged marriages, like family relations, siblings, and moderate education level. By introducing the reader to these different obstacles in finding a bride, Nanda allows the reader to understand the importance of Indian marriage matches, as well as the differences between finding a spouse in the United States and India.…
Arranged marriage is somewhat offensive to feminist America. There is a level of freedom attached to choosing who and when to marry. Hollywood portrays arranged marriage as the evil separator of lovers, the extinguisher of freedom, and the ultimate subjugation of women. Vogue has an article titled “The Arranged Marriage That Ended Happily Ever After: How My Parents Fell In Love, 30 Years Later.” The article highlights the good points of the couple’s marriage which was arranged years earlier in India. Yet, these people had a thirty-year marriage without the “passionate feelings to glaze over your partner’s flaws in…marriage” (Jacob). Marriage looks clinical and dry this way. However, this is the outside view of arranged marriage. Cultural customs…
Rape/sexual assault and domestic violence/violence committed by intimates are at the top of the list for crimes committed against women more than men. (P220) Our book states that women represented 89% of all sexual assault crimes and 79% of aggravated assaults. Many of the cultural myths are involved in overseas and third world countries which see women as possessions or less than worth compared to a man. In India, as well as Pakistan Dowry deaths which claim the lives of thousands of women are committed daily. These deaths are sanctioned as legal or usually overseen by law enforcement with payment. Dowry deaths are committed against a bride by either a husband or the husband’s family because the bride’s dowry was not paid as it was supposed to be. Wartime rape and batteries is also high in other countries and often overlooked in the judicial…
There is a wide spread global dispute about the topic of arranged marriages, many arguing that it is wrong, forced, and inhuman, while others defend them stating that they are socially and traditionally correct with their societies. Both sides fight frivolously and are on complete opposite sides of the argument, but what are the facts? Are arranged marriages right or wrong?…
forbidding girls from an education and forcing their families to pay dowries disadvantage girls of the present and future as without an education a girl can never attempt to break the cycle of poverty and devaluing of not only her but her future children. The culturally expected dowry disempowers girl tremendously, as girls are viewed by not only their families, but their male suitors as objects to buy or sell, girls are bought from her family to then be owned by her…
The subordination of women in India has caused them to become the victims of the human rights abuse, bride burning. The subject of bride burning in relation to dowry has been the site of controversy in India in recent years. As reported by Virendra and Kanth, “The nature and extent of this crime can be considered as a barometer of social health.” The incidences of unreported or poorly documented cases classifies bride burning as a disregarded public health concern. This paper examines the extent of this social issue, its leading contributive factors, and several possible solutions.…
5) Williams J., Carols. "India 's dowry deaths still rising despite modernization." Los Angeles Times (Los Angeles)5 September 2013, B1. Print.…
Culture is the enduring behavior ideas attitudes and tradition shared by a large group of people transmitted from one generation to the next. India is one of those countries that has strong influences on cultures. The custom of Dowry long entrenched in India’s male dominant. Society has attained alarming proportions during the last few decades. There is hardly a day when the cries of Dowry victim echoes throughout the town. Brides are still being harassed physically and mentally for bringing sufficient Dowry. Violent crimes against women have ensured that they minimally participate in the economic social arena. It is not a secret that throughout the history women suffered an unprivileged social status. Many people are confused as to what Dowry is, where Dowry crimes occur, and why they occur.…
The official figures of dowry deaths are obviously just the tip of the iceberg. A truer picture would emerge if we added the cases of young married women registered as having committed suicide as well as cases filed under Section 498A of the IPC dealing with harassment from husband and relatives. In the NCRB crime data, there were 94,041 cases filed under 498A in 2010, up from 28,579 in 1995. There has been considerable controversy around 498A with some organisation, comprising apparently…
In (Un)arranged Marriage Bali Rai shows us the spicy world of an Indian Punjabi boy and his family living in England. Bali rai has found inspiration for his main character in himself. He grew up in Leicester and wanted to become the best Liverpool player of all time, just like the main character. The boy who is the main character is called Manjit but he prefers being called manny, as to being more westernised. Manny has a good friend called Ady with whom he does things he should not do according to his Punjabi culture. They shoplift, do drugs and get drunk during the weekdays. This is because he strives to escape his strictly cultural home, where he gets beaten by his father and his brothers on a regular basis. They…
I was invited by one of my friend on the occasion of marriage ceremony of his sister. Since I was very desperate as it was the debut for me to attend any marriage party in Hyderabad .I left for reception in the Evening. After Dinner I was sitting and discussing the marriage culture in Andra Pradesh. I was Shocked to know that the Dowry amount is touching the sky and upper limit depends on the status of girl’s family. I started thinking that in India more the 80 million people are living Below poverty Line, What about the Girls of the those families?, who is going to marry with them?, from where from there parents are going to get such a huge amount to get their daughters married.I got really curious about the issue and I started researching about it. I bumped into lot of people of different relegions,caste and creed and found that the this disease has communicated in the whole community and is getting incurable day by day. I also asked many youths about this issue and the replies were quiet unacceptable. Some replied that “we are not interested but our parents do” and some told that “our parents spend lot of money on our studies so we need to repay them and this is the way”. All the Answers were baseless and does not make any sense. When I discussed the same issue with some girls they answers was quiet similar that the girl’s family has no choice than giving dowry otherwise marriage is not…
In 2001 nearly 7,000 dowry deaths[8] were registered in India over inadequate dowry, apart from other mental trauma cases.[9] Bride burning,[10] inducing suicides, physical and mental torture by their husband or in-laws is sometimes found to be done if the bride fails to bring sufficient dowry.[11] There are laws like Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act 2005 that help to reduce domestic violence and to protect women 's rights.…
Dowry is the money or property that is demanded by the bridegroom when he marries a bride. The system of dowry has now become a curse to the society. The torture upon the women by men is a very common sight of today. Sometimes the women become a victim of loss of life as a result of the torture by their husbands. The main reason of dowry is negative attitude of the parents of the bridegroom and the lack of education of the bride. The bridegroom takes dowry and the womenfolk become victims of dowry.…