Non Confrontational Attitude Analysis

One of Bbiggest stumbling blocks in my life was the fatfact that I really do think and feel so differently from the average person. Some people wear their emotions and heart so well that it is clear as to what they are feeling and what it is that has such an effect on them. Now as for me , someone would hurt me and they would never know it. But in my mind I got angry at them fought over it and then got over it, and the person never even knew what happened. Then when it would happen again, I would get mad. Finally I realized that it is not fair to hold someone accountable when I did not take the step in communicating my state to them. My non confrontationalnon-confrontational attitude had to be addressed to find a way to tell someone