She was forced to express her emotions this way because of the oppression of the time. Society did not allow her to speak badly of her father and mention he was sexually harassing her.…
In Judith Cofer Ortiz’s short story “Abuela Invents the Zero”, through making her Abuela feel worthless, Constancia learns that internal respect comes from how other people value their contribution instead of external judgment. After the conflict, Abuela indirectly tells Constancia that “the worst [thing to be done to a person] is to make them feel as if they are worth nothing” (Ortiz 2). Through this proverb, Abuela proved that her worth did not rely on Constancia's acceptance, but on how much Constancia valued her. Therefore, Constancia realizes that Abuela, a single mother with ten children, gains respect simply because people appreciate her accomplishments. Furthermore, after realizing her mistake, Constancia “can feel [herself] shrinking…
Sandra Cisneros’s essay, “Only Daughter” is an autobiography about being raised in a family of six brothers, and how she is desperate for her dad to accept her for whom she is, and what she has become, a writer. “When he was finally finished after what seemed like hours, my father looked up and asked: where can we get more copies of this for the relatives?”(114). In this quote, Cisneros’ dad really shows how proud he feels towards his daughter and how much he enjoyed her story, making Cisneros feel appreciated. In Amy Tan’s short story, “Mother Tongue” she writes about how she is passionate for all the different types of English that she is capable…
Mother's entertain the hope that their children will be beautiful and smart, perfect, accepted by society, The author nurtures and cares for the book as a mother would her child until it is "snatched from thence by friends, less wise than true." Once the author realizes that her child, the book, is subject to the criticism of the "vulgars," she becomes embarrassed and criticizes her own work. However, just as a mother to her child, she cannot help but try and mold it into something the public will accept and adore. Just as these same mothers are often disappointed with human imperfections, the author is disappointed with her own human imperfections, resulting in an inadequate piece of work. When all her efforts fail, she abandons the book, "sending out of door" to its fate just as poor, beggarly women abandon their children to the kindness of a harsh…
In “Only Daughter” Sandra Cisneros shows her first hand experience as an Mexican-American women, and how she is seen in her family. Cisneros explains how her family wanted her to adopt the typical women roles in society even though Cisneros did not want that for herself at all. Cisneros emphasizes her points by using metaphors “ But somehow I could feel myself being erased”. By using this Cisneros emphasized her feelings by using a metaphor. This shows that as her father would continuously say I have 7 sons, not 6 son and 1 daughter Cisneros felt as if she was being erased out of his life. Yet instead of saying I felt I was being pushed away, using “erased” showed that it hurt her to the point that she possibly did not want to just say it, but she wanted to show it. By having Cisneros used metaphors to show her feelings it can make the reader feel as if they are Cisneros and is feeling the same way as she is. By her feeling she’s “ being erased” it shows that just by her father making a simple translation mistake it hurt he so much. By her father doing this it was like her was taking away her identity away.…
The introduction of Mother Inferior by Hanna Rosin contains an excellent anecdote that puts Rosin in a position of defence for her parenting style against Amy Chua’s Chinese-style parenting. The anecdote, which her 2-year-old son calls her a “kitty kat” when she was acting out “tiger,” reveals her position amongst other parents in the standards set by Amy Chua. However, this does not break her as a parent, nor does it cause her to rethink what she does for her kids. Instead, Rosin defends herself by to criticizing “Ms. Chua’s parenting prescription,” and exemplifying her children’s upbringing through “’spontaneity, freedom, discovery, and experience.’”…
The essay will be about the Novel Throwaway Daughter a fiction that is about a girl named Grace on a journey of finding her identity. The main story is about a young girl Grace Parker, who was abandoned in front of the orphanage by her mother and was adopted by a Canadian family. She is haunted by the fact why she was unwanted by her parents and she denied her heritage until she witness the death of protesters in Tiananmen square. As she continues to mature and grow she becomes more curious about her mother of what happened to her,thus her journey begins in china on a quest of finding the answers and herself.Grace (Dong-mei’s) journey allows her to fully embrace her heritage, finally giving her an identity through her childhood, adolescence,…
In the novel The Darkest Child the author Delores Phillips displays the activities and likely hood of growing up in the still racist Deep South. The main character Tangy Mae encounters hardships and tribulations amongst her family. Her mother Rozelle Quinn displays negative habits of a mother by being over controlling of her kids. Rozelle often beat and called her children names out of frustration and rage. Tangy Mae and her siblings must step up to the plate in order for the family to make a living without a father figure while dealing with their scolding mother.…
Connie is so use to the ridicule and criticism, that her natural defense mechanism allows her to ignore the hurtful comments. However, the negative comments sometimes become so overwhelming, that Connie wishes for the demise of her mother and herself. “Connie’s mother kept picking at her until Connie wished her mother was dead and she herself was dead and it was all over.” (2/16) This relationship is clearly unhealthy with the woman that should be her first role model, her mother. It is believed that a daughter’s “first love” is her father, and that every child should have a strong male role model in their life. Contrary to belief, Connie’s father has limited to no influence on her or the household. He is not involved with them and has no interest to be. The story states…
The central idea in this story seems to be the mother’s search of an understanding of her daughter’s personality and outlook on life. The majority of the story is the mother trying to depict reasons for why her daughter is the way she is, so delicate, reserved, needless, and even unhappy at times. She seems to also defend her parenting choices by making excuses or blaming the urges of others in order to not have all the blame on her. She speaks about how she had no other option but to put her in the care of someone else at the age of two, even though she knew the teacher was “evil” (Pg. 925). “It was the only place there was…the only way I could hold a job” (pg. 925).…
In the essay "Only Daughter", a daughter is seeking her father's approval. Sandra Cisnero gained her father's approval in multiple ways. She ultimately gets her father's approval when she shared her story in Spanish with him. Sandra also gained approval by making a name for herself and succeeding in life. This was important to because the author's father wanted to share Sandra Cisneros's story with the rest of the family. Additionally, sharing the story allowed her father to better understand her feelings throughout various stages of life.…
As seen by many different mothers in the novel Sula by author Toni Morrison, mothers play an important part in kid’s life, shaping how they view different beliefs in the world and setting up values in their child. Every individual’s life is shaped by personal relationships they have with others. The mother and child relationship greatly affects the identity development in the kid. As seen in the racist community in the novel, the mother and kid relationship is important in the sense that the mothers and children share understanding of the sexist oppression, intertwining their lives together even more than they already were. As seen in different mother and daughter relationships including, Eva and Hannah Peace, Sula and Hannah Peace, and Helene and Nel Wright, readers come to terms that mothers and their children represent the connection between future and past.…
The common perception is that many people are innocent and sincere until their true colors are revealed. Connie is a young child that is fifteen years old and displays the utmost confidence in herself. However, there is always an opposing force working against her will, which is her mother. Her mother criticizes her about looking in the mirror too much and she compares her to her older sister, June. The actions of the mother dismiss the notion that family should always be behind you know matter what. Shutting down a child confidence can make them do various things, such as kindling the desire to grow up faster and achieve independence. When comparing children to others, the results can be harmful, ultimately making the child feel insignificant.…
The mother seems to be abusive, demeaning and cold. Her tone throughout the story is critical and commanding. The way she talks to her daughter makes me feel as if there were no warm feelings in their relationship. The mother gives orders, scolds her daughter and demands things “on Sundays try to walk like a lady and not like the slut you are so bent on becoming.” The mother doesn’t respect her daughter and accuses her of behaving in a wrong way. She seems to be bitter and cold. The mother dictates how her daughter should act “don’t squat down to play marbles-you are not a boy, you know; don’t pick people flowers-you may catch something…” It seems that it’s important for the mother that her daughter is not rejected from the society and follows social norms. She tells her daughter “how to make a good medicine to throw away a child…
Evil is an immortal part of all living species. It’s considered dark and leads its host to do bad stuff. This applied to a quote from Young Goodman Brown, “Depending upon one another's hearts, ye had still hoped that virtue were not all a dream. Now are ye undeceived. Evil is the nature of mankind.” Evil is always looking for the smallest opportunity to lead it host to the bad direction. Mankind being under this huge umbrella of living species; It is the nature of mankind because it is an innate reaction to respond with violence, violence shows our superiority and no skill needed for evilness.…