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pano ba to book
Aragon, Patricia Ann
AR12KA3 –Mr. Trogo
PAANO BA ’TO?!
How to Survive Growing Up
By Bianca Gonzales

Hindi perpekto ang kahit na anong pamilya at okay lang iyon. You may have different personalities and you all have your share of faults, but at the end of the day, there is no ties like family, and when everything else in life is seems like falling apart, your family is there to love and support you.
To convince you parents to let you do what you want to do, what you want or your concerns, sabihin mo ang lahat ng rason, ipaglaban mo kung anong nararamdaman mo. Kung may gusto kang bagay, show that you’re willing to work for it. It will also teach you to work hard for everything else you want in the future.
When it comes to parent’s separation you will learn to be happy for them, too, if you accept that you parents will be happier and more at peace apart. At kung grabe na ang sigawan at away nila, speak up. Sabihin mo kung anong nararamdaman mo. Between two adults, it is easy to argue, but when you are starting to get affected, then things can start to change. Kung makahanap naman sila ng bagong karelasyon, wouldn’t you want your mom or dad to have another chance at lifelong companionship? Focus your attention on their feelings and not yours.
You also have to grow up and deal with the consequence of whatever your actions are. There is no other way to do it, but to it. Mas maganda kung magsasabi ka ng totoo sa parents mo whether it be buntis ka, o bumagsak ka sa klase, o natanggal ka sa trabaho, o may kaaway ka, o kung anuman.
When it comes to siblings, dapat walang inggitan at insecurities. It will teach you to be more generous with and more appreciative of what you have. Kung may times naman na nagiging pasaway sila, try to talk to them every so often. If you were in their shoes and you needed guidance, wouldn’t you want your family to stand by you no matter what?

Dapat kang maging honest sa mga kaibigan mo. Kung nagbabago man ang ugali nila at di mo na

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