In this story, Tan shows that assimilation occurs gradually through understanding. She had to experience feeling degraded daily with her mother because people judged the way her mother spoke broken English. For instance, Tan explains the incident, she had with a stockbroker in New York. The stockbroker would evade every question Tan’s mother would ask about her stock and would treat her unfairly. But when Tan herself begin to speak perfect English to the stockbroker, he sees her as the normal people of society and answers to her adequately. Tan was embarrassed by the way her mother spoke, but learns to assimilate from her own experiences that not everything has to be perfect about her mother. Assimilation needs to be gradual and can not always be…
In the short story “Two Kinds” by Amy Tan, with the use of epiphany and turning points the reader is able to see the protagonist’s growth and change in personality throughout the story. The protagonist, Jing-Mei and her mother emigrated from China to the US, thus the family struggled in adapting to the new culture and lifestyle. Heavily influenced by the opportunities and hopes with a new life in US, Jing-Mei’s mother wanted Jing-Mei to become a prodigy like the other girls on television. Jing-Mei was determined and eager to prove to her mother she was a prodigy, and thereby had full confidence in herself. She believed “[her] mother and father would adore [her and she’d be] beyond reproach.” (pg4). As Jing-Mei’s mother quizzed Jing-Mei with countless questions and tests, Jing-Mei started getting frustrated by her mother’s disappointments and “something inside [her] began to die” (pg 5).…
In both pieces of work, a parent pushes a child to succeed in something that the child is unsure…
The short story “Two Kinds” by Amy Tan, starts off with introducing the mother interpretation of how she want her daughter to live the American Dream. The mothers loses her family in China and now hopes to relive that part of her loss through her daughter. However, the daughter, Ni Kan, is not interested in her mother’s dreams and totally ignores against them. In the beginning, Ni Kan, says that she is “just as excited as her mother maybe even more so” about her becoming a prodigy. She pictures herself in different roles such as a ballerina and believes that once that she has become perfected…
Amy Tan’s essay “Mother Tongue” Tan grew up in a home with her Chinese mother who spoke English that she considered “broken”. It was difficult for others to understand what her mother was saying. Tan then realized that when she was with her mother that she spoke English differently than she did. She was trying to figure out how her background affected her life, such as her education; but she eventually learned to except her background. At the same time Tan wanted to become a writer and she found that by spending time with her mother who again spoke “broken” English. Even though she was told that writing was her worst skill by her boss, she was determined to make it work.…
In the article, Adapted from Battle of Hymn of the Tiger Mother the author Amy Chua’s intent is to describe the differences between Chinese and Western parenting styles. She begins by explaining her personal parenting style and although her parenting style brings controversy it also demonstrates what a parent will do in order to help their children be successful. After all, a parent’s true purpose is to do what is best for their children.…
Once one becomes part of the parents only club, one is expected to make the right decisions for one's child. Which is, giving one's child a chance at every possibility to obtain success. But, how much of it is truly for one's child and how much is for one's own personal fulfillment? In the short story by Amy Tran ‘Two kinds” we see into the life of a young Chinese American and her mother, who wishes for nothing less than her daughter to be a protege. As readers learn about how Mother goes about with this desire, one comes to question her motives. Does she want this because she believes this is truly what her daughter needs or, does she want this for herself, in order to fill a void left by her past? This selfish desire causes a clash between mother and daughter.…
As its complex structure suggests, the book tries to organize the the stories of mother and daughter with the intention of reaching the same destination: the daughter's recovery of her cultural and ethnic identity as Chinese by overcoming the generational gap and the cultural differences between herself and her mother. The mother intend to hand over their "good intentions" and "usable past" in China to their daughter in America. Amy Tan, depicts the relationship between Jing-mei, a young Chinese-American girl, and her mother, a Chinese immigrant, her mother. She does not have something special things. However, her normal life has changed a little because of her mother.…
Only one kind of daughter can live in this hous. Obedient daughter” she shouted in chinese. “Then I wish I wasn’t your daughter, I wish you weren’t my mother” (Chunk 6 paragraph 11, 12). As a Chinese immigrant Jing Mei’s mother gets the idea from television shows and magazines and she does not question the validity of these sources. She meanswhile pushes her daughter to be the best but on the other hand Jing Mei cannot see the value of showing dedication to her mother’s goal, practicing a skill, or collaborating with her mother’s plan because they are both separated by a factor; Culture. After her mother’s death she gains insight into her mother’s underlying motives. In addition Rudy Puana learned to be true in spite of his difficulties in life.…
The introduction of Mother Inferior by Hanna Rosin contains an excellent anecdote that puts Rosin in a position of defence for her parenting style against Amy Chua’s Chinese-style parenting. The anecdote, which her 2-year-old son calls her a “kitty kat” when she was acting out “tiger,” reveals her position amongst other parents in the standards set by Amy Chua. However, this does not break her as a parent, nor does it cause her to rethink what she does for her kids. Instead, Rosin defends herself by to criticizing “Ms. Chua’s parenting prescription,” and exemplifying her children’s upbringing through “’spontaneity, freedom, discovery, and experience.’”…
Throughout the essay, Tan includes several of her past experiences allowing the reader to sympathize for Amy and what she had to go through with her mother and the forces that shaped her life and her relationship with her mother. By appealing to pathos and empathy as humans, she creates a connection between the events that happen in her life as well as the readers of her essay. In one of her past experiences, Tan says, “She said she had spoken very good English… no mistakes. Still, she said, the hospital did not apologize when they said they had lost the CAT scan and she had come for nothing.” and through this excerpt readers relate the fact of the mother not originating from America and her English to the reason of why people treat her the way they do. Even…
Tan’s essay bWe live in a world that looks down on people who does not know and speak correct English. I witnessed how people who speak imperfect English are treated in the department stores, banks, and on my job. I used to be one those that didn’t have patience or didn’t wont to take the time to understand those who speak inadequate English. But over the time, I came to the conclusion that my reaction wasn’t right and fair. I thought about how I would have felt if I was one of those that spoke imperfect English and what if I was treated unfairly because of my ethnicity. Tan used evident on how people that are stereotyped are judged in this society. I like the fact that the evidence she used was her life and her mother’s personal experiences. Tan’s evidence gave me a clearer outlook on looking at it on the opposite side and understanding what her and her mother dealt with because of their lack of English language. In spite of Tan’s improper English, I strongly commend her for learning the real way to engage and educating herself so that she will know how to speak better…
These unattainable dreams often make the children feel inferior and breeds anger that causes them to reject the parent’s pressure. In the novel The Joy Luck Club, Suyuan Woo is constantly finding ways to test her daughter, Jing-Mei’s, abilities. These tests ranged from memorizing state capitals in a set amount of time to performing complicated multiplication problems in her head or memorizing an entire page from the bible in three minutes. The mother forced test after test on her daughter with high expectations. After one particular test failure, Jing-Mei could see her mother’s disappointment. This upset Jing-Mei to the point, where as she put it after crying in front of a mirror “The girl staring back at me was angry, powerful” (Tan 134). Mrs. Woo had pushed her daughter to such a state of anger Jing- Mei told herself “I won’t let her change me, I promised myself. I won’t be what I’m not” (Tan 134). By the time Mrs. Woo requested her daughter to learn to play the piano, a skill she could have learned through time, Jing- Mei was already in the mindset she would not do anything her mother asked. This rebellion is what happens when a parent places too much pressure on their child often leading to failure as the child refuses to conform to their parent’s…
4. She want people to remember that it doesn’t matter where are you from or what others think about you or your culture; you must be proud of who you are and what you are and to never feel ashamed to be themselves. Tan's purpose is to demonstrate to the readers is more than sole entertainment. She tries to communicate to the audience that being different and coming from a different background is not necessarily a bad thing. It can, in fact, be beneficial because diversity has the ability to add to the interest of a person.…
The idea of the story is that real parents should pay enough attention to their children, to bring them up properly in order that there wasn’t conflict’s in their family.…