Parental Pressure: Why High School Students Should Stop

Parental Pressure within High School Students Should Stop. Back in High School, I had a best friend named Blen. We were very close. We were more like sisters. She used to tell me everything that happened in her life especially about her parents. I can say that her parents were very strict. The only person they need her to be with was just me. They used to tell her not to make a lot of friends. Even though Blen was a socializing person, she didn’t get a chance to make a lot of friends while she was in High School. She used to be really angry about those senseless rules of her Parents. All they want her to do was to study for her classes, do home works or stay home with them. I don’t get it
These students believe that their parents are motivators on every steps of their lives. While others, including myself consider this kind of pressure as a negative effect. I believe that one of the biggest stress of a student immerges from Parental Pressure. Parental Pressure gives motivation but at the same time a hard time to worry about. Yes, every parents want their children to succeed and be in a good position as they are growing up. Don’t get me wrong! I am not trying to say parents should stop telling us what to do or control us in some kind of way. My argument is that parents should be more lenient on their children rather than being strict or putting a whole lot of pressure on
Jaime Budzienski emphasizes that “Sleep deprivation, eating disorders, excessive worrying, cheating, burnout, loss of interest in hobbies or withdrawing from friends and family” can be significances of too much parental pressure (par.3). Whenever I talk about stress caused by Parental Pressure, I think about my neighbor who committed suicide because of his father’s pressure on him. So what happened was on his senior year of college, he didn’t have the credit he was supposed to have in order to graduate. He tried his best to earn his credits back. He studied day and night. He neither could sleep nor eat. He didn’t even think about explaining the situation to his dad because he was scared of him like hell. Even though he tried a lot, he couldn’t be able to graduate that year. He hung himself after writing a letter saying that he was sorry for not making his dad proud. If his dad wasn’t being so strict to him, he could have been