Perception In Brene Brown's TED Talk

In this TED Talk video, Brene Brown, an author and public speaker, shared with us a topic about Perception. She began to research further into this topic and discovered that there was more to it than what was being said. Brown says that she discovered the meaning of connections. Being a social worker, she needed to understand the purpose of our lives. An interesting fact she found was that we like to feel like we are connected or bonded with something or someone. While we definitely need this emotional connection, Brooke made a deeper research and came up with the opposite of what she had initially discovered. She listed insecurities, our disadvantages and our shame. This all came down to our vulnerabilities.
The word vulnerable means being exposed physically or emotionally from harm. When I think of the word vulnerability, I think of all of my fears and those fears turning into reality. I become vulnerable because I do not know how to handle or process my fears, It all comes down to being scared. For example,
Or, to join a group in which we felt we found similarities or likes or dislikes. Children don’t think about what other people say about them, they just want to make friends and have fun. As we grow other, we start to realize what will make us more likable. We all want to be talked about nicely, we want others to feel like they can make a connection with them because we have a couple of things in common. In this article, Making Friends with Fear Series: Fear of Not Belonging, a women named Kylie Patchett, a mindset coach for women entrepreneurs, says “ Often, the fear of not belonging almost subdues part of ourselves – similar to what we were talking about in the first part”. This shows that we start changing our opinions, physical looks, our mentality to correspond to those around us. We fear that if we say what we actually mean, then other will think we are wrong and call us out on it or challenge