My greatest influences are my parents and my brother. My brother suffered from Guillain- Barre Syndrome when he was eight. He lived in the hospital on an artificial ventilation for 97 days and later he had to continue physical therapy for at least ten years as he was completely paralyzed. My parents and my brother devoted their few years completely for his treatment. Today, my brother is a successful engineer working in the bay area. I learned that with dedication, determination and diligence we can achieve our dream in life…
Mans bestfriend is often used to describe our relationship with our pets, more specifically our dogs. Late last night my 15 year old chocolate Labrador pasted away, and shortly after his passing these two word came to me. However, I didn't welcome them with open arms. As I reflected on the many memories I had with him I thought to myself that this dog was never my friend... He was my FAMILY! You see I can't chalk up our 15 year relationship as a friendship, because that would be the biggest lie I've ever told myself. I loved this dog from the bottom of my heart and I know deep down there is nothing to fill the void I…
What comes to your mind when you hear the word hero? My kind of hero is one that will try as hard as they can even if they know they can’t do anything to help it or make it better. My kind of hero is one that will fight even if it wont get them anywhere. My kind of hero is one that will be selfless when it comes to others. And when I think of a hero I think of a very strong special somebody that will do anything for anyone just to consider there feelings. My kind of hero is my little man Wyatt.…
Recalling the past film and television works, mainstream theme constantly changing. However, some topics have become old fashioned film-making at its best and are still popular nowadays. Hero, is one of the classics of the film and literature.…
My whole life since the age of 3 revolved around sports. I excelled in soccer and continued to play at the collegiate level. During my high school years I wanted to be the best player I could so I started reading fitness magazine and as much about nutrition as I could. At 16 years old, I started to lift weights before school started and immediately fell in love with the combination of weight training and…
My senior year I thought I’d learned who all my best friends were, but I was wrong. Senior year I was given the most amazing opportunity and in turn I met one of the most important people in my life. The person who altered my outlook on the education system. This young man's name was Adam, he never failed to make me smile, even on my worst days. Adam was a 17 year old who had severe down syndrome. He was so in tune with himself. He was able to find what truly made him…
My freshman year in high school, I decided to join Best Buddies, a program where a high school student is paired with another student who has intellectual and developmental disabilities to build a friendship. During my first year, I learned Best Buddies is not simply a club but a family. I can vividly recall the night of my first match party (which is a gathering wherein members and buddies learn with whom they are paired). Leading up until the moment my dad gave me a reassuring nod and shove out of the car; I was full of “what ifs”. What if my buddy doesn’t like me? What if I’m paired with a boy? What if……
With People First Language, a child with disabilities doesn’t have to feel like they are their disability. Their disability doesn’t make them who they are; they have their own identity and shouldn’t be judged by any impairment they may have. In “A Few Words About People First Language,” Kathie Snow says that “a person’s self-image is tied to the words used about him.” This statement is the main one that caused me to reflect on my past and to bring it into relation to the lives of others. Although disabilities or individuals with disabilities have not had many impacts on my life, I am empathetic to what someone may go through in everyday living. This is why for the remainder of life, I will always put “people first” by using a…
How could I have known when I dressed her in those cute butterfly tights and put her hair into two pigtails that I would never see her again? We walked to the park stopped for some ice cream at the stand right in front of the Empire State Building the one with the cute drawings on the sides that look like something Elizabeth would have drawn. She kept pulling at my hand, wanting to walk ahead, but I would not let her. I remember how the wind felt as if it was going to blow us away. I held onto her extra tight hoping that she would not fly away as if she was some piece of paper. We were at the park for about an hour when my phone rang and I looked down for just a few minutes. I’ve seen plenty of other parents do it.…
They thought it was funny, we actually became friends. The third guy just asked me why I loved him and I responded “because you're a beautiful human being”, he laughed and said nice to meet you. We also became friends. The girl that asked me why I told her I loved her said to me “before you say anything I’m not lesbian” I was really amused because I wasn’t flirting with her for her to think I actually liked her and loved her. I was the one feeling more awkward I have to admit. I told her it was a social experiment I was doing for my sociology class and apologized, she said “oh okay cool” and walked away. That was one of the most awkward situations I was put in throughout the experiment. When I broke the social norm with my professors it was…
Ever since I was born, I was a military brat. Not knowing where to call home, or if any place could be home, I moved. I moved six times, four of those places were towns that nobody could think about. Germany, North Carolina, Alaska, North Carolina, Germany, and Alaska, yet no place to call home. May 22, 1999, my first day on this world; Kronach hospital had its first American baby in their hands, yet they acted like I was a different species. The only event I remember was when I was about one. While I was one, I grabbed everything in my reach, even a grill handle. As a baby, I did not know that the handle was moving, the grill top had smashed my thumb. Ever since that event, I now have a starfish mark on the side of my right thumb from where the stiches were.…
It was a perfectly normal Saturday night, until I sat on the couch. I expected to enjoy a funny movie with my dad, but instead I got a trip to the hospital. I sat on the couch, and then I felt a sting in my elbow. At first, it felt like I got a shot at the doctor, but it slowly got worse, and felt more like a knife slicing into my elbow. I winced and sprung up from the couch. I squinted and my eyes scanned the spot where I just sat down. Aha, I thought. There was a small piece of plastic, and it looked like it broke off from a container.…
Ever since I was young I have struggled to build strong relationships with other people due to my learning disability. I discovered that by participating in different social groups at my church allowed me to develop some effective communication skills among my peers. From the developing of close friendships I have learned how to be supportive of another. The friends that I have built are very close to me…
For the last three semesters, I have been attending Holyoke Community College as a full-time student. While doing so I have been working part time as a Sales Associate at the Westfield BonTon. Due to being a full-time student, working part time and having household responsibilities I haven’t participated in much of my college’s activities/clubs. However, I do take part in helping arrange study groups for the more challenging classes I am taking for my classmates and I. In my spare time, I enjoy bringing my dog to the dog park in Westfield/Agawam and bringing him to Stanley Park to walk the trails.…
As a child, I had a huge imagination. I would turn the recliner into Pride Rock and the backyard into a jungle. But, it was my sidekick, my partner in crime, my little sister who made my imagination grow and become real. Through years, as we get older and we add adult responsibilities to our daily lives she has never lost that imagination I remember. Although her imagination has changed into more adult-like forms she has been a signpost in my life. When I watch her and listen to what she tells me I can see her wheels turning. She gets an idea in her head and it grows until she can not contain it. Then, that idea explodes forcing her to publicize it. When she publicizes it, I am amazed. Her imagination as shown me that an idea can form in your…