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Personal Narrative: My Oldest Siblings
Corey (2016) states how the oldest sibling receives more attention and strives to keep ahead (p. 103). In regards to our birth order, Paul was treated more independently. He certainly was not spoiled and was influenced by mother to move out whenever he could. Furthermore, the second born child is most likely to look up to the older sibling and believe they are in training to take the lead away from the older sibling. Although, my second oldest brother, Luke was more emotionally nurtured by my mother. Luke looked up to my oldest brother as a role model and did not try to compete with him. In addition to being a middle child, Corey (2016) discloses how middle children feel left out, cheated, and labeled as the “problem child”. Certainly, throughout

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