Back in my early twenties, you would find me going out to bars or night clubs either with friends or by myself. I found this enjoyable since I was bale to meet a lot of different people. A few of my best friends would ask me, what club are you going to?. Maybe we will join you!. Low and behold no one would ever join me as they always said, you can’t meet anyone at those places, those places are nothing more than meat markets!. I would explain to them that, you need to go to this club at the casino at least once and that this club is the best club I have ever been too. The music is great, the people are friendly, the atmosphere is awesome, and this place is like no other. No one would ever join me or believe until one day
I persuaded my best friend by saying, I’ll make you a deal, if you join me tonight and you are enjoying your self, we will split the drink tab,if you are having a boring time, I will buy you drinks all night. My best friend listened to me and had the time of his life. Every weekend he would ask me, “ What time are we going to the club?”
My form of persuasion towards my best friend worked for me because being a best friend, I knew what he was like and what he like, such as music and of course drinking. In the beginning my friend was very skeptical since he always had problems trying to haver fun at night clubs since he always to to biker bars and would always get into trouble and sometimes get thrown out. After making a deal with him and he going for the first time, he became the regular and used to have the bartenders give me free drinks.. Moral of the story is I believe that if you truly know someone or even if you don’t, as long as you pay attention and learn what they like, you can persuade a person to listen to you.