Politeness Theory in

INTRODUCTION
On first consideration, it might seem obvious that politeness is simply a well-understood concept that permeates human interaction. A common understanding of the concept and accounting for it is problematic. Defining politeness appropriately is one of the difficulties existing in the study of linguistic politeness. It is quite difficult to give a proper definition to politeness. The researches on linguistic politeness started from the middle of 1970 's, however, it was in the late 1980s that the researchers tried to put forward their definitions of it.
DEFINITION OF POLITENESS
According to Webster 's Third New International Dictionary (Grove (1976)), politeness is defined as: showing or characterized by correct social usage: marked by or exhibiting appearance of consideration, tact, deference, courtesy, or grace resulting sometimes from sincere consideration of others and sometimes from mere regard for etiquette.
Naturally, being polite is to show consideration, tact, deference, courtesy, or grace, sometimes for sincere consideration of others and sometimes for regard of etiquette.
Politeness is more concisely defined in Longman Dictionary of Applied Linguistics (Richards, Platt, & Weber (1985)) as: how languages express the social distance between speakers and their different role relationships; (b) how face-work; that is, the attempt to establish, maintain, and save face during a conversation, is carried out in a speech community. Languages differ in how they express politeness. ... Politeness markers include differences between formal speech and colloquial speech, and the use of address forms. In expressing politeness, the anthropologists Brown & Levinson distinguished between positive politeness strategies (those which show the closeness, intimacy, and rapport between speaker and hearer) and negative politeness strategies (those which indicate the social distance between speaker and hearer). ROBIN LAKOFF
Lakoff, one of the first

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