In a day where loving yourself first is not only accepted but often expected, it is a stretch for the 20th (or 21st) century mind to see marriage as a necessity, as it was for Jane Austen and some of the greatest of her heroines. Marriage for money and convenience, as well as familial preservation, formally dominated matchmaking choices. Love and romance were but luxuries in the business-like fashion of marriage. Austen contested this reality and criticized it, but she also placed one thing above romance: the Self. Austen undoubtedly prizes respect for the Self above social expectation and relationships. Handler and Segal (45) noted that themes of "independence, dependence, and choice" are recurring throughout all of Austen 's works. Recent film adaptations to Austen have decided to downplay these themes, however, in exchange for playing up the romance. These films reveal the 20th century emphasis on romance at the cost of excluding the already established importance of self-knowledge.
Pride and Prejudice, Austen 's first written but later published novel, is a commentary on the importance in society of inheritance and achievement. Austen obviously valued one 's achieved virtues over inherited status, a revolutionary notion for a female of the day. Elizabeth Bennet, Austen 's own mouthpiece to criticize her times, bridges the gap between 19th century sensibility and 20th century self-exploration. Lizzy, though given the opportunity on more than one occasion (Mr. Darcy 's first and Mr. Collins 's only proposal) to save herself from her impending poverty as well as preserve her family 's estate, choose rather to be alone than to be in a situation that would compromise her principles. She is a woman of a strong-willed character who puts herself above her society 's expectations of her. If Elizabeth 's parents had known of her initial refusal of Darcy their disbelief would have probably outweighed her
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