Pros And Cons Of Conflict Theory
Discussion #2 According to the book, conflict theory recognizes that tensions, stressors, and divergent interests are an integral and normal part of family life. Furthermore, conflict theory is rooted in the assumption that conflict is an integral component of human nature (Walsh, Deflorio, Burnham, & Weiser, 98) and I agree. Therefore, the way my family handle conflict is we try to come to some type of agreement by negotiating with each other, that way everybody is satisfied to some degree, for example, deciding what to eat for dinner. One person wants pizza and the other Chinese food. We will discuss the pros and cons of both foods together. In addition, we will discuss how long it been since we had one of the food choices. The one we probably have not had in a while will probably be our choice unless someone still disagree. If that the case, we will begin to negotiate with each other and come to some type of agreement.
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Overall, I think my family handle conflict well.
In my family, I think conflict is a healthy experience when everybody is considered in the decision-making process. According to the book, families which are able to negotiate and find agreement are families with optimal outcomes (Walsh, Deflorio, Burnham, & Weiser,98). Like mention previously about choosing what to eat, when we negotiate with each other and reach an agreement, everybody seems satisfied(happy) with the outcome. I believe conflict can be healthy experience for families because it can teach them how to work together, increase their communication and negotiation skills. Lastly, I believe conflict can help a family strive to reach their full potential, for example, having a lack of resources in money, energy, time etc. The family can identify their conflict and then try to set goals to minimize their conflict together, which in return help them reach their full potential in that area in their
lives.
Discussion # 3 According to the book, attachment theory is a theory which explores how individuals develop but specifically within the context of family and intimate relationships (Walsh, Deflorio, Burnham, & Weiser,96). In addition, one of the major principles of attachment theory is that individuals use their personal experiences to construct models of “the self” and “others” which continue to influence our behaviors as adults and impacts our later relationships. The two people that I had a secure attachment to as a child were my mother and father. Whenever, I came home from school, I could expect mother to be home, unless she had to work. In addition, she always had something cooked or something in the refrigerator we could prepare for ourselves. My mother was there for me emotionally. If I was sick, which I was quite a lot as a child, she will make sure I receive proper medical attention and support throughout my recovery. In her spare time, she will teach how to do various things like cook, sew, plant flowers, etc. My father was there for me emotionally also. Whenever I needed someone to talk to, I could always call or visit my father. I could talk to him about anything. My father taught me the importance of positive communication and relationships. I believe because I had a secure attachment with my parents, as an adult today, my relationship with my friends and family is positive. In addition, because of my attachment to my parents, I believe I display some of their traits when interacting with others(warm, kind, etc.).
Overall, I think my family handle conflict well.
In my family, I think conflict is a healthy experience when everybody is considered in the decision-making process. According to the book, families which are able to negotiate and find agreement are families with optimal outcomes (Walsh, Deflorio, Burnham, & Weiser,98). Like mention previously about choosing what to eat, when we negotiate with each other and reach an agreement, everybody seems satisfied(happy) with the outcome. I believe conflict can be healthy experience for families because it can teach them how to work together, increase their communication and negotiation skills. Lastly, I believe conflict can help a family strive to reach their full potential, for example, having a lack of resources in money, energy, time etc. The family can identify their conflict and then try to set goals to minimize their conflict together, which in return help them reach their full potential in that area in their
lives.
Discussion # 3 According to the book, attachment theory is a theory which explores how individuals develop but specifically within the context of family and intimate relationships (Walsh, Deflorio, Burnham, & Weiser,96). In addition, one of the major principles of attachment theory is that individuals use their personal experiences to construct models of “the self” and “others” which continue to influence our behaviors as adults and impacts our later relationships. The two people that I had a secure attachment to as a child were my mother and father. Whenever, I came home from school, I could expect mother to be home, unless she had to work. In addition, she always had something cooked or something in the refrigerator we could prepare for ourselves. My mother was there for me emotionally. If I was sick, which I was quite a lot as a child, she will make sure I receive proper medical attention and support throughout my recovery. In her spare time, she will teach how to do various things like cook, sew, plant flowers, etc. My father was there for me emotionally also. Whenever I needed someone to talk to, I could always call or visit my father. I could talk to him about anything. My father taught me the importance of positive communication and relationships. I believe because I had a secure attachment with my parents, as an adult today, my relationship with my friends and family is positive. In addition, because of my attachment to my parents, I believe I display some of their traits when interacting with others(warm, kind, etc.).