In relationships change is always occurring and couples are constantly having to adjust to the changes. Sometimes one spouse may resist the change and new demands while the other spouse embraces the change. When there is an unbalance between the couple communication issues begin to occur. “Dysfunctional transactional patterns describe how those attempts are enacted in repetitive, ongoing communication between the couple” (Berg-Cross, 2001, p. 291). There are several patterns that are usually apparent between couples when it comes to their communication problems. Couples will most likely do one of three things, mutually withdraw, mutually accuse, or
In relationships change is always occurring and couples are constantly having to adjust to the changes. Sometimes one spouse may resist the change and new demands while the other spouse embraces the change. When there is an unbalance between the couple communication issues begin to occur. “Dysfunctional transactional patterns describe how those attempts are enacted in repetitive, ongoing communication between the couple” (Berg-Cross, 2001, p. 291). There are several patterns that are usually apparent between couples when it comes to their communication problems. Couples will most likely do one of three things, mutually withdraw, mutually accuse, or