Forrest enjoys an active lifestyle and he regularly participates in physical activities. Penick and Fallshore (2005) have said that certain things provide personal meaning to seniors and this regards Mr. Forrest. To help him maintain a high level of satisfaction and overall well-being, counseling sessions should be conducted where these types of activities are promoted so that he will not feel as though there is something inherently wrong with them. Finally, Penick and Fallshore (2005) posit that a clear understand of gender differences if crucial to counseling older couples. In this scenario, Mrs. Forrest is responsible for the household’s maintenance and she is concerned about the continual upkeep when she travels. This may not be relevant to Mr. Forrest who most likely does not participate in household chores. Thus, he may believe that this is “women’s work” and probably have not given it any kind of consideration. Thus, a counselor can help to fill in the gaps by helping Mr. Forrest understand the full complexity of maintaining a home. Hopefully, Mr. Forrest will gain a greater awareness of his wife’s viewpoint and quite possibly think of alternatives to cleaning the home. For example, he can consider hiring a trusted housekeeper to relieve his spouse who is feeling overwhelmed. On the other hand, he can be counseled on the benefits of retirement living in regards to his active lifestyle if this option is not plausible. People who reach a sense of integrity in life, in Erikson’s terms see life as meaningful and worthwhile (Berger, K.
Forrest enjoys an active lifestyle and he regularly participates in physical activities. Penick and Fallshore (2005) have said that certain things provide personal meaning to seniors and this regards Mr. Forrest. To help him maintain a high level of satisfaction and overall well-being, counseling sessions should be conducted where these types of activities are promoted so that he will not feel as though there is something inherently wrong with them. Finally, Penick and Fallshore (2005) posit that a clear understand of gender differences if crucial to counseling older couples. In this scenario, Mrs. Forrest is responsible for the household’s maintenance and she is concerned about the continual upkeep when she travels. This may not be relevant to Mr. Forrest who most likely does not participate in household chores. Thus, he may believe that this is “women’s work” and probably have not given it any kind of consideration. Thus, a counselor can help to fill in the gaps by helping Mr. Forrest understand the full complexity of maintaining a home. Hopefully, Mr. Forrest will gain a greater awareness of his wife’s viewpoint and quite possibly think of alternatives to cleaning the home. For example, he can consider hiring a trusted housekeeper to relieve his spouse who is feeling overwhelmed. On the other hand, he can be counseled on the benefits of retirement living in regards to his active lifestyle if this option is not plausible. People who reach a sense of integrity in life, in Erikson’s terms see life as meaningful and worthwhile (Berger, K.