Psychology Spouse Paper
Event Essay #3
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PSY101090WB
Safa Karim
Safa.nadeem@ymail.com
Following up the article and trying to make some sense out of it, I think after the research done, the reason why researchers tend to believe girls want their spouse to look like their father is because they’ve all their lives looked up to the one guy who has been the only constant in their entire life, which is their father. For most of the girls out there, their fathers are their role models which is why they might look for their father in a guy.
Being a woman myself, and seeing other women around me, I believe this is not their major concern. Men and women both tend to be more practical nowadays than before. They look for a partner with a mentality the same as them. Considering from the country where I belong from, Pakistan, woman look for a man who are well established, more family orientated and with a good age gap between them for as the men, they look for a woman who is more traditional, cultural and somewhat religious too. Back there, you can say men and women are still a little old fashion from how men and women are here. People here are more practical than there. They look for a partner who would emotionally support them, share a good understanding level and are more independent as a couple. I see couples looking forward to running their house together rather than having the man just do it all by himself.
I believe it’s not just one thing you look for in a partner. When choosing a partner, you are becoming a part of their family and so there are a lot of stuff you need to look at. Theres also social pressure, emotional pressure and mental pressure as well as its a matter of life.
Emotionally a woman tends to choose a spouse who is more protective, caring and loving towards her while the man emotionally tends to choose a woman, who is understanding and supporting. Mentally, it is important for the two partners to be
12414.
PSY101090WB
Safa Karim
Safa.nadeem@ymail.com
Following up the article and trying to make some sense out of it, I think after the research done, the reason why researchers tend to believe girls want their spouse to look like their father is because they’ve all their lives looked up to the one guy who has been the only constant in their entire life, which is their father. For most of the girls out there, their fathers are their role models which is why they might look for their father in a guy.
Being a woman myself, and seeing other women around me, I believe this is not their major concern. Men and women both tend to be more practical nowadays than before. They look for a partner with a mentality the same as them. Considering from the country where I belong from, Pakistan, woman look for a man who are well established, more family orientated and with a good age gap between them for as the men, they look for a woman who is more traditional, cultural and somewhat religious too. Back there, you can say men and women are still a little old fashion from how men and women are here. People here are more practical than there. They look for a partner who would emotionally support them, share a good understanding level and are more independent as a couple. I see couples looking forward to running their house together rather than having the man just do it all by himself.
I believe it’s not just one thing you look for in a partner. When choosing a partner, you are becoming a part of their family and so there are a lot of stuff you need to look at. Theres also social pressure, emotional pressure and mental pressure as well as its a matter of life.
Emotionally a woman tends to choose a spouse who is more protective, caring and loving towards her while the man emotionally tends to choose a woman, who is understanding and supporting. Mentally, it is important for the two partners to be